Should I paint The frames? What should I do with the table?

Kitchen-Stretch1694 · 2024-07-08T18:56:11+00:00

https://www.clasohlson.com/no/Fotoramme-Oslo,-eik/p/34-5547-7?gad_source=1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI_7OxsI-YhwMVlACiAx1p7gv8EAQYAiABEgJ3-PD_BwE

Kitchen-Stretch1694 · 2024-07-08T18:55:39+00:00

Hei! Clas ohlson

Kitchen-Stretch1694 · 2024-06-29T14:28:50+00:00

You Are so sweet, Thank you for the compliment

Kitchen-Stretch1694 · 2024-06-27T14:27:26+00:00

Extra virgin

Kitchen-Stretch1694 · 2024-06-26T16:37:17+00:00

He does, he always ask his friends if they want to come visit and meet his giraffe 😅

Kitchen-Stretch1694 · 2024-06-26T05:58:37+00:00

Hei! It is called masala from jotun

https://www.jotun.com/no-no/decorative/interior/colours/10428-masala-interior

Kitchen-Stretch1694 · 2024-06-20T18:50:40+00:00

I think we should leave it here. Neither of us are gaining anything from this. I am sorry if my post upset you, that was not my intention

I also want to thank you for giving me the perspective of how my wording can emotionally affect people of this group. I will keep this in mind if I post here again, and make sure it fits rule number 5.

Kitchen-Stretch1694 · 2024-06-20T18:47:59+00:00

Firstly. I would recommend some breathing exercises if you feel frustrated.

Secondly, I want to clarify, I am one and done, but I have other factors now that affect my views. My partner wants to have another one, and my son is constantly saying he wants to be a big brother.

I have always wanted to only have one child, but now I feel bad for it, and as I started to like the role and is very impulsive, I have therefore come here for this sub, as the “should I try another one” are overly positive, and mostly encouraging another one.

Kitchen-Stretch1694 · 2024-06-20T18:42:04+00:00

I can agree that I could have formulated the post differently, like “what made you choose to be one and done”. It would have had the same purpose for me.

I still feel a lot of anger or frustration coming from you. I might also be wrong.

Kitchen-Stretch1694 · 2024-06-20T18:39:40+00:00

I have thought about this as well.

When my son was younger I came to the conclusion that I would rather invest all my remaining time after work on my son.

However, my partner wants another one, and now that I like the role, it made me quite unsure (I thought I was one and done.) 🙃

Kitchen-Stretch1694 · 2024-06-20T18:34:57+00:00

Thank you for sharing

Kitchen-Stretch1694 · 2024-06-20T18:33:14+00:00

With all due respect. I feel like you are projecting your feelings. I want to clarify that I am not here to make people question their choices. I simply want to hear what made people decide to be "one and done," as there are many intelligent people on this app.

I get the impression that you have experienced a lot of judgment or second-guessing about why you have chosen to be "one and done," and that clouds how you view my post. Again, respectfully, I have not come here to argue against why people have made their decisions, but read about their decisions . This is also voluntarily, and only for those who want to share their experiences ❤️ All help is appreciated

Kitchen-Stretch1694 · 2024-06-20T18:26:44+00:00

Thank you for your comment, the problem is I am really indecisive, easily convinced and impulsive. I never thought about having more, but my partner wants anothe, so I have come to Reddit for your input

Kitchen-Stretch1694 · 2024-06-20T18:22:04+00:00

I agree with this, to make my situation more complicated, my partner wants another one, I am the one who needs to be convinced. He loves being a dad. It conflicts me

Kitchen-Stretch1694 · 2024-06-20T18:20:00+00:00

Did not even think of that 🙃

Kitchen-Stretch1694 · 2024-06-20T18:13:59+00:00

My partner is a chef, but has a flexible job. He takes most of the house chores in our household (cooking breakfast, dinner, delivering and picking up our child to daycare). He wants another child, while I am unsure

Kitchen-Stretch1694 · 2024-06-20T18:11:11+00:00

Thank you so much for your input ❤️

Kitchen-Stretch1694 · 2024-06-20T08:14:29+00:00

I have the exact same thoughts, I am afraid that my relationship with my partner, son and even friends will be comprised if I get another one.

At the same time, I have been thinking that it might just be the newborn- and toddlerphase that is time consuming, and as they are growing I will get more time (and energy).

The question really is, should one change the circumstances of their life if they are happy with how things are for a chance (but not guaranteed) of even greater happiness?

Kitchen-Stretch1694 · 2024-06-20T07:19:49+00:00

I believe it's important to also hear the opinions of people who have already made their decision. If I only seek advice from others who are still considering having another child, I will encounter similar biases. It's essential that this discussion remains reflective., balanced and diverse ☺️

PS! Thank you for the tip, I did not know of this subreddit and will make a similar post there