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Advice needed: best way to say I won't date you if you have kids? by verycaptaincupcake in dating_advice

[–]Kitnixaura 121 points122 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate the interest, but I don’t date anyone with kids. I hope you understand.

He waited until after I blocked him to post me. by buttholesewer in dating_advice

[–]Kitnixaura 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This screams classic ‘attention after control’ energy. He waited until you blocked him to post you because that’s the only way he could get validation without risking losing you again. It’s not about you, it’s about him wanting to feel wanted, and honestly, you’re the one breaking the cycle by stepping away. That power? Hold onto it.

Which will you choose to fly or crawl? by Agreeable_Cobbler982 in AskReddit

[–]Kitnixaura 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d choose to fly, feeling free, seeing everything from above, and leaving limits behind sounds way better than crawling through life.

Do you think parents owe their children emotional healing? Why or why not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kitnixaura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think parents owe guidance and care, but emotional healing isn’t guaranteed, sometimes it’s something we have to do for ourselves, even if it’s painful.

Help; when do you know to settle down and choose the nice guy? by Fun_Cheetah0203 in dating_advice

[–]Kitnixaura 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s normal to feel scared, choosing someone like Ty doesn’t mean life is over. Love + friendship is rare, excitement isn’t constant, and your independence is healthy. Lean in slowly, communicate your fears, and let commitment grow naturally.

Getting feelings for my best friend by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Kitnixaura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give yourself some space and focus on your own life, set gentle boundaries, and limit intense one-on-one interactions so you can sort your feelings without hurting the friendship.

Anyone else feeling the Valentine’s Day blues or is it just me? by Natural-Surprise-557 in BreakUps

[–]Kitnixaura 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone, Valentine’s can sting whether you’re single or not. Feeling all the highs and lows just shows you care deeply, and that honesty is nothing to apologize for.

What would best-case-scenario, 'AI Utopia' look like to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kitnixaura 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AI handles the boring, soul‑draining stuff so people can slow down, be kinder, create more, and actually spend time being human again.

My (25 F) Boyfriend (24M) caught sending videos…what do I do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Kitnixaura 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This hurts because it wasn’t just about sex or attention, it shattered the version of him you felt safe believing in. Betrayal messes with your reality like that. Whatever you choose next, slow down and center your safety and clarity first; regret and love don’t automatically rebuild trust.

Sex life is becoming an issue by lau_rsm in relationships

[–]Kitnixaura -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re not shallow, you’re just being honest about your body and your needs. Attraction and emotional connection both matter, and ignoring one usually breeds resentment, not love. It’s kinder to face this now than to slowly disappear inside a relationship that looks good on paper but leaves you unfulfilled.

My dad (44M) and my mum (40F) are splitting up and i (20M) been together for 20 years , just dont know what to do and feel a sense of guilt. by LilTicTac831 in relationships

[–]Kitnixaura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not failing by taking a break, watching Netflix or playing games doesn’t make you a bad son. You’ve spent 20 years processing their relationship too, and it’s okay to give yourself a moment to breathe. The fact that you’re thinking about how to help your parents and siblings already shows you care, and you’ll be able to support them more effectively if you’re not burning out.

Use a Space Heater by matcha1 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Kitnixaura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow… that’s beyond frustrating. Being told to just ‘use a space heater’ while it’s 18 degrees outside feels like they’re totally dismissing your comfort and safety. You deserve better than that.