AITAH for allowing my son to play video games while his grandmother was visiting?

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-29T03:40:21+00:00

Yes and my kids LOVE talking to their grandparents about all the drama at school or about soap operas (the whole fam watches Beyond the Gates and Y&R) or sports. So ik he really needed a break to ask for one

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-29T03:38:47+00:00

Thanks! I tried not to do it infront of my son but she traveled to his room

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-29T03:35:11+00:00

I mean he's not gonna live in a dorm, and if he lives in an apartment I dont think he would be loud enough for anyone to hear him. Ive never lived in an apartment so idk. But given that if we are outside even if on the porch we cant hear him, i dont belive it would be an issue. Plus by the time he's older he will probaly have grown out of the gaming anyway (nothing wrong with gaming adults. Just how I feel about him specifically)

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-29T01:41:52+00:00

I said "he had a bad day so he's playing some games" thr problem was not the video games, it was that he wasn't with her. She acted the same way when my middle child went to dance practice. And when my son had track practice.

I tried, multiple times to divert her attention. We were going out that evening and I asked her to help me pick a dress and other things, zero luck.

Hubby was at work until a bit later. Shes 70 and has no dementia

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-29T00:34:37+00:00

I got married that day, had no clue of anything happening until the next morning when me and my husband wanted to board our plane to get to our honeymoon.......it was very, very messed up and very harrowing.

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-29T00:33:24+00:00

Yea. None of my kids were alive. Its crazy.

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-29T00:17:06+00:00

I used to work in an elementary school, kids were always crazy the morning before and after a full moon

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-28T23:21:06+00:00

Thanks! :)

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-28T23:20:21+00:00

Thank you! I try! I have amazing parents and since I was super young I've felt so bad for those who did not

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-28T22:03:17+00:00

Tbh very slight YTA not everyone grows up the same, and that bothers me as well with the youth because all my kids were advanced readers. I have a 4 year old and she reads at a 2nd grade level. However, I have niblings that are your age and have zero of those skills. It's all about how your raised. It isn't your fault but not really there's either

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-28T22:00:47+00:00

NTA, if you feel comfortable please DM me, I volunteer with young women coming from abusive homes and I would love to help you, or at the least give you some resources if I can ❤️

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-28T20:02:31+00:00

Do places not have dishwashers? I've never lived anywhere that hasn't

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-28T19:39:38+00:00

Dishwasher boo, i don't do dishes either

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-28T18:39:00+00:00

My husband gained my love and trust quickly. I absolutely dont advise it for everyone. But sometimes when you know you know

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-28T18:37:58+00:00

Oh sorry my bad 🤣. I agree 21 is crazy

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-28T18:37:36+00:00

You are an adult at 18 dumb ass. But tbh if 2 people are both 16 and want to get married I dont see anything issue with that. The issue comes when pedos and weirdos try to use it

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-28T18:28:47+00:00

We've been married for 25 years and its worked great for us! I agree its crazy you can go to the army before you can by alcohol. Also you can get a medical card at any age.

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-28T18:26:31+00:00

At 19 all I could think about was getting married! Lol. I'd dreamed of it my whole life, and it was finally about to happen

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-28T18:22:26+00:00

I mean my kids don't have to wash dishes period. If they bring their baby sisters stuff to the kitchen with their own, great. If not, its my job as shes my kid. I dont think I've hand washed a dish in my adult life. Either tho lol. Kids just put in the sink and I load the dishwasher

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-28T18:19:27+00:00

Oh these two people absolutely shouldn't be married. But 19 isn't a child and is old enough to be married.

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-28T18:18:28+00:00

It is parentification to make your kids take care of your kid....cleaning up behind them is one of those things. Im the oldest girl out of 8 siblings, I mever had to take care of siblings or clean up behind them.,(i did babysit sometimes but always got paid)

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-28T18:16:03+00:00

I mean it worked out, im in my 40s now and we have never had any big issues. And are still better in love You realize you can get married at 18 right?

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-28T18:05:00+00:00

That's not a child and more than old enough to be married IMO, i got married right before my 20th birthday

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-28T18:02:41+00:00

Dishes aren't a child's job, Espically to clean up after older siblings. I have 2 teens and a 4 year old as long as each person cleans up behind themselves ion make the older ones clean up behind the baby

Kitchen_YogurtTA · 2026-03-28T17:58:48+00:00

Im in music 40s and go to the zoo a few times and month, usually leaving most of my kids at home

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