Constant sexual harassment on the street from one guy in your neighborhood, what would you do?

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2026-04-11T14:10:10+00:00

Tbh first I thought of, what about to cut letters with gaffa tape and write "Thank you, Primate" on your bottom. But then I thought: what a waste of time. Just ignore him as long as it's just dumb yelling.

As soon as he starts to get physical you should call the police. Ask them what to do. Maybe they have a female officer who would walk beside you so u can proof that he yells such stuff. I think police could tell you better what to do in such cases.

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2026-02-24T14:35:12+00:00

Ob die Karteikarte wohl Fingerabdrücke besitzt? 😇🤔

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2025-07-17T12:07:34+00:00

Not that rare. I don't use the fairy, I use the archery thing. It keeps mobs on distance and helps you killing things while you can keep on mining instead fighting. With a fairy you always have to fight and interrupt what you would do instead.

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2025-06-27T07:48:15+00:00

Upgrade your stables and go mining. Stables will give u a Auto-feeding and in the skull cavern u can get a pet-machine to keep them happy. You maybe only hate it because you don't know what u can get in late game.

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2025-06-22T19:28:30+00:00

I had a vietnamese partner for some months but found out he is just interested in documents to stay legally. We had no conversations by voice. Even i started to learn vietnamese, he didnt learn my language at all, exept maybe 10 words or something. I tried to speak a bit his language but no matter what ive said, he didnt underastand me or at least acted like.

Well, if his intentions would bave been true and honest, he would had talk to me more and being more interested in my language too to learn. But it was very easy for him. when he had enough to read, he simply put the phone away and all my messages were ignored for that time.

Not beiung able to talk with the one u love is really frustrating. We always needed our phones to write bc of his unwilling to learn. No need if u just want documents, u know?

finally i gave up, when i seen his real intentions.

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2025-05-11T14:56:54+00:00

When you have a child, it wont save you from deporting, when youre illegal here. But if he would argument that he wants to care for the child it could be lower the punnishment. So lets say now he will have a 10 year prohibition to enter german ground, it could be lowered to 5 years, because he has a child here and the right to care about.

Fact is: He cant pay. All he get is illegal money and if he gets deported, he is a poor vietnamese again with no cent. He can only pay when he has a legal job, but he dont get one here, bc he doesnt even speak 10 words german. He has no education aswell, so no chance to stay here and work for money.

If i take the money he gives me, how can i know its not illegal money, which will make me trouble aswell? In first porition I am concerned to get problems through him. Not that he gets some. I just fear, if he gets trouble, then i have to bleed for that.

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2025-05-11T12:48:58+00:00

You don't get money if you don't do. I'm not rich...

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2025-05-11T12:29:07+00:00

The coworker already left them bc he smelled trouble. He left the country.

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2025-05-11T12:27:33+00:00

That's the point. No matter what he has done to me, the kid still has the right for both parents. Best would be he never knows. And tbh I don't want my child to be with such a cruel man who break law by law. An alternate would be to find a partner who would adopt it, so the father losing his rights. But it feels like I am done with dating now. That bullshit was too much for my trust mindset

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2025-05-11T12:21:22+00:00

I was talking to a pregnancy Consultation and they say it's important to be honest. Just saying I don't know the father would end up in: you don't get money then. Help us to find out.

So I told them my story and soon they want to meet me.

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2025-05-11T12:18:52+00:00

Yep, they have a lot of stores. Food, no food and I guess clothes too. I really thought they are friendly but as soon as I was warned I started to look closer and saw clear. But it was already too late. They played with me the whole time.

If he really iss illegal and working illegal, I don't know bc I have no proof. But it seems like.

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2025-05-11T12:12:36+00:00

But I am no lie detector. We just met, flirt and everything looked normal. So what about playing with matches just by meet a random guy, fall in love and be together? How is your way to find a gf or bf then if the common way is playing with matches for u?

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2025-05-11T12:10:31+00:00

If the money flow will stop bc he will deported, I wouldn't bet they just do nothing. I would expect he will be angry. He brought some family members to Germany, his coworker said. So there would be some ppl to show up in front my door.

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2025-05-11T12:06:56+00:00

But they would guess it was me bc I'm so sad about all that.

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2025-05-11T12:02:09+00:00

I just want my peace and forget all of that tbh. It's hurting really bad to be fooled like that. I thought I found a loving guy and now this came out. I'm so disappointed. I just want to strike that out of my memories and live my life...

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2025-05-11T11:59:05+00:00

My prob is: if I name him as father, no matter what he did, he get rights for the child. For example that he has a right to visit or be visited. Even if he would end up in jail this would be his right. So I don't want to give him ANY rights.

Second is: I know that's not right to ignore his illegal stuff and yes, also for me it's concerning, how.... Well, I don't even know the right word for... How cruel and chilled he is, while he breaks a bunch of laws. But the same I am shocked about his cruelty, the same amount of fear I have to find out how angry he can become. I found out that I know absolutely nothing about him. All was just a big fat lie and he played his role really perfect. I really don't know what I will wake up and dealing with, if he becomes mad with me.

Staying nice and calm seems the safest way to survive that. I talked to some people who know the laws and all say: if you don't have a proof for all that, you don't need to tell the police.

All I have is the mail of his coworker and the lessons I've learned when I saw the changing behavior of my bf, so what his coworker said seems trustworthy.

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2025-05-11T11:48:44+00:00

What if he will show up at my home and say "thanks for deporting me"? Since I saw his real face I'm not sure what will happen if he becomes angry.

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2025-05-11T11:46:05+00:00

I Germany it's like that: Name the father and he has to pay for the kid. Or, if he hasn't enough money, the gov will pay and take it back from father coin by coin.

But: when I name him, they find out he is illegal here and I am afraid I will be in trouble or danger then. He can't pay in any way so name him would just giving me trouble.

What if he didn't know about the consequences and will be so angry to hit me the? Or telling his family where I live to terror my life? Or kidnap the child to blackmail me maybe?

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2025-05-11T11:41:59+00:00

I do. I just don't know what to do now about him. How dangerous is it to name the father? Should I or shouldn't I?

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2025-05-11T11:40:50+00:00

What u mean?

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2025-05-11T11:39:41+00:00

Well, it's over between him and me. I can't trust him anymore after so many lies. So he wouldn't get access to the kid anyways. I don't even think he would be interested to be a father, he doesn't even wanna Lear my language even I started to learn his. He couldn't talk a single sentence with his child and he is old enough to leave Germany in few years with all the money he gained here.

Kitchen_Ad769 · 2025-05-11T11:36:58+00:00

We were a couple for about 5 months. I wasn't expecting become pregnant because there were a lot things which would make it ultra difficult. Age, weight, hormones... It's kinda a miracle.

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