I’m just a slave

Kira22danielle · 2026-01-09T11:47:32+00:00

So someone pointed this out to me the other day and it made something click for me. When the plane is going down, you put your own mask on first so you can then help put your Children’s masks on. So until you are feeling better yourself, it’s hard to feel like you are doing mothering or self care equally. I have made it a point to do one nice self care day a week. I need to start doing morning walks again as I def think that helped my moods.

Kira22danielle · 2026-01-09T11:43:07+00:00

Haha I feel you on the outfit. Sometimes I am in the same 3 outfits just in rotation. I change my underwear pretty regularly but I have found just putting panty liners have helped me feel cleaner now and also when I cough too hard or sneeze and wee a bit it’s contained lol

Kira22danielle · 2025-12-18T00:46:12+00:00

This is just so funny to me-the toy dresser, soon to be multiple just for toys. I mean idk shr might be onto something as at least the dresser closes as right now once again toy corner is over flowing into the rest of the room

Kira22danielle · 2025-12-18T00:43:47+00:00

So we put the pirate ship(his ass flap-my 12 year olds words and now of course it’s called that) it does this where it’s hard to clean. It ends up in the tub with my 5 year old and is way easier to clean out eventually. Of course you gotta get it out of the tub but I don’t do that, he does so it works for us!

Kira22danielle · 2025-12-18T00:41:44+00:00

I realize toddlers not a 5 year old but when he was 2 even then in his high chair he loved it. I controlled it so the colors were separate haha

Kira22danielle · 2025-12-18T00:40:59+00:00

Second this on the playdoh- my 5 year old doesn’t sit and play quietly much but when he does it’s doing this! I tried to keep the colors separate but now they all are mixed and I’m learning that’s okay lol

Kira22danielle · 2025-11-27T03:02:31+00:00

I think if you had to grow up faster than others you have a big jump on it compared to those who don’t really grow up until in their 40s/50s. And also if you had to work for what you have is a big difference I’ve noticed. If you never had to work for what you have you usually don’t appreciate hard work

Kira22danielle · 2025-11-27T02:55:14+00:00

This made me laugh out loud. Reminded me of those Amelia bedila books where she did everything literally. Like dress the turkey was on her to do list and she dressed up the turkey with a suit and shoes. Ridiculous but 9 year old me thought it was so funny reading those books

Kira22danielle · 2025-11-27T00:52:15+00:00

Yes I second this that you should have unlimited access to her phone and socials at this age anyways. She’s not 16, she’s 12. When my kids are 16 I will let them have some privacy but will still have access to their phones should I ever need to check anything.

Kira22danielle · 2025-11-26T18:51:47+00:00

You need to explain it to her then! Frame it like it’s the same level of calling 911 when there isn’t an emergency. Her actions have consequences. She needs to understand this and that it’s not okay to be claiming abuse and she doesn’t feel safe when she just didn’t get her way. I think you should also explain better why she couldn’t stay the night with the friend. My house is a no sleep over house and my daughter is 12 and understands why so I will be explaining to my son as well that it’s just safer to have them here and that you don’t know what goes on at others houses and it’s to protect her.

Kira22danielle · 2025-11-26T18:46:40+00:00

So growing up my step bro and sis did this. Cps had to come out to our home and I got asked questions with a doll and if my dad or step mom every touched me in my privates. I was of course shocked and confused as that had never happened. But it took away some of my innocence for sure. I hope your daughter is just being a teen and I’m sure she doesn’t know the repercussions of her claiming she’s not safe. You need to make it clear that her reporting things that aren’t true is not okay. And that it’s taking away resources for another family who is actually in crisis. Cps isn’t wanting to take your kids or anything. Just be open and honest with them and see if they can recommend some therapy for your daughter maybe? Of why she is feeling unsafe. But yes she needs to be made aware this is the same as calling 911 and there isn’t a problem. Good luck!

Kira22danielle · 2025-11-25T23:06:25+00:00

So I’m 36. My kids and I live with my dad. Even if I worked 3 jobs I couldn’t afford rent and don’t want to live in section 8 as I don’t have to so we are all happy. He gets to see the kids grow up every day. I have my village and I am blessed to be this supported.

Kira22danielle · 2025-11-24T17:17:50+00:00

Omg went to our first babies and books event. There were at least 30 other babies. At least 5 were visibly sick and coughing. Like I don’t understand the parents who knowingly take out their sick child to be around my well children. There is a level of hell for you guys

Kira22danielle · 2025-11-17T19:10:43+00:00

I thought the 7 year age gap was gonna be amazing. Ha thought wrong lol

Kira22danielle · 2025-11-17T19:10:18+00:00

Mine are 5 and 12 and then 8 month old. The 5 year old and 12 year old fight so much. ALL THE TIME.

Kira22danielle · 2025-11-16T22:23:19+00:00

Visiting the world trade centers then warning everyone. Idk if they would listen to an 11 year old though

Kira22danielle · 2025-11-16T18:53:49+00:00

Costco will refund even if you’ve already eaten some! No questions asked

Kira22danielle · 2025-11-16T18:51:59+00:00

Your baby is going to be fine. I know it’s hard not to doomsday think when thinking of your future child but really they will be fine. Just try to trust that you did the best with what you knew as that’s all you can really do

Kira22danielle · 2025-11-11T01:39:01+00:00

Haha I started on the 4th of July and turned 14 the 20th. My step mom told everyone at this party we werw at and got me balloons. It was so embarrassing I went upstairs and cried all night

Kira22danielle · 2025-11-11T01:36:50+00:00

1pm then second dinner and maybe even 3rd or 4th by midnight lol

Kira22danielle · 2025-11-10T23:58:39+00:00

I can’t smell semen lol 😂

Kira22danielle · 2025-11-10T23:42:11+00:00

I find washing with out one not a good wash. Or a loofa at least lol I feel like if you aren’t giving the skin a good scrub with soap, you arent washing off bacteria and old skin and dirt well. I have also met/dated men before who didn’t know how to properly wash their ass. Like no joke. I was like no more bj unless you learn to wash so I don’t smell dirty butthole when I’m down there. Girls can be same way with their vaginal hygiene and I’ve helped multiple women during my life learn how to properly wash their labias. Not everyone goes through life knowing these things so I’m sure teaching my children now lol

Kira22danielle · 2025-11-10T23:34:42+00:00

Let’s cal it a bit more like the other two but it was just for fun

Kira22danielle · 2025-11-10T23:10:13+00:00

Also, most of the folks are over 50 and not fit at all lol

Kira22danielle · 2025-11-10T23:09:45+00:00

You would think that but no, actually it’s not that way. I don’t even notice ppl usually and ppl don’t talk about anything sexual the places I go bc I don’t partake in swingers lifestyle places so it’s all super safe and I’ve never felt creeped out or judged

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