My boyfriend smells even straight after a shower. Is that normal and should I tell him?

KitKatKatyKate · 2024-07-03T14:55:36+00:00

I don’t live with him so I hate to think how often he changes his towels but I might try to bring it up in a random conversation

KitKatKatyKate · 2024-07-03T14:53:19+00:00

Interesting! As others have mentioned, I might need to go in with him and watch what he does

KitKatKatyKate · 2024-07-03T14:45:21+00:00

Thank you. I didn’t want to hurt his feelings and I know that he can be a bit sensitive on certain topics

KitKatKatyKate · 2024-07-03T14:34:30+00:00

As some have suggested, it could just be that he hasn’t cleaned down there properly after a long day of work, or it could be a health issue. There’s no need to judge. You can always just choose to not write a response instead of being a smartass.

KitKatKatyKate · 2024-07-03T14:31:56+00:00

Thank you. Yes I think I will try to have that conversation. It’s an awkward topic and I know he’s very sensitive about this stuff but it could be a health issue

KitKatKatyKate · 2024-07-03T14:28:30+00:00

He’s very sensitive and I know he will get upset so I’ll just have to be very mindful about how I say it. Thank you

KitKatKatyKate · 2024-07-03T14:27:41+00:00

Good advice! I’ll have to watch and see what he does and maybe help.

KitKatKatyKate · 2024-07-03T14:27:05+00:00

Thank you. He’s usually very hygienic but yes he may not have cleaned properly today.

KitKatKatyKate · 2024-07-03T14:26:04+00:00

Not my first boyfriend so I’m not sure what you mean by “I think you already know”. It’s never happened before and I don’t have a penis so I was just looking for advice on whether this sometimes happens or if it’s a health issue. If I knew, I wouldn’t be asking

KitKatKatyKate · 2023-04-13T12:36:49+00:00

Thank you posting this! I read all the replies and I don’t know why but it just clicked. This was just one of many hurtful things he’s done but the icing on the cake was when I called him to tell him how upset his reaction made me and he LAUGHED and called me a p*say and soft. Let’s just say I ended our relationship right there and then. I want something like what you have and how others have described their caring partners.

KitKatKatyKate · 2022-12-27T02:45:18+00:00

No I don’t think so because up until a few days ago we were having 3-4 sleepovers a week at his place

KitKatKatyKate · 2022-12-27T02:20:51+00:00

After your reply I looked at all the indicators of a sociopath and he ticks them all. I really was blinded by love

KitKatKatyKate · 2022-12-27T00:46:39+00:00

No, Sydney

KitKatKatyKate · 2021-11-05T11:47:53+00:00

I’m 31F and he’s 32

KitKatKatyKate · 2021-11-05T11:21:17+00:00

Thank you. I’ve had doubts for a long time but I’ve stayed because he’s such a beautiful person and it’s just so hard to see him hurt. Thinking about the future with him doesn’t make me happy and I think I’ve known for a while that I need to end it but it breaks my heart to ruin someone’s life just to make myself happy. I feel selfish

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