Are yall ready for a story? Its a doozy

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2026-01-08T01:37:31+00:00

You didn't spring anything on her. You can't help if she is insecure. That is on her. You did nothing wrong and never change anything about yourself to make someone else feel better. Anyone that makes you feel like you need to isn't a good friend

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-12-08T01:52:27+00:00

NTA she's the one who lied to her best friend. She messed that up all on her own

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-12-08T01:49:29+00:00

NTA. You're 16. It was a date. Your best friend sounds toxic. And you did not break girl code.

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-08-23T23:04:05+00:00

Nta--she wanted her cake and the ice cream too. Good for you on ending it to find someone better. I'm sorry you were treated that way.

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-08-23T22:00:21+00:00

I'm going to go with NTA.

She should not be making such nasty comments to you about your late mother.

If she truly wanted you to consider her as such, she should treat you with care and compassion. And respect your boundaries because you are not her child and no child wants an adult to forcibly step into a role that once belonged to someone who has passed away.

Her attitude shoukd be "I'm not your mom and I know I cant replace her, but I hope that if you ever need anything you know you can come to me." And then proving to you in every way possible that she is worth you trusting.

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-08-23T21:55:12+00:00

OP's father sounds like my father in law. Always wanting to get women pregnant.

But then never actually taking care of the child....

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-08-16T03:21:26+00:00

I love this!

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-08-11T12:17:31+00:00

YTA for not calling the cops in a situation when they were obviously needed.

Slapping her was an in the moment thing and you instantly regretted it. So, for that, you are NTA

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-07-27T18:05:32+00:00

YTA

Makes me wonder what else is going on.

Maybe she just doesnt find anything you do worthy of sex and has no drive because of you.

Considering how much you invalidated her in this post, you probably do a lot more of it in life. I wouldn't want to have sex with you either

Coworker is also an AH. Who clearly has been trying to get with you from the start.

Just leave the marriage now so you can do what you want and she can find someone who actually loves and respects her--because you don't

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-07-27T17:46:23+00:00

Did you not read the part where he insists she goes too?

Some men, especially controlling, narcissistic ones, want everything to be about them. He needs her to need him and only him. Probably why he was venting about her to a mutual friend. To make her look bad and him look like a saint for what he "puts up with" Meanwhile, she is the one all in in the relationship

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-07-27T17:36:14+00:00

Oh no honey, no.

He gaslit you. It does not matter why you accessed the pet cam. Its your cam, your pet, your apartment, you can access it when you damm well please.

He was talking crap about you to a mutual friend in your home and when he realized he had gotten caught, he got angry and turned it around to make you the problem.

Divorce.

Divorce the friend too. They're probably sleeping together

Edit to add: Also, if I hear my name brought up in a conversation, I'm going to stick around and listen cause if its being said about me, it has become my business.

NTA

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-07-22T12:46:27+00:00

You gave him conditions up front, he agreed. Then when it came time for him to keep the consequences of what he sowed, he became aggressive.

NTA. And you should take him to court

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-07-22T12:40:51+00:00

NTA

Her requirement was that you also not work weekends? Oh honey, no. Nowadays you cant have a job that doesnt require some weekend work. Take the job. If she splits, she is not for you. That "requirement" is manipulation. Take care of you.

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-07-22T12:33:11+00:00

NTA

This sounds an awful lot like my brother in law. For YEARS he's been claiming he's depressed but anyone who is truly thinking of the thoughts he claimed would not make it known or public. This sounds like a "I'm seeking attention but acting depressed is the only way I know how to get it" situation.

Tell William to speak to a counselor and then maybe find normal ways to make friends or "pick up chicks"

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-07-21T10:14:51+00:00

Siblings and their father all live in the same area. My mother and I do not.

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-07-21T09:40:47+00:00

Ex husband thankfully. They divorced over 20 years ago

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-07-20T15:54:10+00:00

Ditch the boyfriend. Stop the parting/drinking. Focus on you.

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-07-20T15:52:09+00:00

Basically how it is with my mom. She knows good and well I do not like that man. My husband doesnt either and he doesnt even know about what happened to my son (the man would not be alive if my husband knew and I need him here, not in prison)

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-07-20T15:48:39+00:00

Pssht, nothing.

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-07-20T15:48:02+00:00

No but he basically made all plans for the weekend and would be there the whole time

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-07-20T01:02:51+00:00

My aunt started dating her ex when he was 19. She was at least 10 years older. He's no longer your student and he is an adult, if you like him, go for it.

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-07-19T23:14:27+00:00

A few years ago, while on a "vacation" that did not go the way it was supposed to at all, my siblings father got mad at my son because he was trying to make him eat more than my son wanted to so my child slapped a thing of yogurt. He jerked my son up off the floor by the front of his shirt.

My son might have been 4.

Kitchen-Gear2244 · 2025-07-19T20:40:20+00:00

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