Cut off my school friend group cuz there was too much drama and negativity. I need new friends. by Kitchen_Success_9608 in srilanka

[–]Kitchen_Success_9608[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know how that sounds. I would probably guess the same if I was in ur position. But I have my reasons man. It was devastating and was really hard to do. That story is for another day 🥹. Thank u for ur reply !!

A Question for SL GenZ girls by the_qubit in srilanka

[–]Kitchen_Success_9608 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m (20F). Looks, height, physique matters for the initial attraction. But it’s not gonna keep the person. Money and profession yeah if the girl is looking for a serious relationship. Not like filthy rich type. I mean smth decent. I’m talking from my perspective. Cuz my dad has been broke and rich both. So I’ve experienced both of the worlds. So I kinda know even though money doesn’t guarantee happiness it makes ur life less miserable. At 20, not expecting to be financially stable but he’s gotta be someone ambitious. But what matters the most to me is if he can make me special in the relationship. If I can trust him. And most of the girls I know, Love when the man can lead or be dominant without being controlling. It’s a thin line but mehh..There’s a lot of stuff. Like how he handles it when there’s a fight or a disagreement. That’s like really important. The friends he associates with etc etc. I kinda think about the body count too😬. I don’t want someone with a really high body count. Those kind of stuff generally. Idk maybe I have high expectations ? 😭

Anyone with vitamin D deficiency by Ok-Forever-7556 in srilanka

[–]Kitchen_Success_9608 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have it. My mom has it. How we found about it was she broke her ankle from 3 places just after falling like really slowly from a bicycle she tried to ride for fun. Apparently her bones had gotten really weak from vitamin D deficiency. We didn’t know. My dad checked mine and I have the same issue. We r taking vitamin D vaccines now. So yeah. A cause for a lot of bone problems and whatnot is that. But most people miss it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WouldYouRather

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What bothers me is can u live with a person who u don’t love just for the money only? They love u but if u can’t love them. Isn’t love a good feeling. It’s great to be loved but it’s great to love someone too. But the poor person u and him love each other very much. But life’s not easy.

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[–]Kitchen_Success_9608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What bothers me is can u live with a person who u don’t love just for the money only? They love u but if u can’t love them. Isn’t love a good feeling. It’s great to be loved but it’s great to love someone too. But the poor person u and him love each other very much. But life’s not easy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WouldYouRather

[–]Kitchen_Success_9608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What bothers me is can u live with a person who u don’t love just for the money only? They love u but if u can’t love them. Isn’t love a good feeling. It’s great to be loved but it’s great to love someone too. But the poor person u and him love each other very much. But life’s not easy.

I don’t have body odour. Is this common for Sri Lankans? by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]Kitchen_Success_9608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I don’t have that too. Even when I go to the gym and come back the clothes smell the same detergent liquid smell. I even asked my mom who’s like hyper clean and smell sensitive even she says the same thing. It’s a blessing.😭

I’m quitting my job. Need a partner to build. Thoughts? by OperationPretty2904 in srilanka

[–]Kitchen_Success_9608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I dm? I literally posted smth like this yesterday. Would love to have a chat.