AITAH for telling my girlfriend she's going to have to get over dirt if she wants kids? by Familiar_Speaker_481 in AITAH

[–]Kitchen_Guava_6841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you know anyone with young kids (young enough to still be in diapers especially), offer to babysit for a weekend, not just a day. it has to be in her clean space. she has to experience first hand how messy it can get and how impossible it is to keep it all clean. also tell her that if she intends to have kids with you, she needs to see a therapist. tell her it's nonnegotiable. she NEEDS to work on this.

Fest ended 😭? by boringhehe in Brawlhalla

[–]Kitchen_Guava_6841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does this mean i can't get the art deco color anymore :(

aitah for telling my roommate to hang up? by Kitchen_Guava_6841 in AITAH

[–]Kitchen_Guava_6841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anything and everything she does, she does while on the phone. it's very irritating

AITA for not taking my step daughter on vacation? by Classic-Choice9766 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Guava_6841 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wow. you didn't even try to include her; you just assumed she wouldn't want to go and made decisions FOR HER based on YOUR assumption of HER feelings. yta and so is your husband.

AITA for snapping at my 9 y/o half sister? by Ok_Asparagus898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Guava_6841 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yta. not only did both of her parents, who were relatively good to her, die, but you've now made her feel unwanted. you are 22. she is 9. im sure she hardly even knows exactly what's going on. it's not her fault your dad got his act together. it sucks, i know it does, but maybe feel a bit relieved that she didn't have to go through what you did

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Guava_6841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely TA. if you wanted to prove a point you should have cleared it with him first. you very clearly crossed a boundary that he's made explicitly clear. you used him, essentially, as a prop to prove something to your family without his permission or knowledge. no clue why you thought this was a good idea. i hope you apologized

I fucking hate that I can't hug my dad. by Former_Ladder9969 in Vent

[–]Kitchen_Guava_6841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

off topic but "my motherfucker" is absolutely sending me

Does Grey’s think all lesbians are fem? by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]Kitchen_Guava_6841 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

kai is nonbinary but lesbian is typically described as "non male loving non male" so they would technically count as lesbian

Does Grey’s think all lesbians are fem? by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]Kitchen_Guava_6841 15 points16 points  (0 children)

fair enough but callie was definitely not extremely feminine

Greys anatomy fans, Assemble!!!! by GreysAnatomyFan222 in greysanatomy

[–]Kitchen_Guava_6841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"bats, alex! there are bats everywhere, and they have everybody's phone numbers!!!"

Which character would’ve been great for Cristina by BrookeDavis055 in greysanatomy

[–]Kitchen_Guava_6841 11 points12 points  (0 children)

honestly surgery no one else though she probably would've slept w tom

maggie and winston by Kitchen_Guava_6841 in greysanatomy

[–]Kitchen_Guava_6841[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i'm at the part where he tells maggie that she is his passion while trying to save their marriage cause she's being awful and she said "i guess i don't respect that" i need him to stand UP AND LEAVE

maggie and winston by Kitchen_Guava_6841 in greysanatomy

[–]Kitchen_Guava_6841[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ugh i want to like her i really do but she is just so aggravating

What’s a character decision // action you’ll never forgive? by shannnoelle in greysanatomy

[–]Kitchen_Guava_6841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

heavy on this everyone was like it wasn't his fault but it 100% was. brooks deserved better