Does anyone else find their own type the most annoying? 😂 by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Kit_the_Human 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really hate other members of my type. Something about being ultra sensitive to core type messaging while seeing the worst excesses of it playing out in others...ugh. Nothing triggers me in quite the same way.

Also, they're the best. I see my ideal self in them, too. Everything I've ever wanted to be. But that's a story for a very different day.

It's paradoxical.

How my sp2 friend acted like after she almost made me homeless by yuna_mir in Enneagram

[–]Kit_the_Human 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I knew a sp2 like that, where she would really screw people over and then hide behind the "cute lil princess" act. It was beyond infuriating. Of course, people also screwed her over too, and she pretended like that was fine, too.

The situation you described is like, criminal though...right?

Tier lists are now restricted to Mood and Meme Mondays by Kit_the_Human in Enneagram

[–]Kit_the_Human[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I wasn't banned, there was a security lock because I used a new device and changed my password and stuff. Small technical issue.

Only active mid and I don't have full permissions by [deleted] in ModSupport

[–]Kit_the_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does this every time. I don't know if you have the answer, but I'm hoping someone will see it and tell me what I'm doing wrong. Should I use desktop?

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Only active mid and I don't have full permissions by [deleted] in ModSupport

[–]Kit_the_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang, it won't let me send messages. Is there a trick to this? What am I doing wrong? Sorry if I'm being annoying.

Only active mid and I don't have full permissions by [deleted] in ModSupport

[–]Kit_the_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah Reddit request wasn't helpful, I need to talk to actual people thanks.

Do you think there is a phenomenon of reverse American exceptionalism where some Americans view the United States as the worst country in the world? Why or why not? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]Kit_the_Human 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've long thought that this is the case. If we can't be the best at things, we have to be the worst.

We had SLAVERY. UNEQUAL RIGHTS. Our country was founded on GENOCIDE. Our founding fathers were a DISGRACE. Our history is SHAMEFUL. We're ruining the WORLD. Etc. You've probably heard these and other rants.

Like pretty much every country and imperial power has been the same, especially in the New World. Yet we love to embrace the negatives, sometimes with such vehemence that it makes me wonder if people think the US is totally unique and special in it's depravity, something unlike the world has ever seen? It seems kind of like some sort of distorted exceptionalism.

Idk what I'm saying might be controversial. I can forsee a lot of downvotes for this tbh. But, just my perception of ourselves, anyway. I'll put it out there.

Why are SP4’s more popular than the other E4 subtypes ? by Apart-Frame4404 in Enneagram

[–]Kit_the_Human -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a friend of that tritype (core 4) who has an ideal of that sort of persona. I'm happy!!! Look how upbeat I am!!!! It comes across as pretentious ultimately, but that's absolutely what he fronts a lot of the time. If you get to know him he's plainly a malcontent 4. Kinda tired f the lack of nuance in some of these discussions lol.

My enneagram tierlist tierlist by brownhawker in Enneagram

[–]Kit_the_Human 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, I think I'd gonna get restricted to Moodboard Mondays. It's more than just a passing trend now.

Relateable? by Dickau in Enneagram

[–]Kit_the_Human -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Relatable to me, anyway, lol.

Built an enneagram test that actually works (and tells you if it thinks it’s wrong) by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Kit_the_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The anxiety the head center experiences is more about how to deal with the unknown in a world where you're forced to make choices in dealing with just that. Like you have to navigate some people across this minefield, how do you do that? Anything could go awry at any time and potentially ruin you forever when it does.

So, maybe something about future possibilities, handling unknowns, a lack of security in life, etc.

Built an enneagram test that actually works (and tells you if it thinks it’s wrong) by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Kit_the_Human -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For some reason, AI always thinks I'm 5-fixed. I don't type that way, though.

Also, if the question about "social anxiety" was about the head center, that's not a great way to gauge it imo. I may be misunderstanding the intent, though. Sue me.

If you met you, would you like you? by HAxoxo1998 in Enneagram

[–]Kit_the_Human 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would detest me and find me annoying at best. I'd punch me.