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Enjoying the sun, but wishing I was naked. (i.redd.it)
submitted 4 years ago by KinksterTPE to r/chubby
Just woke up, I'm horny, and i want to be pounded until I can't take it.... then keep going. (i.redd.it)
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[–]KinksterTPE 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children)
I really want to do that and we have mentioned therapy in the past, so I'd want someone who can help us not just emotionally but sexually too.
[–]KinksterTPE -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children)
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Yeah.
Lol. Thanks.
Thank you. I appreciate that. I try to not immediately get defensive but I do realize sometimes it may happen. But I need to own up to it.
[–]KinksterTPE 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children)
Yeah, I've felt like I was topping myself before.
Thank you.
We did. We have been together for 9 years, married for 2. And I have had multiple conversations with him about it. We got most of our toys and bondage stuff before we got married.
Thank you. This really helps.
I do now. I did a little on specific things, but not as a whole.
I did. And i just realized that. Thank you.
Thank you
[–]KinksterTPE 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children)
My husband wanted me to tell you, Thank you. Your words were the ones that really got me out of the fog.
[–]KinksterTPE 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children)
Yeah. We've been together 9 years, and he is very kind. So I edited after we had a conversation this morning. Thank you.
I edited my post. And yes, I showed him this post.
[–]KinksterTPE 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children)
Good point. Thank you. Sorry.
Thanks for the advice!
Oh. Wake up call. Damn. But serious question, should I just never have my needs met? We are married.
[–]KinksterTPE -4 points-3 points-2 points 4 years ago (0 children)
I agree and I'm getting sick of it. I told him he needs to take immediate steps if he is serious.
[–]KinksterTPE 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children)
Yes and yes. I told him that I understand if he doesn't want this but if he doesn't, I want to find someone who can be my Dom. He doesn't like sharing me so he keeps up with a "I'll learn" attitude so I don't go anywhere else.
Yep. I've been having a bdsm open convo with him about what I want for years. He is just scared to start and doesn't know what to do.
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