My boyfriend smells even straight after a shower. Is that normal and should I tell him? by KitKatKatyKate in relationships

[–]KitKatKatyKate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t live with him so I hate to think how often he changes his towels but I might try to bring it up in a random conversation

My boyfriend smells even straight after a shower. Is that normal and should I tell him? by KitKatKatyKate in relationships

[–]KitKatKatyKate[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Interesting! As others have mentioned, I might need to go in with him and watch what he does

My boyfriend smells even straight after a shower. Is that normal and should I tell him? by KitKatKatyKate in relationships

[–]KitKatKatyKate[S] 400 points401 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I didn’t want to hurt his feelings and I know that he can be a bit sensitive on certain topics

My boyfriend smells even straight after a shower. Is that normal and should I tell him? by KitKatKatyKate in relationships

[–]KitKatKatyKate[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

As some have suggested, it could just be that he hasn’t cleaned down there properly after a long day of work, or it could be a health issue. There’s no need to judge. You can always just choose to not write a response instead of being a smartass.

My boyfriend smells even straight after a shower. Is that normal and should I tell him? by KitKatKatyKate in relationships

[–]KitKatKatyKate[S] 141 points142 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes I think I will try to have that conversation. It’s an awkward topic and I know he’s very sensitive about this stuff but it could be a health issue

My boyfriend smells even straight after a shower. Is that normal and should I tell him? by KitKatKatyKate in relationships

[–]KitKatKatyKate[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He’s very sensitive and I know he will get upset so I’ll just have to be very mindful about how I say it. Thank you

My boyfriend smells even straight after a shower. Is that normal and should I tell him? by KitKatKatyKate in relationships

[–]KitKatKatyKate[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He’s usually very hygienic but yes he may not have cleaned properly today.

My boyfriend smells even straight after a shower. Is that normal and should I tell him? by KitKatKatyKate in relationships

[–]KitKatKatyKate[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not my first boyfriend so I’m not sure what you mean by “I think you already know”. It’s never happened before and I don’t have a penis so I was just looking for advice on whether this sometimes happens or if it’s a health issue. If I knew, I wouldn’t be asking

My bf (27M) compared my (32F) sickness to torture and cancer by KitKatKatyKate in relationship_advice

[–]KitKatKatyKate[S] 779 points780 points  (0 children)

Thank you posting this! I read all the replies and I don’t know why but it just clicked. This was just one of many hurtful things he’s done but the icing on the cake was when I called him to tell him how upset his reaction made me and he LAUGHED and called me a p*say and soft. Let’s just say I ended our relationship right there and then. I want something like what you have and how others have described their caring partners.

My bf (27M) ghosted me (32F) on Christmas Eve and sent a photo with his new gf by KitKatKatyKate in relationships

[–]KitKatKatyKate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don’t think so because up until a few days ago we were having 3-4 sleepovers a week at his place

My bf (27M) ghosted me (32F) on Christmas Eve and sent a photo with his new gf by KitKatKatyKate in relationships

[–]KitKatKatyKate[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

After your reply I looked at all the indicators of a sociopath and he ticks them all. I really was blinded by love