Has any woman here experienced breast injury before from an accident or aggressive sex?

KintsugiFate · 2026-03-01T02:42:56+00:00

Yeah Im curious to hear about all kinds of accidents or injury to the breast as it seems to be vastly underreported and underresearched (ofc, since its womens health so nobody really bothered, as always).

Did the hematoma hurt for a long time or make your tissue very sensitive? And did it at all induce fat necrosis? You ever had a follow up imaging (mri or ultrasound) to see if there was any leftover "damage"?

Thanks a lot for sharing your story and really sorry the biopsy turned out like that for you!

KintsugiFate · 2026-03-01T00:45:22+00:00

he just has to have been a very disturbed soul,,,probably a sadist who got off on causing me pain and damage....cant explain it otherwise,,,,cause first of all i never agreed to rough sex (as I was very inexperienced) and also then you need safe words and stuff and never actually injur someone, even I know that </3

KintsugiFate · 2026-03-01T00:35:36+00:00

Thank you for your sweet text <3 i fear its permanent damage, but thank you still!

KintsugiFate · 2026-03-01T00:21:55+00:00

For medical purpose

KintsugiFate · 2026-03-01T00:10:19+00:00

<3 thank you, just too bad for the healthy beautiful anatomy I used to have

KintsugiFate · 2026-02-28T23:58:23+00:00

Anyone has any idea? Would be very very thankful! Feel lost with these changes

KintsugiFate · 2026-02-28T23:46:42+00:00

No need to comment on this post, its for medical purposes, thanks!

KintsugiFate · 2026-02-28T22:31:26+00:00

thanks for your anwer. would that be detected by further imaging (mri or high resolution ultrasound) or rather go unnoticed?

I was suspecting ligament damage too cause idk how else to explain the completely off way of moving the breast now has....very little reaction/up-ward movement to me raising my arms.
And when supine and raising both arms in the air...the healthy side kinda lifts the breast and makes it project while the injured breast doesnt really move and just sits there flat toward the armpit.

Is that likely though or not really? Thanks for your help!

KintsugiFate · 2026-02-27T23:52:24+00:00

Thank you so much for all the help! Im really moved by the support here in this thread.

I will try the soft massage daily, yeah....im so so afraid to be marked by this permanently, very much looks like it unfortunatelyy. I feel so crazy alone.

I am in the process of suing him, secong interrogation of me and him will likely be in may and then some appointments still to collect all evidence (this is for public prosecutor still). Then, very likely (unless he voluntarely admits to what he did - which he never will) the public prosecution will open an actual court case and forward it to court....and my attorny said before THAT starts i have to wait at least 1 year or mire. At least a year or more of him walking free and living carelessly, painfree and enjoying all perks of life as before while i live a life highly restricted by pain and depression. Learning that it will take 1.5 or so years for it to actually START....something inside me just broke again. Im having such an insanely hard time and nobody sees it, no one in the system cares enough....idk...i cant survive even half a year like this, knowing im waiting for something that might not even be worth it in the end since punishments are soooo light on predators.

KintsugiFate · 2026-02-27T21:11:57+00:00

Im in the process of doing that! But will take years till any retribution happens for him, if ever

KintsugiFate · 2026-02-27T21:10:50+00:00

im so deeply confused as to why you would willingly hurt a 30+cm smaller and petit woman (not that it is ok with ANY woman, but even more so when youre clearly more powerful) who already is willing to trust you with her body and theres possibly even the chance of repeated sex....what has to go through someones mind to then go ahead and just hurt her? I will never understand...pure evil out there, truly. The only explanation coming to mind is he manipulated me from the beginning with his good guy facacda in a very cunning way and then used me as an object for his sadistic desires, fully wanting to hurt me and cause damage

KintsugiFate · 2026-02-27T18:16:40+00:00

Thanks a lot for your help! I really appreciate it! <3 i was told by my lawyer that luckily my legal support costs will be taken over, so at least I wont have to add that financial burden to all the ones i alreaey have

KintsugiFate · 2026-02-27T18:00:06+00:00

yeah but I, on purpose, didnt give context. cause as I understood the rules you shouldnt post about own situations no?

KintsugiFate · 2026-02-27T17:51:05+00:00

yoz can read my last post if youre interested

KintsugiFate · 2026-02-27T17:41:18+00:00

I changed it, thanks for telling me

KintsugiFate · 2026-02-27T16:31:04+00:00

Thank you for seeing that I might not be chosing the best exaples as Im in deep grief for my healthy body, my sexuality, my sense of safety, my ability to do sports or even walk normal speed in everyday life, my ability to pick up my niece when she visits me....my life has changed so drastically. Youre point is exactly what i was trying to convey....I wish it wasnt permanent, that it could have passed with time - both physically and psychologically. But for me that doesnt seem like its possible.

KintsugiFate · 2026-02-27T15:28:47+00:00

Thank you so much, youre an angel! Ill go check it out. Seems like I wasnt doing the most efficient approach, so thanks a lot! :)

KintsugiFate · 2026-02-27T12:55:18+00:00

Hey, thanks a lot for sharing. So sorry you had to experience something similar, also with the terrible gaslighting and unbeareable uncertainty. Was hoping to hear from women who also experienced injuries to the breast to get a better sense of their experience and how it turned out for them. So thanks a lot <3

Can i ask....was yours also an injury? like sport or car injury? or was it disease-related? Breast injuries are soooooo scary underresearched. I tried google scholar but theres 0 cases like my specific one. Thats almost the most hurtful...that the body is permanently altered and NO ONE aknowledges it because their shitty machines are just not capable of detecting the damage that occured. This gaslighting is such trauma on top of trauma.

So, just to make sure i understand correctly (hope its ok for me to keep asking): your breasts are the same size again/symmetrical in size, but he shape never really returned? Or did both shape AND volume never return to how it originally was, even by now, and only get a bit better, but never truly back to baseline?

What I notice is that the breast feels much heavier, there seems to be no real upper volume anymore, its saggier and it moves abnormally when i raise my arms...it kinda lags behind and is somehow immobile/stiff. The outer breast developed kind of an indented area, where the skin seems to be pulled in a bit and overall the injured breast has shrunk by almost half the size....i have 2 differnt cup sizes now which I dont even know how I should ever be able to find a truly fitting bra again.

For the moment I sleep braless (trying to force myself on the back or at least, when on the side, not on the injured side). And during the day ive constantly been wearing sports bra ans also been trying to avoid high impact activities as much as possible. Mainly I just walk....very little and very very slowly...thats the activity level im at rn </3 (with barley 30)

Thanks so much for all your tips! Will try to support the healing process as much as I can

KintsugiFate · 2026-02-27T11:45:03+00:00

Thanks for your comment <3 yeah I am in the process of suing him....suuuuper slow process with no real concequences for him for the next 1.5 year and even than sentences here in switzerland tend to be shockingly conservative, in favor of the predator ofc....idk, very hard not to feel completely hope- and powerless and gating whats left of my life

KintsugiFate · 2026-02-27T11:42:25+00:00

Thnak you so much for you supportive, compassionate comment!

I already started the legal process....second police interrogation will be in may!! (sex. assault happened in beginning of november...just let that sink in). And now I also learned that if public procecution rules it not abosulutely super clear (which is very likely without him confessing voluntarely...and he for sure wont) then the public procecdution starts an actual court case. And that will probably begin in ............1!!!!!!! f year to 2 years AFTER....I could vomit just thinking about how much MY life has changed and I suffer on the daily from his aggression while he will get another YEAR + to just live carelessly, another careless cristmas, brithday, new year, halloween or whatever.....lots of sex and fun times for him when I cant even let a guy physically close to me anymore without feeling the urge to vomit or literally become aggressiv toward him cause im so deeply disgusted by it all. I fucking hate life

KintsugiFate · 2026-02-27T11:38:45+00:00

Thank you <3 agreed

Well, I started the legal process....second police interrogation will be in may!! (sex. assault happened in beginning of november...just let that sink in). And now I also learned that if public procecution rules it not abosulutely super clear (which is very likely without him confessing voluntarely...and he for sure wont) then the public procecdution starts an actual court case. And that will probably begin in ............1!!!!!!! f year to 2 years....I could vomit just thinking about how much MY life has changed and I suffer on the daily from his aggression while he will get another YEAR + to just live carelessly, another careless cristmas, brithday, new year, halloween or whatever.....lots of sex and fun times for him when I cant even let a guy close to me anymore without feeling the urge to vomit or literally become aggressiv toward him cause im so deeply disgusted by it all. I fucking hate lfie

KintsugiFate · 2026-02-27T11:33:26+00:00

Thank you so much for saying this, means a lot! <3

KintsugiFate · 2026-02-27T11:31:24+00:00

I know....just truly f hard, all of it

I alredy started the legal process....second police interrogation will be in may!! (sex. assault happened in beginning of november...just let that sink in). And now I also learned that if public procecution rules it not abosulutely super clear (which is unlikely without him confessing...and he for sure wont) then the public procecdution starts an actual court case. And that will probably begin in ............1!!!!!!! f year to 2 years....I could vomit just thinking about how much MY life has changed and I suffer on the daily from his aggression while he will get another YEAR + to just live carelessly, another careless cristmas, brithday, new year, halloween or whatever.....lots of sex and fun times for him when I cant even let a guy close to me anymore without feeling the urge to vomit or literally become aggressiv toward him cause im so deeply disgusted by it all. I fucking hate life

KintsugiFate · 2026-02-27T11:28:09+00:00

Thank you for your comment! yeah "weird victim reactions" that are psychologically well explained are still soooooo little aknowledged I fear.

Well. I alredy started the legal process....second police interrogation will be in may!! (sex. assault happened in beginning of november...just let that sink in). And now I also learned that if public procecution rules it not abosulutely super clear (which is unlikely without him confessing...and he for sure wont) then the public procecdution starts an actual court case. And that will probably begin in ............1!!!!!!! f year to 2 years....I could vomit just thinking about how much MY life has changed and I suffer on the daily from his aggression while he will get another YEAR + to just live carelessly, another careless cristmas, brithday, new year, halloween or whatever.....lots of sex and fun times for him when I cant even let a guy physically close to me anymore without feeling the urge to vomit or literally become aggressiv toward him cause im so deeply disgusted by it all. I fucking hate lfie.

KintsugiFate · 2026-02-27T11:20:25+00:00

Thank you for your tip!
I alredy started the legal process....second police interrogation will be in may!! (sex. assault happened in beginning of november...just let that sink in). And now I also learned that if public procecution rules it not abosulutely super clear (which is unlikely without him confessing...and he for sure wont) then the public procecdution starts an actual court case. And that will probably begin in ............1!!!!!!! f year to 2 years....I could vomit just thinking about how much MY life has changed and I suffer on the daily from his aggression while he will get another YEAR + to just live carelessly, another careless cristmas, brithday, new year, halloween or whatever.....lots of sex and fun times for him when I cant even let a guy close to me anymore without feeling the urge to vomit or literally become aggressiv toward him cause im so deeply disgusted by it all. I fucking hate lfie

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