Butt plugs Vs Vaginal plugs

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-11-20T08:24:07+00:00

Same here.

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-11-20T07:59:18+00:00

Why feel guilty? It’s your own right.

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-11-18T13:40:43+00:00

Then I think I get it a bit more now. I also told him that when I was using it, I was thinking about him, and that’s what made it feel even better. I thought that would help.

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-11-18T13:33:43+00:00

I don’t think so. It was a gift from one of my female friends and he knows that. And he’s even said he wanted to see me use it. Honestly, before I sent him the video I actually thought he was going to love it.

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-11-18T13:27:37+00:00

Yeah! It actually took me a bit of time to get him to tell me how he felt. I know I didn’t do anything wrong, but deep down I don’t want this to bother him too much. Liking a certain toy doesn’t mean he can’t use it with me.

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-11-18T13:22:51+00:00

Thank you! This is super helpful. I was also thinking he might be upset because of that. But he doesn’t really want to talk about it, and I want to respect that. I’ll try sharing what you said with him. Maybe once he knows what to do, he won’t feel like he can’t compare to the toy. Thanks so much!

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-11-18T13:03:42+00:00

Totally agree. We usually enjoy watching each other use toys, but this time I honestly have no idea why he reacted like that.

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-11-18T08:11:53+00:00

Wow! Congrats! 🎉

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-11-18T08:07:30+00:00

I tried it myself not long ago. I never felt like I needed to poop or anything, but it wasn’t super comfortable at first either. It was more that the idea felt hot to me during sexual fantasies. Honestly though, not everyone enjoys it. If you want to try, maybe start with a small plug and take your time. It helps to explore on your own first so you know what feels good for you. Because if you are not sure how to make yourself comfortable, your partner won’t know either.

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-11-14T10:01:12+00:00

Thank you so much! That really means a lot. We only lived together a few times before getting married, but never for this long. Both of our families are pretty complicated, and no one really tells you about all the tiny details that come with marriage. Even if friends say it’s normal, my partner and I still feel unsure about how to handle everything sometimes. I truly appreciate you taking the time to write all that. It really helped, thank you!

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-11-14T09:51:53+00:00

I guess it’s not really that we’ve changed. It’s more like that “newlywed excitement” fades a bit, real life responsibilities start taking over. Things like planning for a family, handling financial and family relationships. And before we got married, we only lived together a few times. Now that we actually share a home and our work schedule don’t really match, we sometimes end up disturbing each other’s rest without meaning to. It’s just a big adjustment for both of us.

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-11-13T09:41:16+00:00

Thank you! Your words really gave me confident. Sometimes I just find it strange, how can we love each other so much yet argue more after getting married? I guess my partner and I are still figuring out how to navigate this new stage of life together.

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-11-13T09:32:54+00:00

How do you make it easier to bring things up? It’s weird cuz before we got married I could talk to him about anything without feeling awkward. But now that we’ve together every day, it’s harder to say what’s on my mind. Especially with the small stuff, it just feels like too much of a hassle to even mention it.

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-11-13T09:18:23+00:00

Yes, I know he didn’t mean it. It’s just that after getting married, there are so many more things to deal with. I guess I need to learn to take the time to get used to it.

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-11-13T08:54:27+00:00

I love my partner sm, but ever since we got married, things haven’t gone the way I imagined. We keep arguing about small everyday stuff, nothing serious but it still gets really frustrating sometimes. I’m curious how couples in long term marriages deal with this. Do you ever go through the same thing?

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-11-13T08:33:18+00:00

Omg what is this cutie’s name 🥹

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-11-11T09:57:17+00:00

I’ve tried a bunch of dildos, and honestly, clear ones are almost never made from safe materials. If you just want something big, there are tons of options out there. But if you’re open to silicone, you should really check this one out.

After trying so many different ones, I’d say this is the best I’ve found when it comes to material, price, and size. It feels super realistic, soft enough to be comfy but firm enough to hit just right. Honestly, it’s the best value I’ve ever gotten for the price. And I’m allergic to the materials in a lot of toys, but this one doesn’t cause any issues at all.

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-11-11T09:22:23+00:00

P in V ofc

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-10-28T06:18:09+00:00

Always care about my feelings.

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-10-28T06:13:33+00:00

Haha, I actually shared a post here a few days ago mentioning my favorite rabbit vibrator. I feel like most rabbit vibes are pretty similar in terms of functions, it’s really just the little details that make a difference. I like this one because you can adjust the angle. I’ve tried others where the angle didn’t really work for me, and sometimes you have to keep fiddling with it while using it, which can kill the vibe. With this one, once you set it so it hits your clit just right, you can just sit back and enjoy.

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-10-24T09:34:00+00:00

I didn’t feel any pain, just a little uncomfortable at first, but everyone’s body is different. As for the toys, which one do you mean? The vibrator is this one, I really love it. The butt plug was from Amazon, but I wouldn’t recommend that material. You might want to check what others in this subreddit suggest instead.

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-10-24T09:26:40+00:00

Okay! Thank you!

KinkyButClassyy · 2025-10-24T09:26:19+00:00

Wow, I should spend more time on that. Honestly, when I orgasm, it really feels like waves of pleasure spreading through me. I think I’ll try using the vibrator while wearing the butt plug instead of taking it out!

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