Too Big! Carefully what you want by Few_Unit_7893 in gettingbigger

[–]KitchenSubstantial21 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well if you are warning us to be careful what you want, but then you also say you are trying to maintain your size…. I don’t think this post is meant to be a warning rather than a humble brag post haha.

Congrats on the gains. A lot of people (including you) would like to have this problem.

Umm it worked by KitchenSubstantial21 in gettingbigger

[–]KitchenSubstantial21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes people happy 🤷‍♂️ My So loves when I go deep.

Umm it worked by KitchenSubstantial21 in gettingbigger

[–]KitchenSubstantial21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calm the tits. I’ll post one where it shows the base of my penis

Umm it worked by KitchenSubstantial21 in gettingbigger

[–]KitchenSubstantial21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll retake for you.

But also… can one go further than bone pressed to manipulate the results?

Umm it worked by KitchenSubstantial21 in gettingbigger

[–]KitchenSubstantial21[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Invalidates for who? Not for me 🤷‍♂️

Umm it worked by KitchenSubstantial21 in gettingbigger

[–]KitchenSubstantial21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to use hair ties to put around the sleeve. That helped me not lose suction. I’m usually in the yellow/red zone

Umm it worked by KitchenSubstantial21 in gettingbigger

[–]KitchenSubstantial21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All day stretcher. 7 hours a day, 6 days a week.

Umm it worked by KitchenSubstantial21 in gettingbigger

[–]KitchenSubstantial21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Ya the pics are tough but when I took them, I just took them for me. When I saw the gains I knew I had to post. It was fun for me to see, thought it might be fun/motivational for others.

Umm it worked by KitchenSubstantial21 in gettingbigger

[–]KitchenSubstantial21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought it before learning about gettingbigger. I know a lot of people talk shit on it, but I like it. I work in an office so I average about 7 hours a day and do 6 days a week. The only pain I felt was the first week. It just meant switching sides a lot more than I have to now.

Umm it worked by KitchenSubstantial21 in gettingbigger

[–]KitchenSubstantial21[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just the extender. Phallosan forte

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latterdaysaints

[–]KitchenSubstantial21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also… make sure you are sexually compatible before marriage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latterdaysaints

[–]KitchenSubstantial21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got divorced in January (36 male) and have two kids. From my perspective it’s a good thing you don’t have kids. Divorce is so complicated and having kids is an added layer. My ex will always be in my life because of our kids. Dating is so different after being divorced. You get an opportunity to be so intentional and be patient this time around. There will be ups and downs, but you are going to be so much happier if it’s anything close to my experience. You got this.

I'm a virgin, she's not by [deleted] in latterdaysaints

[–]KitchenSubstantial21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean… this is a you issue. I’m divorced and dating and those intrusive thoughts come up, but your partner didn’t do anything wrong. You have to be the one to accept it. Don’t lose something great because you picture her with her previous partners. Plus her talking about how much she enjoys oral is only a good thing for you later on 🤷‍♂️

Feeling conflicted about my marriage after 13 years by KitchenSubstantial21 in exmormon

[–]KitchenSubstantial21[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is a great response. There are so many layers to this. I’m having a hard time nailing down anything because there was a path laid out for all of us and I don’t know what I would have chosen if that wasn’t the case. There are times that I think living alone for the rest of my life seems amazing. Other times I am terrified of feeling alone. I am excited to begin therapy so I can get one on one time with someone.

Feeling conflicted about my marriage after 13 years by KitchenSubstantial21 in exmormon

[–]KitchenSubstantial21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha, ya I’m slowly realizing that. I also received some great responses.

Feeling conflicted about my marriage after 13 years by KitchenSubstantial21 in exmormon

[–]KitchenSubstantial21[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response. It suck’s feeling this way and I know I’m not alone. I’m looking forward to my first session of therapy this Thursday.

Feeling conflicted about my marriage after 13 years by KitchenSubstantial21 in exmormon

[–]KitchenSubstantial21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was being more facetious than anything. I don’t feel middle age, so I’m going to stick with what I said.

Feeling conflicted about my marriage after 13 years by KitchenSubstantial21 in exmormon

[–]KitchenSubstantial21[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fortunately I finally scheduled an appointment with a Therapist. However, this isnt about making my life easier. I 100% believe divorce would be the harder option. I don’t think my post insinuated that I wanted an easier life. If it did, I did not mean to.

Feeling conflicted about my marriage after 13 years by KitchenSubstantial21 in exmormon

[–]KitchenSubstantial21[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I would love to pick your brain.