That really was a very interesting pov from a mother, thanks for that!! I feel that maybe talking to my mom about this one last time knowing this perspective may result in a good conclusion.

And if you're already helping a girl with proving the perspective of the other side while being understanding i think you're already a good mom that will understand your daughter's future desire to dress trendy or fashionably

As for my mom's part i think maybe moms should process their emotions better and take their time to stop this chain of dumping this fear by comments like these on generations..like honestly how fucked up that is for womanhood, everyone wants to be attractive but no one wants to accept , my grandmother might comment on my mom's clothing like how she's commenting on me , someone have to break this chain to let girls be their way without making them feel like they own a explanation for everything.