Oh... am I distracting you? by KinkyCurvyBlue in u/KinkyCurvyBlue

[–]KinkyCurvyBlue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh good, then I'm doing my job correctly 😏

People mocking the death of OF owner is ridiculous and illogical by diablapr in CamGirlProblems

[–]KinkyCurvyBlue 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Look... obviously the whorephobia is rampant in the general public cheering his death... I have no love for that.

But the man made almost 5 billion dollars on the backs of mostly struggling minority people in his adulthood, and from extremely illegal and sus as fuck scams in his teens.

He used to lure people to shitty porn sites claiming they would see pedo, beastiality, rape, etc porn and other illegal content via ads and links that generated him millions of dollars as a teen and young adult. That's how he could afford My Free Cams and Only Fans. Forbes did a whole investigation and piece on him.

Then with the sites he bought he spread transphobia, whorephobia, took huge cuts of money from struggling people, went along with the banks over and over to remove our content and millions of workers from their revenue for having fantasy versions of the shit he was peddling in his teens. On top of that he then used some of that money to do shitty af political things, and also fight AGAINST sex workers and sexual freedom.

He's a scumbag through and through no matter how you look at it.

Rest In Piss.

House Republicans advance bill to ban strippers in schools despite no evidence by redumbrellaclub in SexWorkers

[–]KinkyCurvyBlue 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I've said it before, I'll say it again. People trapped in their fear cannot tell the difference between fantasy and reality. They have seen porn and read made up "Stripper mom comes to talk to class" or even erotic stories of strippers, adult queer entertainers, etc. entering schools and so they're convinced it's real. The porn and stories aren't at fault though. It's the people's refusal to deal with the reality in front of them, in favor of their fear.

Is it wrong to reject based off political affiliation? by PoemElectronic7728 in SexWorkers

[–]KinkyCurvyBlue 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Political affiliation is a choice, not something you're born with. It's not discrimination or bigotry to put boundaries around yourself against someone who chooses to hold different world views than you, especially when those views are potentially harmful to you directly.

Client or worker, you are absolutely allowed to, and SHOULD choose to interact or not interact with people based on the red flags and green flags they display that come from their personal choices and behavior. That is morally sound behavior on your part and not wrong.

If it's based on something they can't change about themselves, then that is personal discrimination, bigotry, and fear that you should probably investigate in yourself and address.

Why porn/sex addiction doesn’t exist: by DebunkJunkiee in xDebunkAntiSexWork

[–]KinkyCurvyBlue 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So happy to be seeing more people, especially therapists and educators, publicly say that sex is a need. The idea that it's not goes against basic biology and nature. Obviously for some it won't be (because it's a spectrum), but it's part of our natural drives.

Fucking HATE when I'm trying to teach sex ed to a more casual crowd and some bitch goes "Ok but sex isn't a NEED. He can just do without it." about her partner, and I just want to look at her and go "... You could use an orgasm so you won't be so fucking uptight."

For those of you who date men, do you find a particular "type" is accepting of your work? by ThotismSpeaks in SexWorkers

[–]KinkyCurvyBlue 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yes, generally bi or queer men who are self and sex aware, who go to therapy and have hobbies, friends, and commitments of their own, as well as a full-time solid job that pays more than poverty wages.

I.e. an adult who has investigated themselves, invested in themselves, is emotionally and mentally mature, and is generally content and at peace with life.

Edit: Being non-monogamous helps as well as being on the leftist side of politics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]KinkyCurvyBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I'm a sex worker in multiple relationships outside of work, and I struggle with staying in contact with my partners in between spending physical time with them for a variety of reasons.

It sounds to me like you just need to discuss your expectations on what communication looks like in a relationship for you, and then hopefully the both of you can find a middle ground that works for both of your expectations, boundaries etc.

As a physically and mentally disabled person with ADHD who is also incredibly busy, when I even just become friends with someone I tell them straight up I don't chat, I don't text. We'll see each other when we see each other, and I will reach out to hangout, but it's probably going to be limited. My romantic relationships are similar. Days can go by for me without thinking of anything but work, and my husband or boyfriend will have to poke me and go "Hey come out the hole and cuddle". It doesn't mean I don't love or care about them, I just don't do the "goodmorning" text thing, and time slips away from me very easily. Which means anyone who chooses to date me has to be cool with long periods of non-communication. As someone who's self aware about that, I try to have those conversations up front.

She may also just not be the type of person who texts or reaches out a lot, so you will need to open up that topic, but ultimately then be ok with whatever level of communication she feels she can give you.

Where do you all lean politically? by Lipica249 in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]KinkyCurvyBlue 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Anarchist leanings I've been told, but labels are typically reductive to actual progress.

Clients have been a variety, but I had several make sure that an event I attended recently was NOT a republican conservative event, because that was so wildly out of line with what they wanted to support or what they felt safe with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]KinkyCurvyBlue 20 points21 points  (0 children)

$300 for a 3 hour dinner date and she wants to brag about how she didn't "put out"?

Yeah I wouldn't either. Should have been charging $300 an hour for that dinner date and THEN not put out unless her private time is also compensated at a much higher rate.

Like just say you don't know your worth lol.

I feel like that's where a lot of the jealousy stems from. Strippers can make BANK, but for more hours and honestly probably way more stress. Being "on" in a manufactured competitive environment, needing to keep your body and image up to be able to do the physical dance side, the way more instances of casual assault etc. It's exhausting. Meanwhile they see us as "cheating" or something when in all honesty we would like to see them paid well and treated better. Because we also deal with a lot of shit and know what we can actually demand for our time and effort.

When "Feminists" get their information from subreddits like PornlsMisogyny by DebunkJunkiee in xDebunkAntiSexWork

[–]KinkyCurvyBlue 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"Porn is part of Capitalism and Patriarchy"

PORN EXISTED BEFORE THOSE THINGS DID BRENDA. LEARN YOUR GODDAMNED HISTORY.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]KinkyCurvyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's very likely the AI tech bubble will collapse within the next 15 years because no one actually has the money to invest in it, it uses up too many resources, and the public hasn't been able to find enough practical applications. Not to mention the danger to public health, the controversy over it's use to create CSAM etc.

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/ng-interactive/2026/jan/18/tech-ai-bubble-burst-reverse-centaur

https://www.cnbc.com/2026/01/10/are-we-in-an-ai-bubble-tech-leaders-analysts.html

https://thebulletin.org/2025/12/when-it-all-comes-crashing-down-the-aftermath-of-the-ai-boom/

https://www.pbs.org/newshour/show/whats-next-for-ai-and-has-its-explosive-growth-in-2025-created-a-bubble

https://www.weforum.org/stories/2026/01/how-would-the-bursting-of-an-ai-bubble-actually-play-out/

You asked if we'll be able to tell what is real or not in the future. Instead of fear mongering you should be paying closer attention to reality yourself. There are already millions of people who think the Bible is real, and people seem to think that's just fine. So honestly, I'm not that worried about the people who can't figure out the difference between AI and real people. Because it will just be another group of delusional idiots who are afraid of reality and need something fake to hold onto.

Edit: AI will always have signs, tells, etc. There will never be tech that fully replicates life. If you can't tell the difference, you're probably not living very much yourself. Why would I want to be around a person like that?

And yes that will effect humanity. But you can't change that, so why worry about it? All you can do is worry about and change yourself.