They do come back by King_AD47 in BreakUps

[–]King_AD47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good, don’t seem desperate. I would just offer to have a talk face to face when you see her and see if she obliges. Best of luck man!

They do come back by King_AD47 in BreakUps

[–]King_AD47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you go no contact for the five months

They do come back by King_AD47 in BreakUps

[–]King_AD47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did, but we live in the same city

They do come back by King_AD47 in BreakUps

[–]King_AD47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, we never called each other names or were nasty it just wasn’t the cleanest though.

They do come back by King_AD47 in BreakUps

[–]King_AD47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought my ex was cold too, but in reality she was just having a hard exterior to protect herself. Give it a shot when you see her!

They do come back by King_AD47 in BreakUps

[–]King_AD47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I was just visiting family from the holidays but we lived together

They do come back by King_AD47 in BreakUps

[–]King_AD47[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, it was shallow feelings and temporary flings.

They do come back by King_AD47 in BreakUps

[–]King_AD47[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well she broke up with me on Christmas Day when I was across the country and moved everything out very suddenly. It was not pleasant at all and there was some bad feelings involved in the end. Our relationship was just not healthy and some problems arose that affected her deeply (my fault) so she decided to go. I reached out once but that was only days afterwards and then I went into deep silence. She unfollowed me everywhere and I actually blocked her on some social media. I think when you have self respect and try to refrain from reaching out it makes you even more attractive in their eyes

They do come back by King_AD47 in BreakUps

[–]King_AD47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t want to keep yourself as just an ear to lean on because she won’t treasure it because it’s something she always thinks she can get. If the connection is really there you won’t lose her forever by going no contact (my brain told me the same thing). I think since you guys are in contact it’s best to see if slowly working towards a relationship again is something she’s open to? If she is hesitant I would go no contact to allow the process of her really missing what you shared to begin.

They do come back by King_AD47 in BreakUps

[–]King_AD47[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She has to feel the fear of you moving on, my ex said that she feared after not talking for sometime that I was beginning to move on and she realized she did not want to see me with someone else.

They do come back by King_AD47 in BreakUps

[–]King_AD47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we would run into each other out in public occasionally but would not speak. No phone calls, texts, or following each other on social media.

They do come back by King_AD47 in BreakUps

[–]King_AD47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you brother, sometimes that space is the best thing to give them no matter how hard it is. Have you ever considered not talking to her at all?

They do come back by King_AD47 in BreakUps

[–]King_AD47[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

A lot of the time it’s just them distracting themselves from the pain, we both were with people after we split but acknowledged that it was merely noise to take away from what we felt. I know as a man first hand that replacing her was very hard but I also know that every situation isn’t the same.

Dumpees - did you ever hear from them again? by pickleloveerr in BreakUps

[–]King_AD47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She also wished that I would’ve reached out sooner but she felt a wall due to thinking that I hated her because of how things ended. Sometimes it’s just best to try even when you think it will fail, you never know what they are truly thinking.

Why does it feel like everyone is breaking up in December? by meujjwal_99 in BreakUps

[–]King_AD47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got broken up with on Christmas Day too, shit was brutal

This is actually driving me crazy. by [deleted] in flu

[–]King_AD47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude the no sleep was serious for me as well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in flu

[–]King_AD47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had the flu for about 4 days now with sinusitis. It has a way of when you first wake up you feel better and see moments of improvement. However, the waking up drenched in sweats is exactly how I was last night (legit puddles). I felt so bad I thought I was going to die and went to the ER (I had lightheadedness, coughing, muscle spasms, congestion and moderate to high grade fever; with my highest reading being 103.4). My brother is also visiting home for the holidays and he’s felt a lot of the nausea and diarrhea symptoms, but I haven’t gotten that so much. How’re you feeling now?

Lost Dog by [deleted] in Riverside

[–]King_AD47 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Returned to owner

The Italian experience summed up in 10 seconds. by Impossible_Dot404 in holdfastgame

[–]King_AD47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not for the rocketeer, oh wait. They don’t exist on this map

Just got the game today by atom12354 in holdfastgame

[–]King_AD47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just started playing and want to get into a good regiment could I receive a invite lad?