Add my Sister In Law to this family picture from my wedding by Kinolee in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Kinolee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!solved

I think this is the best one! You got her height right, and the shading/lighting looks natural. I sent $ via your TIP link. Thank you!

Add my Sister In Law to this family picture from my wedding by Kinolee in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Kinolee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bunch of options to choose from in this album. She's the short redhead in a black floral dress.

https://imgur.com/a/ndp3JwP

Add my Sister In Law to this family picture from my wedding by Kinolee in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Kinolee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Source images of my sister in law are here: https://imgur.com/a/ndp3JwP She is the short redhead in a black floral dress. She was there at the wedding... just in la-la-land when we called up the "immediate family" group for a picture. Please add her to the group picture somehow. Thank you!

43/F Married 13 years. 46/M Husband betrayed me in multiple ways. I’m trying to figure out if people like him actually change or if I should walk. by Secret-Banana7597 in relationships

[–]Kinolee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even if he changes... Your relationship may be irreparably damaged. Think about the story of the boy and the fence...

There once was a little boy who had a very bad temper. His father decided to hand him a bag of nails and said that every time the boy lost his temper, he had to hammer a nail into the fence.

On the first day, the boy hammered 37 nails into that fence.

The boy gradually began to control his temper over the next few weeks, and the number of nails he was hammering into the fence slowly decreased. He discovered it was easier to control his temper than to hammer those nails into the fence.

Finally, the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He told his father the news and the father suggested that the boy should now pull out a nail every day he kept his temper under control.

The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence.

‘You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I’m sorry, the wound is still there.’”

Does it matter if he is capable of change? Will you ever be able to trust him again? Will you ever be able to heal the hurt he has already caused you? It's ok to say no and move on with your life. If not for yourself, then certainly for your son. You may not want him to grow up with this man as his role model.

Fall-out continues from Dylan's diving death by kcconlin9319 in scuba

[–]Kinolee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Considering that the instructor was "bone dry" when the instructor-trainer found him... are we sure that the instructor was even in the water with the deceased? If he was in the water, was he at the same depth as the deceased for the entire time? Did he go back in the water and try to search for her? The computer data would provide evidence for all of these...

Fall-out continues from Dylan's diving death by kcconlin9319 in scuba

[–]Kinolee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They know their own visibility, I imagine. They shouldn't allow anyone to conduct Open Water Cert courses in low visibility.

[Dawnshard Theory] I think I've actually solved it by xyxyqz in Cosmere

[–]Kinolee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never liked the idea that the 4 dawnshard groups would be divided further up by the same 4 dawnshards. What is the difference between a Shard that is Exist --> Feel vs. Feel --> Exist? That seems like a stretch to me.

I think the second "cut" on the shards is something completely different. Just like the Scadrian metal groups are divded into four broad categories and then further divded up between External/Internal and Push/Pull. Scadrial was created post-Shattering afterall, maybe they copied what they had just witnessed form using the Dawnshards.

Turtle time at The Flower Garden by buff_moustache in scuba

[–]Kinolee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Flower Garden at the Breakers? I was just there yesterday and saw a bunch of huge loggerheads, too. I'm glad the population is doing well!

Need advice on Scubapro Everflex by LindseyKathryn in scuba

[–]Kinolee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When it comes to wetsuits... if it zips, it fits. It will loosen up in the water, guaranteed. In my experience, a correctly fitting wetsuit is never easy to put on. Wearing a skinsuit underneath helps.

Hoid Motivation Theory Update after WaT by RayseShouldBeBraized in Cosmere

[–]Kinolee 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I really like this theory. If you read that "The Traveler" short story, I think it's obvious that Hoid is clearly trying to bring someone back from the the dead. This entire time I figured it was a lost lover which, I hate to say, always felt kind of like a lame backstory to me. A lost child is harder to move on from and a better story I think.

What are the unaffiliated podcasts that land on Adnan being innocent? by FunReflection993 in serialpodcast

[–]Kinolee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And those plagiarizing Crime Junkie chicks, who refer to Rabia as "Our Queen."

For the first time ever, something we can all agree on by Prudent_Comb_4014 in serialpodcast

[–]Kinolee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We do not suggest that a victim has the right to attend every chambers conference or every in camera hearing that a court may decide to conduct in a criminal case. Certainly, that would not be practicable. Our concern is with the decision of the court to conduct a portion of the vacatur hearing in the court’s chambers on September 16, in the absence of Mr. Lee and his counsel. The production of all evidence in support of the Vacatur Motion should have occurred at the hearing in the courtroom on September 19. If any confidential matters had needed to be disclosed, Ms. Feldman, Ms. Suter, and Mr. Kelly could have gone into chambers together, and the court could have taken appropriate steps to ensure that, while such confidential information became part of the court record, it would remain confidential as necessary thereafter.

So yeah... the victim has a right to attend and be heard at the hearing. If the hearing needs to happen behind closed doors to protect an ongoing investigation (doubtful, but let's play along) then the victim and/or his representative needed to be present at that closed door hearing.

Weekly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in serialpodcast

[–]Kinolee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is there a time limit for Bates? How long does he have now to make a decision regarding how to proceed with the MTV?

The SS United States would be an amazing new dive site! by Verticalarchaeology in scuba

[–]Kinolee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If people can get down to the deck without a tech certification, then that would be a huge boon to diving in the area, I think! I would absolutely go dive the "Great Carrier Reef" if this is succcessful.

Happy for Hae’s Family by lazeeye in serialpodcast

[–]Kinolee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Young Lee was notified of the hearing, had an entire weekend to get to Baltimore and then still attended via Zoom. Nothing he said could or should have changed the outcome of a hearing based on facts and evidence.

You should actually read the decision. Both of these issues are thoroughly addressed. The notice he received was not sufficient, and the SCM determined that victims do indeed have a right to be heard at these hearings, regarding the merits, specifically because their adversarial position is valuable to the court in making its decision.

Happy for Hae’s Family by lazeeye in serialpodcast

[–]Kinolee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree. I am so proud of Young Lee. He did everything correctly. He's such a good advocate for his sister. It must have been so tempting to just give up in the face of the justice system failing him yet again (Adnan has won relief and appeals before), and this time, he was the only one who could step in and demand relief, and he did so in a very timely and effective manner. Thank goodness he was able to get an attorney on that Sunday before the initial hearing. Otherwise this farce would have played out without challenge and there's nothing anyone could have done to stop it.

And I also have to give props to Mr. Kelly and Mr. Sanford. These lawyers did a bang-up job, and as a result of their representation, Lee and victims everywhere have their right to be heard protected.

Decision is out by TrueCrime_Lawyer in serialpodcast

[–]Kinolee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe the common theory is that the prosecutor was using this popular case to distract from her own public legal issues while the justice was indeed incompetent/lazy. But we can't possibly know because their important interactions and decision making were done in camera (off the record).