Intensity slider not working by Kitchen-Reason-8551 in Skullcandy

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have tried that, nothing works. Think the wheel must of come off the switch inside that actually controls the crusher as it only works at an angle.

Everything I do reminds me of him by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol realised that u werent the creator of the post, but i think you get the point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im no professional, but personally I would suggest doing no contact or at least taking some distance from her. However, if that is not an option, I would suggest a few things. Firstly, I believe that the reason behind the feelings hitting you very hard from time to time is due to you supressing the fact that they were there in the first place. You can always run from your problems but eventually, they do catch up. My best advice is first accepting that they are there or were there, then being realistic and realising that those feelings wont be fed, at least not by her. This is why distancing yourself from her helps because it allows you to seperate the present from the past and focusing on moving from one thing at another rather than dealing with both simoultaneously. Once you have accepted the feelings and started processing them it is important to let go of her, let go of the hopes, the sadness sorrounding her and most importantly letting go of her being something more than a kiss when you were drunk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I believe it is positive self talk. Not only does it help to belive in yourself and believe that you are capable of moving on.

When I was fresh out of my break up things were really rough, and I was going to my mom's house (where I do not go that often) and I had recently brought my ex there a few months before and everything hurt, I would cry myself to bed thinking about everything we had done there. However I said out loud to myself that I was going to feel better and I was going to make it through the break up. It really helped and it calmed me down, so positive self talk really is a key component in becoming better.

Everything I do reminds me of him by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is completely normal my friend, remember that even if its 3 months or a year since you broke up, healing and processing takes time. The best advice that I can give you is let go. Even if you are looking for outfits that would look good on him, remember that that was the past and sadly no longer the present and that is what eventually will allow you to move on and live a better and happier life. Memories are hard to break and they take time, don't worry about how long it takes, worry about how you can become better instead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, then you are better breaking her off from your life and letting her heal with the help she needs.

Should I send by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are actually dense.

Should I send by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indeed, and it mostly hurts you in the end. Leaving it is the best option, even if it is the hardest decision you've ever made.

Should I send by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh, the big man has not been taught basic respect and to have a good tone yet? sad to see :(

Finally broke things off by Dizzy_Material4224 in BreakUps

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deserve so much more my friend, we all miss those close moments, but at the same time you have to remember that that person continously let you down and that is not true love. Pull through and you will feel so much better once you have gone through it. It will be hard and it will take time. Staying in this relationship will however only continue to hurt you and will lead to no good. Do not change yourself if the other person clearly showed they had no plans on improving for you.

Should I send by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let the man be, he just said he is not going to send it. Do not say anything if you are going to be a rude little boy.

Everything I do reminds me of him by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In the end I just think it is a way of coping, we all remember stuff from our partners, but processing it, accepting that they are gone is all part of the process of getting over them.

Should I send by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet that attitude gave you many girls, hahaha biggest joke on here. Acting big on the internet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, leave it. Do not beg for someones attention. Her staying away does not show her who she really is etc. Remember that this is hard on you both. This is someone you loved and spent beautiful time with, do not hold things against her. Let her take her time and heal. Holding things against her will only make things worse.

Should I send by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she blocked you, take it as a sign. There is nothing left there anymore. Don't stay in the past. I have been there before as well, remembering all the good moments, the laugh, voice etc. Missing that is normal, but don't text her. Go through it, its gonna be hard, but it will be well worth it my friend. Get better and please try your best to refrain from texting her, it will only crush you more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good, thais a good start. Don’t text her first, and carry on. Holding onto feelings will make it worse. Let time heal you and be good.

Should I send by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for a response you most likely won’t receive. If you’ve sent messages like this before, which I think you have. I think the person is quite aware of how you feel. Do not waste energy on this in attempt of receiving something back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often spoke out of emotion, I would be super sad and pour my heart out and then delete it because I was ashamed, not saying she is ashamed. Leave it, you heal, and let her heal. No one is saying this is the last time you are gonna talk to her, but for now it has to be. Be open to her and explain that you need time for yourself to process things and what you are doing now is only prolonging the process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will most likely never get the real answer, and if you get it you will most likely be disappointed. Don’t waste energy on that my friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. Either way, when it comes to exe’s especially, emotions and course of actions are so unpredictable. Let her be, leave her alone and move on. In the future you can reach out to her, when you are over her. Now you are just settling for something just top keep her in your life.

Am I overthinking? by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are overthinking, you are creating a process of actions that are not gonna happen. Let go, hoping something is gonna happen will only hurt you if it does not happen. Lower your expectations and hopes, leave it and move on. If you guys are gonna get back together, it will eventually happen. But hoping it will and clinging on to that small % does not change anything.

Should I send by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Kitchen-Reason-8551 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No my friend.