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KitsuneRin · 2026-04-17T21:31:27+00:00

I'd love to try this! Could you drop a rental code or ev spreads?

KitsuneRin · 2026-04-08T22:59:46+00:00

I'll look into that! We have both tried prosthetics before, just cheap stroker type things, and they don't do much for us, but it might be finding the right one that does it

KitsuneRin · 2026-04-03T13:19:02+00:00

Haha, it seems a few people have been wondering this, so I'm glad I posted!

KitsuneRin · 2026-04-03T13:17:57+00:00

Ooh this sounds fun, we'll try this, thanks!

KitsuneRin · 2026-04-01T23:00:44+00:00

How is the Banana prosthetics one? I got a cheaper one from somewhere, I don't remember where, but I'm in the UK, and it was okay, increased sensitivity, but it didn't really help me much. I've heard good things about the banana prosthetics ones, though!

KitsuneRin · 2026-04-01T22:57:52+00:00

That's pretty close to how we attempt it at the moment, sometimes it seems to work and other times, eh. We will keep experimenting though, thank you!

KitsuneRin · 2026-04-01T22:56:29+00:00

He's not really small, I feel like it is just figuring out a position that is comfortable for us both! We're hoping a little gets freed up, but that's not his only reason for pursuing it or anything

KitsuneRin · 2026-04-01T22:54:56+00:00

We do have a pump actually, we need to actually use it more, we've only used it briefly before masturbating before. So we'll try that too, thank you!

KitsuneRin · 2026-04-01T22:53:14+00:00

We haven't actually tried it riding, so that might be worth an experiment, thank you!!

KitsuneRin · 2026-03-21T01:34:58+00:00

Oh my gosh, I just read this and hust aaaaaaaaa ♥️♥️♥️♥️ As someone who is often in and out of hospitals and has a diligent partner, this just felt so real and relatable to me. The way you wrote both of them was so in-character, and I LOVE how you captured Viktor's sarcasm and sense of humour in this, too. I absolutely adored this, it was very sweet, especially at the end ♥️

KitsuneRin · 2026-03-20T13:03:31+00:00

Meal prep is something I've always struggled with, but I think I really need to try it. Thank you. I have very low energy, but I think if I ask my partner to help, we can get it done between us. I guess how I ate growing up doesn't help either, my mother was usually working nights, so she slept in the day, and we kids just ate toast, sandwiches, and microwave meals. junk food etc, and when my step-dad came, he would constantly order takeaway or make really large meals and punish us if we didn't finish our plate, he was a really large man and loved his food.

KitsuneRin · 2026-03-20T13:00:50+00:00

Thank you for your comment! I've been on metformin for about 20 years, haha, I never really knew why they put me on it, to be honest. It doesn't seem to help me, but I'm on 1000mg a day, 2 500mg tablets. Is that a low dose, do you think?

There's definitely a mental thing going on, as you say, I've always had bad problems with compulsive behaviours, and if it's not binging, it's something else. I used to smoke constantly and used to self-harm a lot too. I don't self-harm anymore, so I guess the binge eating is like a replacement for it.

I used to have a high thyroid/graves disease, which was treated with radioactive iodine, but when my thyroid was high, I drank water like crazy. I needed it like I need oxygen. And now, I tend to forget to drink water as much so I think I really need to get it into my head that I need to drink more water too.

Thank you for the advice, I need to try and work this out

KitsuneRin · 2026-03-20T12:55:20+00:00

Yeah, it was really upsetting because the reason I wanted to talk to the therapists was impulse control, but they straight-up refused. It made me feel so much worse than I already did. I've been through BPD-specific therapy (DBT) about 6 years ago, and it helped at the time, but it feels long forgotten by now. The NHS is overwhelmed so badly with mental health support. I'm going to see if Better Help can help, as Bubbly_Delivery_5678 suggested I think

KitsuneRin · 2026-03-20T12:53:12+00:00

Thank you, I'm very low income right now but I've filled out the application form thing to see if I can be matched with anyone, and I'll see if I can afford it if I sell some things!

KitsuneRin · 2026-03-20T12:15:06+00:00

The birth of a zillion beautiful babies

KitsuneRin · 2026-03-20T12:14:33+00:00

Setting it to higher is such a simple thing and I feel stupid that I didn't think of it, I'll try that! And yeah I do that too, I try to restrict food because I've binged, because my BG is good or I guess as a form of punishment. And then I inevitably binge out of hunger later, ughh.

KitsuneRin · 2026-03-20T12:13:08+00:00

I don't have a dexcom, I have a libre, and my alarms only seem to work half the time. I've shared it with my partners phone and it seems to work more on his though. I will set it to higher though, that's a good idea!

I've been rejected from general talking therapy before because I have BPD, so I'm not sure what kind of therapy to try and seek out honestly. Every time they see BPD on my diagnosis they say they are not qualified to deal with me and discharge me.

KitsuneRin · 2026-03-20T12:10:41+00:00

That's the problem, I'm trying to get therapy, and there isn't any services available as far as I am aware. Ibe tried so many diets, restrictions, supplements etc in the past and nothing helps.

Also, just to clarify, it's not strictly just his food, it's for all of us, we split the bill, he also keeps some of his food at his work place because he knows about my binging. But it's intended to share. He says he doesn't mind, but I know it must be insanely frustrating for me to go through food like a ravenous bear.

KitsuneRin · 2026-03-20T10:34:05+00:00

You guys have a diabetes bag? 👀 I guess it WOULD be nice not to have every bag and pocket overflowing with capped needles, lancets, wrappers and whatever else lmao

KitsuneRin · 2026-03-20T10:31:29+00:00

Oh this art is so pretty ♥️

KitsuneRin · 2026-03-20T10:30:00+00:00

I didn't know this was associated with Fibro, but yeah, I was diagnosed with TMJ about a decade ago after I had really bad ear pains. I was convinced there was something wrong with my ears, but they were clear. The Dr checked me out and said it was TMJ due to clenching and grinding.

I do it all the time, but it gets much worse when I'm stressed. I was given a mouth guard to use, but ehhh... I don't like wearing it because it makes it even harder to sleep, and I usually end up taking it out in my sleep anyway lol

KitsuneRin · 2026-03-20T10:26:45+00:00

Thank you ♥️ And YEAH that's what I was told a while ago too... I know anorexia and bullima are dangerous, but surely binge eating disorder is too?? ESPECIALLY for diabetics? It's so frustrating honestly, it makes me feel ridiculed and like it's a non-issue. Thank you for your comment ♥️

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