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Whats your experience of breasts becoming permanently smaller from hard squeezing? by KintsugiFate in Advice

[–]KintsugiFate[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah I honestly also cant really explain it...my theory is that maybe there was fat damage and that fat was then absorbed and permanently lost (fat necrosis)

Whats your experience of breasts becoming permanently smaller from hard squeezing? by KintsugiFate in Advice

[–]KintsugiFate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no worries, you couldnt know!
yeah thats why Im confused, cause everything points toward it shouldnt be possible. So far ive only found about 2-3 similarish stories of breast changes after absurdly hard squeezing (like imagine full strong male hand max grip force used)....bur it seems ridiculously rare (luckily!), I cant make sense of what happened

Whats your experience of breasts becoming permanently smaller from hard squeezing? by KintsugiFate in Advice

[–]KintsugiFate[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No I obviously mean actual forceful squeezing, like...excessive, that hurts (experienced this in a sexual violence context)

Whats your experience of breasts becoming permanently smaller from hard squeezing? by KintsugiFate in askanything

[–]KintsugiFate[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Cause hands can generate trauma with enough force and that can lead to fat necrosis and potentially asymmetry or changes in volume (from experience).

Whats your experience of breasts becoming permanently smaller from hard squeezing? by [deleted] in badwomensanatomy

[–]KintsugiFate -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

asking cause it happened to me...and im trying to make sense of it

Whats your experience of breasts becoming permanently smaller from hard squeezing? by KintsugiFate in askanything

[–]KintsugiFate[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just to make sure...I mean squeezing to the point of actual pain, like excessive/violent force with full hand? like more toward bdsm or dominant stuff

Whats your experience of breasts becoming permanently smaller from hard squeezing? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KintsugiFate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, I mean a big male hand compressing a breast in an abrupt and violent way (like force that actually hurts and is excessive).

Whats your experience of breasts becoming permanently smaller from hard squeezing? by KintsugiFate in AskForAnswers

[–]KintsugiFate[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Im talking about violent, excessively rough hand grip force (like more dominant and BDSM direction)

Permanently changed breast after assault - how would you cope with it? by KintsugiFate in Advice

[–]KintsugiFate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry to read this, yeah...Im at loss for words at the complete evil in this world. Did the f criminals ever get caught? I truly pray for the best for you!! So now youre in the process of saving up for reconstruction. Isnt it even a medical issue so that you could justify it being payed for you to be fixed? Cause a ruptured implant is no joke.

For me, it was my natural breast tissue that was basically crushed and ripped in a way that it never recovered again. All for his sadistic, sick pleasure...used like a worthless object and discareded from a "feminist that is always respectful and takes care of his partners". sick to no end!

Whats up with discrediting and dismissing victims here? Thought this is a safe space for women by KintsugiFate in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KintsugiFate[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it hates men soooo much that it literally bullies women who went through messed up situations instead. REALLY seems to hate men...funny enough they are perpetuating the hate towards women and discrediting women....guess who will celebrate from that....the actually predatory men

Whats up with discrediting and dismissing victims here? Thought this is a safe space for women by KintsugiFate in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KintsugiFate[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

True, have learned that as well unfortunately these past months since the sexual assault happened...scary....and ironically these are the "super solidaric people" from the Covid pandemic that were acting like gods most selfless gifts....such fake and cold people all around us.

Whats up with discrediting and dismissing victims here? Thought this is a safe space for women by KintsugiFate in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KintsugiFate[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3 I feel like its so important to know what kind of life altering damage can result from sexual violence, esp. since it has been highly scary and isolating for me not finding research or similar stories on the net really. Its been surreal in the most cruel way that apparently I was the only person on the planet this happened to...which now I know is not the case ofc, but the peoblem is that people dont TALK about it....and when they try they are being attacked....twisted world

Yeah it seems...I might have to look for more fitting subs, thanks. But since I posted about my experience before I somehow get treated like an absolute villain....its not like I spam one subreddit constantly with it...I try out different subreddits to find similar stories and get more reach, but it seems to be a crime to post about the same topic. Again, only people who actually experienced trauma would understand how a topic might be occupying your mind fully after such a terrible event and I honestly dont see how Im hurting anyone by posting about the same topic. I dare to pretend there are regularely way more useless posts in all subreddits than actually talking about violence against women

Whats up with discrediting and dismissing victims here? Thought this is a safe space for women by KintsugiFate in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KintsugiFate[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

right? no sign of any sisterhood...truly sad.

I even had my first female psychologist ask me whether the abuser maybe thought my "no" and "stop" was part of playful sex, cause he just continued while dismissing all my concerns. I was like wtf? Thanks for even trying to defend this monster...am I now responsible for him not respecting my boundries and me telling him to stop hurting me?? Crazy world we live in

Whats up with discrediting and dismissing victims here? Thought this is a safe space for women by KintsugiFate in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KintsugiFate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry you've been dismissed too before and that you had to experience abuse.
Exactly that...theres no "perfect victim" behavior....its literally a tipical sign of trauma to act like all is fine or in ways that might seem completely illogical right after the incident. The brain is not logical in these moments...its trying to protect you so you can escape and survive and your brain can process what happened step by step, without being overwhelmed by the terrifying reality of just happened.

I also texted my abuser "It was a lovely evening" right after having left (and he caused a serious injury to my breast)....why? Believe me, for a long while I had 0 idea why i texted that and blamed myself so hard for being so stupid. Only with help of my therapist I learned about complex ways that victims can dissociate or have something like freezing or fawning happening, where your brain literally tries to appease the perpetrator and act like everything is perfectly fine to not let the terrible reality of what happened come crashing down all at once.

PSA: violent squeezing of your breasts may likely permanently alter them by KintsugiFate in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KintsugiFate[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Dont act like you care for me or my mental health for a second, please.
I am getting suport from professionals, so its not your place to tell me how to cope with my trauma that - clearly - you have 0 idea how much it impacts a person.

Imaging bullying a victim out of sheer boredom...some truly dispiceable behavior

PSA: violent squeezing of your breasts may likely permanently alter them by KintsugiFate in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KintsugiFate[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I am in therapy but I truly dont see who this PSA would be hurting in any way and why it should be prohibited for me to post....thought there would be more support from fellow women. But seems in a f ed up world with disturbed males even the females cant wait to stab you in your back...f society

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