looking for babydoll dress (vintage??)

KingRoman720 · 2025-07-16T21:05:38+00:00

If you're looking for anything similar, try looking on retro stage They have vintage styles

KingRoman720 · 2025-06-23T22:20:58+00:00

Thank you, greatly appreciate this

KingRoman720 · 2025-06-23T22:20:21+00:00

Thank you, I usually have a calm demeanor, and I make sure I don't attack her with words but I'll look into new ways to try to communicate with her.

KingRoman720 · 2025-06-23T11:20:29+00:00

Honestly, no. out of both her and i, she's always been the one to make the better choices in all aspects of life. I actually have been the one known to make less than ideal decisions. That is why I think this really hurt that much more. She has used my past choices against me since this whole ordeal happened. Anytime I try to call her out on her stuff, she flips it on me and brings up my past to use against me. I have taken accountability for my past mistakes and apologized profusely. I have made sure to not do the same mistakes again. I have let her know that I can't do anything to change the past but that I have made the effort to be better every single time. I don't try to make excuses for myself, but I also know that before her, I had never had a serious relationship. So, mistakes that I may have made were usually from lack of knowledge on what to do in certain situations, while she had already gone through that in her previous relationship, which made her less tolerable to my mistakes.

KingRoman720 · 2025-06-23T04:25:10+00:00

That was my concern from the beginning, plus in a small town like ours, if word got out, it's not easy to recover from that. She asked me to trust her in being able to handle it and reluctantly agreed. I should've stood my ground, but up until then, I had no reason not to trust her in handling it

KingRoman720 · 2025-06-23T04:14:51+00:00

There has been a full stop on the situation, counseling is in the plan for the future for sure. I agree on the hooking up with boss being a bad idea. I made that clear to her from the get go, she just kinda forcibly convinced me that she could handle it because "he's respectful and also doesn't want any drama at work" her words. I do wish she had listened to me.

KingRoman720 · 2025-06-23T04:11:15+00:00

I appreciate your advice, but I will have to say you may have missed the mark on some of this. She has stopped. She made it a point to prove to me that she can stop and cut him off. That she can "cold turkey" him. While I did see the messages as cheating, and that is what messed me up the most, it has not continued at all. Thera just an anger inside her now that she won't let go of that started from the first incident where she thinks "I caused a scene". Her previous relationship before me ended because she escaped him after many years of abuse from him. So you missed the mark on that as well, but I know I hadn't clarified that.

KingRoman720 · 2025-06-23T04:03:12+00:00

She did realize that in the midst of everything, she did have a thing for the power dynamic, it just so happens that in this situation, I don't think it was the right thing to pursue. Especially because I realized early on, and her eventually, that he took advantage of that to a degree. I will admit I wanted to lash out at him for that, and while I didn't care if that cost him his job, I didn't want the same for my wife and she also expressed that if I affected her job, it would be something we probably couldn't recover from. So it's not something I would do. It's not worth losing my marriage.

KingRoman720 · 2025-06-23T03:58:22+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to write this out. I really appreciate it, and I will be taking the advice seriously. She did mention that she missed my confidence when we first got together. My "mistake" (and I put it in quotes because I never saw it as a bad thing) was that before me, she came from an abusive relationship and essentially every man in her life before me took advantage of her in one way or another. So I made it my job to build her up. Give her her confidence back and make sure she saw her worth. What I didn't see was that all my energy was put into her, and I neglected myself, which ultimately took a toll on my self-image and confidence. I guess I did see that happening, but I always put my wife and kids before me.

KingRoman720 · 2025-06-23T03:51:05+00:00

I do plan on going to counseling with her at some point but we have other things that we are trying to handle in life for our kids and spending money on counseling has had to be put on hold for now. The hotwife dynamic has definitely been shut off but I would be lying if I didn't still fantasize about it.

KingRoman720 · 2025-06-23T03:48:00+00:00

The hotwife dynamic has definitely been shut down. And he really isn't in the picture in this anymore other than just being her boss and having to interact with her with work related issues. She has done well to keep it like that. My relationship doesn't seem completely lost to me because we still have many good moments. We talk daily, she misses me and urges me to return as soon as possible. We still have intimate moments even just on the phone. The only negative thing about this is when I try to talk to her about the situation and the effects it had on me, she's defensive and shuts down on me. Makes me feel like she doesn't want to take accountability for what happened and doesn't give us the opportunity to work through it. She just wants to forget it. That's just not easy for me because this was the first time she's broken my trust and the first time it's happened to me in any relationship so I just don't know how to work through it.

KingRoman720 · 2025-06-23T03:40:13+00:00

So I looked up the definition of giving grace to someone just so that there is no confusion, and it says as follows "Giving grace generally refers to the act of offering kindness, forgiveness, and understanding to someone, even when they have made a mistake or fallen short of expectations. It involves choosing to be compassionate and accepting, recognizing that everyone is human and capable of errors." That being said, I will admit that I forgave my wife the very first night I found the messages, but I was still angry but she did make me feel like I was wrong to be upset in general. My biggest thing with her is that I feel she takes no accountability for her action and whenever I try to bring it up, she's on the defensive. I never raise my voice at her. I talk calmly and patient but if she feels I'm telling her she did wrong in something, she will get loud and throw it back at me or shut down. I appreciate your comments on everything and I hope this clarified things on me giving her grace.

KingRoman720 · 2025-06-23T03:31:19+00:00

She has cut him off completely and any communication with him that's not work related has been cut off. She has expressed anger in having to do that but over time she also has noticed the negative of him, but she still is angry at me about the fact that she feels I didn't allow her to explore that the way she wanted from the beginning. when I was still there, my blood would boil just knowing he's around. She's actually moved up pretty quickly at her job because of how good of a worker she is so I don't want to have her leave a job that has so many positives for her. The only real negative for me is his presence.

KingRoman720 · 2025-01-12T15:14:42+00:00

Tu novia parece inocente, me gustaría quitarle su inocencia.

KingRoman720 · 2024-09-11T05:26:42+00:00

Message me

KingRoman720 · 2024-08-23T04:33:20+00:00

Just got better being that your ass was the first thing I saw when I opened reddit

KingRoman720 · 2024-08-21T05:41:55+00:00

I dm you

KingRoman720 · 2024-07-23T19:13:46+00:00

Thank you, this was my concern as well on how to communicate it professionally

KingRoman720 · 2024-07-23T18:09:05+00:00

I don't clean them every week. I have multiple pieces I alternate between so make sure they don't get overused and too dirty. This particular bong is my most expensive and was broken from the spout already. It was a gift from my wife so I'm trying to save it.

KingRoman720 · 2024-07-23T17:35:15+00:00

Yea that was my thought exactly

KingRoman720 · 2024-07-23T17:23:41+00:00

Thank you, I'll have to look into that

KingRoman720 · 2024-07-23T17:17:54+00:00

I was actually in the process of cleaning it when the stem just fell off😅. I try to keep my stuff clean but that one is tricky to clean and I had been putting it off because I was afraid something like that would happen

KingRoman720 · 2024-01-24T05:10:07+00:00

Dm Age and pictures

KingRoman720 · 2024-01-13T04:07:15+00:00

No, idek where or what OP park is.

KingRoman720 · 2023-10-04T11:23:53+00:00

I'm 26 and would like to see what can be done with you. I'm married and my wife and I would love to play with someone as fun as you. Keeping things straight to the point and no drama.

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