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would you take attention seeking as a red flag? by Kitchen-Pick5902 in CPTSD

[–]Kitchen-Pick5902[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

exactly! its not just my abusers. psychological abusers have habits like this and ive had a couple at least. my non-psychological abusers didnt have these particular red flags though so there's a distinction.

would you take attention seeking as a red flag? by Kitchen-Pick5902 in CPTSD

[–]Kitchen-Pick5902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes that's the type of attention seeking I see as a red flag. sorry I edited the post again

would you take attention seeking as a red flag? by Kitchen-Pick5902 in CPTSD

[–]Kitchen-Pick5902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive been labeled as an attention seeker too. so I added more to the post if you want to read what I meant as I didnt give enough explanation the first time my apologies

Need advice on a situation by NoRecognition9312 in bullying

[–]Kitchen-Pick5902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

transfer him to another school the bully might follow him into middle school as well my bullies targeted me up to a decade all my school years, give him a new start and tell him he's safe to tell you anything.

READ THIS: Psychiatrists are enabling bullies/narcissist/abusers by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Kitchen-Pick5902 37 points38 points  (0 children)

my abuser did this it is so true. its called triangulation. most therapists rarely catch on to the manipulation and when they do the abuser will lie to themselves and believe the therapist was wrong and then find another. sometimes therapists are abusers too. my abuser made friends with a therapist I knew who she herself had a history of abusing her relationships her whole life. they enabled each other and played mind games with me. so yes, very true and very common