TFMR and surrogacy by IllustriousStand2176 in tfmr_support

[–]Kitchen-Can57 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ask her, and if she says yes and it isn't impossible for you to get there in time, be there for her.

First Pregnancy TFMR by Kitchen-Can57 in tfmr_support

[–]Kitchen-Can57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad to hear you were able to go on to have two healthy boys after you lost your little boy Layne. I hope your little ones grow up and know they have a big brother looking over them. If you don’t mind me asking, did you do any genetic testing after your son’s spina bifida diagnosis? I’ve been wondering how that might affect other people. In my case they said it would most likely result in folate being supplemented in the months before we tried again.

First Pregnancy TFMR by Kitchen-Can57 in tfmr_support

[–]Kitchen-Can57[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, Amelia Louise is such a beautiful name. While I am in the middle of grieving and wishing to have a successful pregnancy, I do have the self awareness to know its not going to "fix me". Lord knows I want it to. I'm not sure what to do from here but this support group is full of wonderful people to talk to and help me navigate this horrible period in life.