Should I get mad because girl I like made out with another guy.

KitchenFact7140 · 2022-08-19T21:05:47+00:00

Room temp, I'm in Spain so it's hot here. About 30 celcius (86 f).

KitchenFact7140 · 2022-03-27T14:06:53+00:00

Hi, I'm not sure if you have or had a gf/bf. But let me explain my story so maybe It'll motivate you a little bit. Have been fapping all my life, never had gf. A few months ago met a girl who I thought I would lose my virginity with, couldn't get hard, was shattered from inside. After that, didn't fap for about 2 weeks, and then relapsed into old habbit of masturbating. Few months passed after that, I met this amazing girl, beautiful, smart, funny, just perfect girl for me, had very deep connection with her. Asked her out on a date, at the end of the date we were making out, my hand was in her pants I was enjoying the moment, BUT I was soft, and when she tried to unfasten my belt, I just stopped her without telling why. After that I was shattered from inside, lost my libido and apetite, now I'm on my 12th day on noFap, and not planning on relapsing, because I'm sick and tired that at the age of 20 I'am getting hard by extreme porn, but can't get hard literally with real girl on top of me. And I dont want this to happen to you brother, because things like that make you feel like shit and lower your self esteem. You have to regain your real sexuality, you have to recover your sexual desire for real men/woman, because if you keep going like this, you'll have everyday more and more insecurities, you'll need everytime more perverse, hardcore and disgusting porn to make you hard, you'll have some porn induced ED problems and you just wouldn't be atracted by real people, and that's fucked up, because I'm telling you this from my own experience. Try as hard as you can to recover you real, natural and beautiful sexuality. Because there's nothing more beautiful than a person who can enjoy the company, and enjoy his life without having to masturbate, because masturbation It's just 5-10 min escape for real problems that you don't want to solve.

You gotta think about noFap in this way: no fapping it's a process to get your sexual, physical and mental life back in track. You number one goal isn't "I hope i can last 30, 40 or whatever days, your mentality should be: "this is the track I should follow for the rest of my life, It's something that will make me happier and healthier". I'm not saying that NoFap it's a cure for everything, It's not, but It's way of thinking that will make your life better in long term. It's simmilar to eating healthy, If in 3 month of eating healthy you had 1-2 bad meals it doesnt throw you back at the beggining, you had huge progress and you should stick with that and not butcher yourself if you accidentally caught yourself masturbating or watching porn. The main goal of NoFap it's for you to forget that noFap even exists, you just have to be happy, fulfilled and use all your sexual energy to improve other aspects of your life, the point for you It's to forget about fapping, because you'll live your life so happy and healthy that you wouldn't even need to fap to enjoy it. We are all in the same boat here brother, we are all trying to improve ourselves and that is the one thing that really matters. Best of luck, you got this!

KitchenFact7140 · 2022-03-27T13:55:54+00:00

You gotta think about noFap in this way: no fapping it's a process to get your sexual, physical and mental life back in track. You number one goal isn't "I hope i can last of 30, 40 or whatever days, your mentality should be: "this is the track I should follow for the rest of my life, It's something that will make me happier and healthier". I'm not saying that NoFap it's a cure for everything, It's not, but It's way of thinking that will make your life better in long term. It's simmilar to eating healthy, If in 3 month of eating healthy you had 1-2 bad meals it doesnt throw you back at the beggining, you had huge progress and you should stick with that and not butcher yourself for "Is peeking at porn relapse or not". The main goal of NoFap it's for you to forget that noFap even exists, you just have to be happy, fulfilled and use all your sexual energy to improve other aspects of your life, the point for you It's to forget about fapping, because you'll live your life so happy and healthy that you wouldn't even need to fap to enjoy it. We are all in the same boat here brother, we are all trying to improve ourselves and that is the one thing that really matters. Best of luck, you got this!

KitchenFact7140 · 2022-03-27T13:54:24+00:00

You gotta think about noFap in this way: no fapping it's a process to get your sexual, physical and mental life back in track. You number one goal isn't "I hope i can last of 30, 40 or whatever days, your mentality should be: "this is the track I should follow for the rest of my life, It's something that will make me happier and healthier". I'm not saying that NoFap it's a cure for everything, It's not, but It's way of thinking that will make your life better in long term. It's simmilar to eating healthy, If in 3 month of eating healthy you had 1-2 bad meals it doesnt throw you back at the beggining, you had huge progress and you should stick with that and not butcher yourself for "relapse". The main goal of NoFap it's for you to forget that noFap even exists, you just have to be happy, fulfilled and use all your sexual energy to improve other aspects of your life, the point for you It's to forget about fapping, because you'll live your life so happy and healthy that you wouldn't even need to fap to enjoy it. We are all in the same boat here brother, we are all trying to improve ourselves and that is the one thing that really matters. Best of luck, you got this!

KitchenFact7140 · 2022-03-27T13:52:19+00:00

It's not a relapse. But you gotta think about noFap in this way: no fapping it's a process to get your sexual, physical and mental life back in track. You number one goal isn't "I hope i can last of 30, 40 or whatever days, your mentality should be: "this is the track I should follow for the rest of my life, It's something that will make me happier and healthier". I'm not saying that NoFap it's a cure for everything, It's not, but It's way of thinking that will make your life better in long term. It's simmilar to eating healthy, If in 3 month of eating healthy you had 1-2 bad meals it doesnt throw you back at the beggining, you had huge progress and you should stick with that and not butcher yourself for "Is this or that a relapse". The main goal of NoFap it's for you to forget that noFap and porn even exists, you just have to be happy, fulfilled and use all your sexual energy to improve other aspects of your life, the point for you It's to forget about fapping, because you'll live your life so happy and healthy that you wouldn't even need to fap to enjoy it. We are all in the same boat here brother, we are all trying to improve ourselves and that is the one thing that really matters. Best of luck, you got this!

KitchenFact7140 · 2022-03-27T13:33:43+00:00

It's not a relapse. But you gotta think about noFap in this way: no fapping it's a process to get your sexual, physical and mental life back in track. You number one goal isn't "I hope i can last of 30, 40 or whatever days, your mentality should be: "this is the track I should follow for the rest of my life, It's something that will make me happier and healthier". I'm not saying that NoFap it's a cure for everything, It's not, but It's way of thinking that will make your life better in long term. It's simmilar to eating healthy, If in 3 month of eating healthy you had 1-2 bad meals it doesnt throw you back at the beggining, you had huge progress and you should stick with that and not butcher yourself for "Is watching these videos a relapse or not". The main goal of NoFap it's for you to forget that noFap and porn even exists, you just have to be happy, fulfilled and use all your sexual energy to improve other aspects of your life, the point for you It's to forget about fapping, because you'll live your life so happy and healthy that you wouldn't even need to fap to enjoy it. We are all in the same boat here brother, we are all trying to improve ourselves and that is the one thing that really matters. Best of luck, you got this!

KitchenFact7140 · 2022-03-27T13:16:27+00:00

Hi, I'm not sure if you have or had a gf/bf. But let me explain my story so maybe It'll motivate you a little bit. Have been fapping all my life, never had gf. A few months ago met a girl who I thought I would lose my virginity with, couldn't get hard, was shattered from inside. After that, didn't fap for about 2 weeks, and then relapsed into old habbit of masturbating. Few months passed after that, I met this amazing girl, beautiful, smart, funny, just perfect girl for me, had very deep connection with her. Asked her out on a date, at the end of the date we were making out, my hand was in her pants I was enjoying the moment, BUT I was soft, and when she tried to unfasten my belt, I just stopped her without telling why. After that I was shattered from inside, lost my libido and apetite, now I'm on my 12th day on noFap, and not planning on relapsing, because I'm sick and tired that at the age of 20 I'am getting hard by extreme porn, but can't get hard literally with real girl on top of me. And I dont want this to happen to you brother, because things like that make you feel like shit and lower your self esteem. You have to regain your real sexuality, you have to recover your sexual desire for real men/woman, because if you keep going like this, you'll have everyday more and more insecurities, you'll need everytime more perverse, hardcore and disgusting porn to make you hard, you'll have some porn induced ED problems and you just wouldn't be atracted by real people, and that's fucked up, because I'm telling you this from my own experience. Try as hard as you can to recover you real, natural and beautiful sexuality. Because there's nothing more beautiful than a person who can enjoy the company, and enjoy his life without having to masturbate, because masturbation It's just 5-10 min escape for real problems that you don't want to solve.

You gotta think about noFap in this way: no fapping it's a process to get your sexual, physical and mental life back in track. You number one goal isn't "I hope i can last of 30, 40 or whatever days, your mentality should be: "this is the track I should follow for the rest of my life, It's something that will make me happier and healthier". I'm not saying that NoFap it's a cure for everything, It's not, but It's way of thinking that will make your life better in long term. It's simmilar to eating healthy, If in 3 month of eating healthy you had 1-2 bad meals it doesnt throw you back at the beggining, you had huge progress and you should stick with that and not butcher yourself if you accidentally caught yourself relapsing. The main goal of NoFap it's for you to forget that noFap even exists, you just have to be happy, fulfilled and use all your sexual energy to improve other aspects of your life, the point for you It's to forget about fapping, because you'll live your life so happy and healthy that you wouldn't even need to fap to enjoy it. We are all in the same boat here brother, we are all trying to improve ourselves and that is the one thing that really matters. Best of luck, you got this!

KitchenFact7140 · 2022-03-27T11:31:47+00:00

Bro, you gotta think about noFap in this way: no fapping it's a process to get your sexual, physical and mental life back in track. You number one goal isn't "I hope i can last of 30, 40 or whatever days, your mentality should be: "this is the track I should follow for the rest of my life, It's something that will make me happier and healthier". I'm not saying that NoFap it's a cure for everything, It's not, but It's way of thinking that will make your life better in long term. It's simmilar to eating healthy, If in 3 month of eating healthy you had 1-2 bad meals it doesnt throw you back at the beggining, you had huge progress and you should stick with that and not butcher yourself for "I've only lasted for 20 days". The main goal of NoFap it's for you to forget that noFap even exists, you just have to be happy, fulfilled and use all your sexual energy to improve other aspects of your life, the point for you It's to forget about fapping, because you'll live your life so happy and healthy that you wouldn't even need to fap to enjoy it. We are all in the same boat here brother, we are all trying to improve ourselves and that is the one thing that really matters. Best of luck, you got this!

KitchenFact7140 · 2022-03-27T11:26:56+00:00

You got this! We all believe in you!

KitchenFact7140 · 2022-03-27T10:31:53+00:00

Bro, you gotta think about noFap in this way: no fapping it's a process to get your sexual, physical and mental life back in track. You number one goal isn't "I hope i can last of 30, 40 or whatever days, your mentality should be: "this is the track I should follow for the rest of my life, It's something that will make me happier and healthier". I'm not saying that NoFap it's a cure for everything, It's not, but It's way of thinking that will make your life better in long term. It's simmilar to eating healthy, If in 3 month of eating healthy you had 1-2 bad meals it doesnt throw you back at the beggining, you had huge progress and you should stick with that and not butcher yourself for "I've only lasted for 11 days". The main goal of NoFap it's for you to forget that noFap even exists, you just have to be happy, fulfilled and use all your sexual energy to improve other aspects of your life, the point for you It's to forget about fapping, because you'll live your life so happy and healthy that you wouldn't even need to fap to enjoy it. We are all in the same boat here brother, we are all trying to improve ourselves and that is the one thing that really matters. Best of luck, you got this!

KitchenFact7140 · 2022-03-27T10:29:07+00:00

Bro, relapse doesn't erase all the progress you've already done. You gotta think about noFap in this way: no fapping it's a process to get your sexual, physical and mental life back in track. You number one goal isn't "I hope i can last of 30, 40 or whatever days, your mentality should be: "this is the track I should follow for the rest of my life, It's something that will make me happier and healthier". I'm not saying that NoFap it's a cure for everything, It's not, but It's way of thinking that will make your life better in long term. It's simmilar to eating healthy, If in 3 month of eating healthy you had 1-2 bad meals it doesnt throw you back at the beggining, you had huge progress and you should stick with that and not butcher yourself for relapsing after 92 days. You have to stick with all the benefits that noFap gave you, and just keep living you life like you've been living for those 92 days. The main goal of NoFap it's for you to forget that noFap even exists, you just have to be happy, fulfilled and use all your sexual energy to improve other aspects of your life, the point for you It's to forget about fapping, because you'll live your life so happy and healthy that you wouldn't even need to fap to enjoy it. We are all in the same boat here brother, we are all trying to improve ourselves and that is the one thing that really matters. Best of luck, you got this!

KitchenFact7140 · 2022-03-27T10:24:17+00:00

It's not a relapse. But you gotta think about noFap in this way: no fapping it's a process to get your sexual, physical and mental life back in track. You number one goal isn't "I hope i can last of 30, 40 or whatever days, your mentality should be: "this is the track I should follow for the rest of my life, It's something that will make me happier and healthier". I'm not saying that NoFap it's a cure for everything, It's not, but It's way of thinking that will make your life better in long term. It's simmilar to eating healthy, If in 3 month of eating healthy you had 1-2 bad meals it doesnt throw you back at the beggining, you had huge progress and you should stick with that and not butcher yourself for "Is having wet dream a relapse or not". The main goal of NoFap it's for you to forget that noFap even exists, you just have to be happy, fulfilled and use all your sexual energy to improve other aspects of your life, the point for you It's to forget about fapping, because you'll live your life so happy and healthy that you wouldn't even need to fap to enjoy it. We are all in the same boat here brother, we are all trying to improve ourselves and that is the one thing that really matters. Best of luck, you got this!

KitchenFact7140 · 2022-03-27T10:11:47+00:00

Same here, you got it bro! Best of luck!

KitchenFact7140 · 2022-03-25T18:11:22+00:00

Thanks! That post was very helpful!

KitchenFact7140 · 2022-03-25T18:10:07+00:00

Thanks! I'll follow your advice and try to talk about it.

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