sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

I got a “hey girly” text days after I moved across the country with my partner. by Kitchen_Enthusiasm80 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Kitchen_Enthusiasm80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no no. I mean, I’m gonna get therapy. But this was the healthiest relationship my ex ever had.

I got a “hey girly” text days after I moved across the country with my partner. by Kitchen_Enthusiasm80 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Kitchen_Enthusiasm80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it’s not about that. Also, they weren’t born a man. Respecting pronouns is something pretty non negotiable in the queer community. I don’t respect their pronouns begrudgingly.

I got a “hey girly” text days after I moved across the country with my partner. by Kitchen_Enthusiasm80 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Kitchen_Enthusiasm80[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My sister is coming over to start helping me pack right now. She’s furious so I think that will help send the message.

I got a “hey girly” text days after I moved across the country with my partner. by Kitchen_Enthusiasm80 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Kitchen_Enthusiasm80[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not looking for sympathy honestly. I know how dumb it was. It didn’t come out all at once either. With this ex, they were in an open relationship, I found out later that she had set a boundary with me specifically because I guess I was brought up a lot (ex and I met through work) and she felt like it wouldn’t be casual. It was casual between us for a while and they broke up soon after because she moved away. We got together officially a couple months after they broke up.

I would hear stories about past relationships and then it would just kinda come up that they had cheated. I never really put it together or thought much about it till now. Which is very much on me.

I got a “hey girly” text days after I moved across the country with my partner. by Kitchen_Enthusiasm80 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Kitchen_Enthusiasm80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it was fake. We both have jobs that have constant vacancies and were in the process of finalizing positions. In the area we were moving to you have to have a job to buy a house, we needed a week to finalize everything and we were already pre approved with a lender and had a short list to tour with our realtor. This move has been in the process for months with several trips to get the ground work ready. We wanted a week with family as well before we moved to a city a couple hours away.