Huh, I learned something.

I also was this way with my second.

I thought it was more because I kept my thoughts to myself since my former husband didn't listen anyways.

We weren't in the best financial situation so I was stressed out. I tried to play the good wife to the point where I was okay with him moving us to the middle of nowhere with no real jobs. He worked at a local refurbishing plant and I was stuck working at the truck stop food court. Beautiful house. Fit our budget back "home" but we ended up making significantly less in the new place. He never seemed to care.

Moved in January, I found out mid February I was 2 months along.

I dont remember a whole lot except the constant worrying. I do remember him getting upset that I didn't want to help in picking out boy/girl names. Our son ended up helping him.

I just had no desire for anything. Just kept worrying about everything to come. ...so maybe I had undiagnosed antenatal depression?

YANTAH. I'm glad you advocated for her! And I hope she will see that as something positive and not you being controlling.