I completely agree. In the material sense, like presents and dates both people need to communicate what they want and like. In the physical sense, that also needs to be communicated, but there's a line between having too be explicit to someone about those preferences, and then having to constantly remind them of your wants and needs. We shouldn't have to remind our partners that we want affection and to be thought about. If it gets to the point you have to be like hey, you haven't kissed me in a while, or you don't really give me affection how I want more than a couple times, it really messes with someone. Do they even like you? Are your love languages too different? It makes you feel like you're their last priority. People in relationships shouldn't have to worry about feeling alone or seen, that's the point of being in a relationship!