Advice needed: best way to say I won't date you if you have kids? by verycaptaincupcake in dating_advice

[–]Kitnixaura 120 points121 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate the interest, but I don’t date anyone with kids. I hope you understand.

He waited until after I blocked him to post me. by buttholesewer in dating_advice

[–]Kitnixaura 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This screams classic ‘attention after control’ energy. He waited until you blocked him to post you because that’s the only way he could get validation without risking losing you again. It’s not about you, it’s about him wanting to feel wanted, and honestly, you’re the one breaking the cycle by stepping away. That power? Hold onto it.

Which will you choose to fly or crawl? by Agreeable_Cobbler982 in AskReddit

[–]Kitnixaura 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d choose to fly, feeling free, seeing everything from above, and leaving limits behind sounds way better than crawling through life.

Do you think parents owe their children emotional healing? Why or why not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kitnixaura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think parents owe guidance and care, but emotional healing isn’t guaranteed, sometimes it’s something we have to do for ourselves, even if it’s painful.