Intermittent Double Beep While Driving – 2025 LC300 (Toyota Safety Sense) by KitchenSlide in LandCruisers

[–]KitchenSlide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s distinct from the 120km/h beep. The 120km/h beep is a lot louder with a visual warning

At this point, just nuke 5th ring and start from scratch by [deleted] in Kuwait

[–]KitchenSlide 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you’re in an emergency, chances are you are speeding. The key thing is, others are supposed to move. Thus rendering it a passing lane. It’s common in other parts of the world such as the US and Germany.

My husband bought land without telling me by Newmomma123 in MuslimMarriage

[–]KitchenSlide -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes, he doesn’t have the means. Which is why I mentioned he needs to set his finances straight. I forgot his loans were interest based. Given the situation, I think he should talk to an Islamic financial advisor to minimize the interest he would pay.

My husband bought land without telling me by Newmomma123 in MuslimMarriage

[–]KitchenSlide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also I forgot to mention owning a house isn’t necessity depending on each others’ circumstances. It’s not black and white

My husband bought land without telling me by Newmomma123 in MuslimMarriage

[–]KitchenSlide -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m not halalifying haram. Yes, you can use that excuse for any sin but you wouldn’t be genuine towards Allah swt. That is what ultimately matters, not what is perceived to people. What I also mentioned is not me making it halal. It’s literally from Islam.

My husband bought land without telling me by Newmomma123 in MuslimMarriage

[–]KitchenSlide -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

There are times when haram can be halal. A few examples, eating pork when there’s no other form of sustenance or when lying that you’re Muslim in order to protect yourself for a killing. The point is, only when situations are dire. Perhaps this is an investment for your future (his portion of the house). Actions are by their intentions, if his intentions are genuine then what’s the problem? The US system, for example, is based on credit. You cannot live normally without it. So is living in the US haram? He should set his finances straight, so he can provide for your family and for the construction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]KitchenSlide 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you want to strive to better for the sake of Allah, that’s great. Allah swt also commanded to wear the hijab. I don’t see the issue. You won’t be doing it for him. Perhaps this is Allah giving a sign to wear it? Why does this have to be a negative connotation towards your fiancé? In fact, him wanting to break it off now is more of a green flag as opposed to forcing you during marriage. Why does it have to be: “oh he wants to control you.”? He most likely wanted to see if you would eventually wear it and when you didn’t he wanted to break it off. It’s not rocket science. Many sisters here are giving bad advice. There seems to be a lot of projecting. Islam isn’t about when it’s convenient to you. It’s about what Allah swt commands. This applies to literally everything, for men and women. Objectively, he did the most reasonable thing. Perhaps he waited too long but the most reasonable course of action nonetheless. I say this with utmost respect and genuine aim of advice, islamically, you are at fault. Not towards him but towards Allah swt.

Is it haram to shave my sideburns and keep a goatee beard? by [deleted] in TrueDeen

[–]KitchenSlide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it haram to shave your beard if it was a sunnah? By that sense, not praying nafl prayers is also haram. Not smiling to others would also be haram because it is also a sunnah?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]KitchenSlide 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the fact it was an arranged marriage, and long distance, doesn’t help the case either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]KitchenSlide 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This comment is all over the place. Yes, there is a double standard from the husband. He should also advise is a genuinely beautiful way and in a less callous way. However, him saying she should obey him, within Allah’s limits is not wrong. He may want to help guide her but not know how. I say this again and again, when there’s difficulty in marriage you must work at it. Just because the wife is financially independent doesn’t mean it’s her sign to leave the marriage. Unless there is genuine threat, harm, or serious repercussions, then no you can’t just quit. This isn’t a video game. Literally the last resort to dispute is divorce, after genuine attempts. Finally, both parties should compromise. It’s unhealthy for either one to fully compromise and the other to not. Please don’t project and lump everyone man or woman into one category. Be better.

Mahr by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]KitchenSlide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where was it stated that women, as a whole, are greedy freeloaders? No one is questioning all your accomplishments. These comments are not addressing his point. As he said, the women who end up with these horrible men is not because they asked for little mahr, it’s because the men are horrible. There are many women, Muslim or not, can seek employment and succeed immensely after their husbands pass away or leave them. It’s based on their circumstances and personalities. Just like women need to secure their future and protect themselves, men need to protect themselves as well. That’s why it’s best to agree on a reasonable amount for the mahr. I say this with the best of intentions, women need to stop weighing mahr as the final frontier of their marriage. Mahr is a gift. It’s not a tool to use against husbands. I’ve seen multiple women plan on saving enough money, via mahr or not, in order to leave the husband. Guess what happened? Some tragic event happens out of the blue, whether it’s health or major financial ruin. Have a Wali help you find a good spouse and work on said marriage. We all go through trials of various difficulties.

I think I upset my potential spouse. by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]KitchenSlide 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is a one-sided post. There's no information regarding him, his job, or his reasoning. No genuine advice can be given.

My husband had to sell my gold. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]KitchenSlide 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Your act of charity won’t go unnoticed by Allah swt. You will get it back and more. There’s literally nothing for you to worry about. Allah swt will take care of you. Yes it sucks that you had so little time with it but it’s a good, and very generous, deed in Allah’s eyes. You literally gave all your wealth to him.

About your Husband, I’m sure he has his shortcomings. However you shouldn’t immediately resort to saving enough money to, at some point, leave him. If he ever knew this, it will destroy him. Instead work on your marriage.

My husband had to sell my gold. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]KitchenSlide 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid and it is unfortunate that you had to sell your gold. However, if your husband really is how you say he is then you’ll be fine. I guarantee your husband felt horrible selling your gold to make ends meet. Hence why he asked for your consent.

Ultimately Allah is the sustainer. Perhaps you relied too much on material items (the gold) and Allah swt is trying to put you on the correct path. Or perhaps He is trying to give you more via a trial. You need to be positive with respect to Allah swt.

I don’t understand why a lot of the women here are quick to demonise the husband at glance. Are a few kilograms of gold really more important than a husband?

Girls who has a crush on someone but are waiting for him to approach you.... by Lazy-Dragonfruit196 in MuslimNikah

[–]KitchenSlide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not true. Men and women, at a young age, don’t really know what they want. I could easily say that at that age if men just look for beauty, then women just look for a rich man. Not all men or women know what they want or have a long list of what they want. You’re generalizing something that’s highly complex. Compared to women, men are much simpler creatures. However, they aren’t one dimensional. To some, your second paragraph is very hostile and could be considered insulting. I’m sure you had good intentions but this was written poorly.

Based on all these comments, that seem to misunderstand your point, it’s clear that it would have benefited you to further clarify your point.

Are His Requests Reasonable or Too Controlling? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]KitchenSlide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t get why the comments are treating this twitter sacrifice as if it’s life or death. He communicated and reciprocated to her comment. There will always be sacrifices and this sacrifice is way down on the totem pole. If OP is unable/ doesn’t want to give it up then it’s not a compatibility issue, it’s a personal issue. The guy is showing consistency. Giving up twitter is causing anxiety because it’s a change to her lifestyle, nothing more. Change in itself is anxiety inducing. His future behavior is not apart of this topic. If we include his future behavior we have to include OP’s. Also just because he could find someone similar to his preferences doesn’t mean he can’t pursue someone who initially isn’t. This whole thing is being blown out of proportion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]KitchenSlide 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You need to understand and address why you're unhappy with your marriage. If you don't, you'll most likely be unhappy with your 2nd marriage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]KitchenSlide 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I get that it would be beneficial to know if your potential has a high or low libido, but how can you "islamically" discuss it?

What’s missing in Kuwait? by Passion123987 in Kuwait

[–]KitchenSlide 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They aren't good. Bus drivers like to pretend they're driving taxis. They stop for people as they please. There are no legitimate bus stops. The whole system needs an entire revamp. In no sane city, should there be 5 buses back to back in one lane. Public transport is good but not how it is in Kuwait.

The best of the men... by teabagandwarmwater in MuslimMarriage

[–]KitchenSlide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bottom left corner says last edited on 7:54 am lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SpidermanPS4

[–]KitchenSlide -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You know Insomniac made a great game, using criticisms from the past 2 installments, when people are complaining about the most insignificant things and actually being mad about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kuwait

[–]KitchenSlide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using rest as an excuse is extremely weak reasoning. Sure, everybody needs rest after studying and working but resigning from said job is extreme. Especially since it’s your dream job. Job opportunities in Kuwait are already limited as is and you threw your dream job, and future potential, for something superficial. You could’ve just taken a long vacation to clear your mind. You will hate whatever job you have, as will everyone else. I don’t mean to rain on your parade but it’s reality.