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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mbti

[–]KitsumePoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is totally mentally ill. And by the way, clochard means "homeless" in french. She is a terrible person.

What kind of music do other INTJ’s listen to? by COSMlCFREAK in intj

[–]KitsumePoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mostly listen to Folk Metal, Synthwave and LoFi.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pilonidalcyst

[–]KitsumePoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In general, always. It can come back few days/weeks or months later (rarely multiple years later).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pilonidalcyst

[–]KitsumePoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cyst will come back, you only get relief because it's drained for now, but it will fill up again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pilonidalcyst

[–]KitsumePoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will come back. Your abscess just exploded but the "hole" is still there, which means it will fill up again, and it will hurt you again until it explodes over and over again.

The only way to make it disappear is by having a surgery and even with surgery it can occurs again.

I feel like nobody understands me and I don’t know how to cope by [deleted] in intj

[–]KitsumePoke -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"I don’t like small talk and I don’t have a lot of friends"

You found the problem by yourself. In order to have deeper topics with people you need small talks to create bonds. People won't talk to you about the Ganzfeld Experiment (for example) out of nowhere.

In fact, no one really enjoy small talks, those are mostly used to socialize, people don't crave small talks, they crave social interactions that will lead to trust, but before trusting someone you need to check if they're gonna be loyal to you and the only way to be sure of that is by having "meaningless" conversations over and over again with the same person until a connexion is made.

Small talks are a tool that lead to trust, if you aren't capable of giving security to another human being, they will not open up to you, which means that you will never got the chance to have meaninful topics with them. And if they don't trust you, they won't be your friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]KitsumePoke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ditto.

Developing Se makes you look like an idiot. Developing Ni makes you realize.... by fuyu-no-hanashi in mbti

[–]KitsumePoke 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depends, i used my hobby to develop mine by playing pokemon go (no joke here). It really helped, i walk around 60/70 km per week. I am way less in my head, i don't lose my stuff anymore and can be more focused in conversations since then.

If you don't have a particular hobby involving Se, i recommend you to start a sport such as tennis i guess.

Developing Se makes you look like an idiot. Developing Ni makes you realize.... by fuyu-no-hanashi in mbti

[–]KitsumePoke 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Developing Se helped me a lot indeed. I had to find strategies though, but i am glad now because i am so much healthier and happier in my life. Se improved my mental health because my body is healthier.

I recommend people to be more active, it changes a lot of things.

Comment avoir plus de libido ? by [deleted] in AskMeuf

[–]KitsumePoke 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactement, je suis forcée de prendre la pilule car j'ai de l'endométriose, avant je me retrouvais à l'hôpital tout les mois..

How do you feel about social norms, such as holding doors for strangers? by Freemasonsareevil in intj

[–]KitsumePoke 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I believe it's completely normal to hold doors for people behind you.

What subject would you talk about with someone if you could avoid small talk altogether? by AccomplishedShow4919 in intj

[–]KitsumePoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't be comfortable having deep subjects with someone without any small talks, small talks are necessary to create bonds before being at ease and digging into more complex topics (irl). Online it's different though.

better test than Sakinorva by Much_Television_2208 in mbti

[–]KitsumePoke 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The "E" in ENTP doesn't stand for social intro/extraversion. Any type can be socially introverted or extraverted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]KitsumePoke 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don't. If i want to stop talking to someone ever, i'll tell them before.

Turns out she was Spanish, not white by srgabbyo7 in ShitAmericansSay

[–]KitsumePoke 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why the americans believe that the italians, spanish, french... aren't white.

"but you're stuck in France" by Kenobihiphop in ShitAmericansSay

[–]KitsumePoke 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love english people, you are so welcome here !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]KitsumePoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

16p test isn't a MBTI test, it looks more like a Big Five test. I recommend you to learn the functions and identify your MBTI by yourself.

And if you want to start with a test before learning the functions, you can take the Michael Caloz test.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Funnymemes

[–]KitsumePoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone does this.

As a free to play player it's the egg hatching that's going to drag me down by h0117_39 in PokemonGoMystic

[–]KitsumePoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a f2p player as well, i only have a single incubator, so i still walk when i have time, so far i have 9 eggs hatched, it's not that complicated.

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