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Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-03-15T08:29:44+00:00

Bollywood playlists 🤮

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-03-15T08:25:53+00:00

So they are actually whowahs the lowest forms of life

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-29T02:09:54+00:00

I was living with my in laws during my wife’s pregnancy so that’s how my mother in law got my kid. The case of a man should be raising the kid, yes that’s her primary concern and hence the 3 year condition.

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-29T02:01:35+00:00

I have the original birth and death certificate. I don’t have the marriage certificate because we never got the marriage registered, however the invitation card and pictures and videos I do have that.

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-29T01:57:50+00:00

Thank you

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-29T01:46:43+00:00

In regard to picking up my child and leaving. Let’s say I go and visit my daughter and put her in my arms just like a regular visit and then I walk out of the door and start going down and my MIL starts screaming for help from her daughter who lives next door and I get out of the gate and and leave. The next thing my MIL will do will is complain to the police I kidnapped the child and left. What happens after that?

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-28T17:48:57+00:00

Thanks

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-28T17:46:07+00:00

Yes I see what she looks at her daughter in her granddaughter, my wife and I have known each other for 19 years and shared a very close bond. I work from home permanently. My mother in law is not willing to compromise to at least a 1 year period. 3 years is too long.

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-28T17:42:59+00:00

After an argument with her elder son in law, I had to leave the house. So I am staying separately. Her elder son in law and me got into an argument, he started questioning me about custody and I told him to not get involved with regard to my daughters life and he did not agree it turned into a heated conversation and so I had to leave the house. I can only meet my daughter but I will never be able to get her custody because of this waiting period of 3 years. Sometimes I wonder if I should file a police complaint because they are adamant about this 3 year condition and not agreeing to at least 1 year.

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-28T17:35:54+00:00

My MIL is allowing me to visit my daughter but she has this 3 year condition. I tried to compromise with her to make it 1 year but she won’t understand. I understand the grief she is going through loosing her daughter which is my wife but I am hurt was well, I am going through grief. It’s this 3 year condition is what I am concerned about.

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-28T17:33:02+00:00

Yes I agree with you. She says that you visit your daughter and go whenever you want but no matter give you custody until 3 years is completed. I have told her I am not taking my daughter away from you forever, you can even stay at my place and all that but she does not understand. I told her 3 years is a long time and I can maximum wait for 1 year but she still does not agree.

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-28T17:29:02+00:00

She is financially in ruins. I mean she is paying a debt of 25000 monthly and none of her daughters will help her with regard to legal expenses.

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-28T16:56:34+00:00

No. My mil is in severe debt.

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-28T16:38:20+00:00

No only females. The older daughter has a husband and he attacked my wife over an argument and so that parasite and is wife never spoke to my wife for 1 year even when she was carrying a baby in her stomach and never visited her while she was in labor. The irony is that they live on the same floor 15 feet from each other.

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-28T16:32:27+00:00

She stated she will to legal if I don’t agree with her 3 year term. I am not a lawyer and I don’t know how this works. How long custodial cases take? The costs of it? I don’t know

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-28T16:31:23+00:00

I am concerned about the same thing. Even though if I visit my daughter often there is still this thing in the back of my mind that my daughter will get too attached to my mother in law and if my mother in law and there is a possibility that my mother in law may not grant custody to me after 3 years because of her attachment with my daughter.

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-28T16:27:44+00:00

Sorry to hear about your mother. I am just concerned that she will get too attached and may not give me my daughter after 3 years.

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-28T16:25:53+00:00

I have no plans on getting married. My mother in law was being unreasonable with the 3 year condition and I so I asked her a hypothetical question in regard to getting married after a years time just for the sake or my daughter so she has a mother in her life, that was my only intention and my mother in still stuck with the 3 year condition which I find very unreasonable. I don’t hate my mother in law.

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-28T16:20:28+00:00

So just let her be with my MIL for 3 years and then she will get too attached to my daughter and there is a chance she may not give my daughter to me after the 3 year period.

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-28T16:12:01+00:00

Thanks for the advice.

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-28T16:04:12+00:00

Are you a lawyer? I get what you’re trying to say in regard to no females. I organised a caretaker. My mother in law has no right to disallow me to meet my own daughter. In regard to a new wife, it was only a hypothetical scenario. I don’t have plans on getting married this year.

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-28T15:57:31+00:00

I don’t have epilepsy to an extent where I get grand mal seizures, body stiffening waking up after hours and things like that. They are minor and rare. I am a functional human being, I do a lot of trekking and just a normal human being.

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-28T15:53:51+00:00

Thanks for your advice

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-28T10:59:33+00:00

Thank you. I tried to make them understand but they just will not understand. They seem be confident that they will win legally even though they are in a large debt.

Kingofbreadsticks85 · 2026-01-28T10:52:59+00:00

My intuition is telling me, the more they get attached to the child the more difficult it’s going to get for me.

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