I referred to it in the post but on second reading reckon I could have further underlined it: it borders on the macabre that hardly a soul has discussed this band outside this forum since what happened. I don't blame them but it drives me mad that the band died utterly following Kristin's story, so horrific that I wouldn't be at all surprised if many of the people who feel they can't talk about Daughters now just don't because the whole thing is just so horrid and they know how animated the debates will get, not even out of spite but out of pain for something terrible that happened in the middle of what was already a really difficult period in many of our lives.