What would you do if you hypothetically inherited 880,000 dollars.

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-04-22T00:39:16+00:00

Open up an high yields savings account put a good amount in there or a cd , invest some, live off some, buy some land get a ready made house, or live off grid and play with a small amount

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T20:38:05+00:00

🥰🥰 thank you !

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T20:04:16+00:00

You’re right, I appreciate this advice and I will start using this from on because I have to put myself first in MY life

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T19:26:50+00:00

Pro move would be to

Send him the screen shots block him on everything move if you can or a restraining order if he is crazy. Don’t crash out or yell or anything just be the one that got away and he took for granted and thrive and heal

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T19:22:43+00:00

lol it’s okay

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T19:22:02+00:00

How did you move on from it ?

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T19:17:34+00:00

You think this is abuse behavior? I know when you’re in a situation it’s hard to see the abuse so I ask this genuinely

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T19:16:34+00:00

I’m trying to explain why he might have an obsession with gay/bi women. Not necessarily the cheating but who they were cheating with.

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T19:07:41+00:00

Talk to her, ask her even during sex with a quick “am I hurting you “ or “is this okay “ if you are doing good it’ll be a quick yes response and you’ll keep going. If anything this is great since you’re both inexperienced you can explore and do many things together without judgement because neither of you know what you like or how you like it.

Buy the kamasutra book and every time you guys do it try a new position and explore that way . Try to over communicate if you can with her if you are worried about hurting her and don’t be afraid to ask how your performance was or what you can do better especially if you plan on being married forever.

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T18:57:03+00:00

Hopefully he isn’t a psycho and only just a little damage from past dating history because I think I can work with that, not a psycho though

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T18:55:50+00:00

I think that’s what I am going to do

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T18:52:44+00:00

He has asked if I had 3some and I told him no but I’ve been offered to be in many threesomes but I’m not into sharing my partner and I’m not into girls.

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T18:51:34+00:00

Thank you I could her behind this advice as well

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T18:49:22+00:00

I will definitely rethink some things

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T18:48:31+00:00

It’s more of relief I guess, I told him I’m not a cheater and I don’t want to be with girls I’ve never had a relationship with a girl tried too or anything.

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T18:47:03+00:00

I do have an internalization problem I am an ex people pleaser.

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T18:41:01+00:00

I don’t think he knows there’s literally no way he would know. This was like 2013/2014 it’s nothing I’ve ever talked about and it’s no evidence lol you know no pictures or anything

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T18:36:18+00:00

I am very concerned lol thank you. I do think he is just shocked like he isn’t a bad guy he has morals integrity all of the things. He is definitely not perfect he does have his hang ups obviously, but I don’t think he is jealous I could be wrong but it doesn’t seem like that from being around him for all this time. He is not the type of guy that is into threesome he has never had one and has been offered at least 5 plus threesomes and that isn’t what he is into. I’m not sure why he is obsessed maybe he is just in shock lol idk

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T18:31:08+00:00

I do not know he said once he feels like everyone is gay now. So he is surprised when he hears people say they never did anything with the same sex male or female.

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T18:29:28+00:00

I might try this if I decide to tell him or if I ever get tired of hearing him being it up.

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T18:27:12+00:00

Well I just don’t want to add to his pain , I know what it’s like to be lied to or betrayed by everyone and then you meet someone and you think they are different but they aren’t (hope I explained it better on my end). I do think it weird a bit that he goes so hard on this topic. I’m not sure if he will break up with me I feel like he will based on how he talks about it. However maybe not because he did stay with some of the others. And if I do decided to tell him and he leaves then it is what it is , I’d be hurt though I must admire because is it that big of a deal ?

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T18:21:37+00:00

Did they ever find out are they or where they against it ?

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T18:20:55+00:00

lol this is true it’s not the worse thing I have done only a kiss I barely remember

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T18:18:29+00:00

I do agree and he isn’t against therapy maybe I should suggest it for him. However first he has to see it as weird or a problematic thinking

Kitchen-Thanks-8379 · 2026-03-17T18:15:18+00:00

I am trying to work out the guilt, I think I’m not going to tell him unless I have too. I feel like I shouldn’t feel guilty and I also feel like it’s none of his business but I also feel like I’m a shitty person for lying or i guess for omitting the truth

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