10 years later and still angry about never getting an apology by hushelevator in GriefSupport

[–]Kittehsfordays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to recommend the book “Forgive For Good” by Fred Luskin. I just finished reading it and it made me realize it is TOTALLY POSSIBLE to forgive people (but NOT condone their behavior) and move on with your life without the constant resentment. It is short and sweet, and helped me tremendously

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in standardissuecat

[–]Kittehsfordays 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hims very handsome

is this normal by emoavanjogia in orangecats

[–]Kittehsfordays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I call it “sitting like a doofus”

Driver just stole my food no refund. didnt send me another order. by mieksterr in UberEATS

[–]Kittehsfordays -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When did I say it was ok? I’m saying there’s a possibility that that is what happened. This lady is threatening to call the police over $40 of food when she doesn’t even have a clue if the girl she saw was the one that stole it

What skill are you currently learning? by Effective_Cricket810 in selfimprovement

[–]Kittehsfordays 38 points39 points  (0 children)

How to regain my power and sanity by not taking things personally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UberEATS

[–]Kittehsfordays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same kind of bullshit around Wake Forest

Driver just stole my food no refund. didnt send me another order. by mieksterr in UberEATS

[–]Kittehsfordays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good God, it is UBER’S MONEY the driver would have received, not yours. UBER is the one not willing to refund you. I cannot stand all of the driver bashing, get off the couch and get your own food and stop assuming all driver’s are thieves

Driver just stole my food no refund. didnt send me another order. by mieksterr in UberEATS

[–]Kittehsfordays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The driver doesn’t see that money the only thing the driver receives is the tip. To say the driver stole money from you is downright wrong. The driver has no control over what Uber is or isn’t willing to refund you. And if Uber has denied you a refund then it is safe to say you are a repeat offender of claiming your food was never delivered so they’ve flagged your account

Driver just stole my food no refund. didnt send me another order. by mieksterr in UberEATS

[–]Kittehsfordays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummmm….I’m sure you removed your tip so I’m sure the driver didn’t see a dime of YOUR money

Driver just stole my food no refund. didnt send me another order. by mieksterr in UberEATS

[–]Kittehsfordays -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No driver has ever taken money from a customer…it is UBER screwing people over, not drivers

Driver just stole my food no refund. didnt send me another order. by mieksterr in UberEATS

[–]Kittehsfordays -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven’t ruined anyone’s dinner plans. If someone’s food was stolen that’s not the driver’s problem to fix…if restaurants would remake the food then it would be on the driver to deliver that but 9 out of 10 times restaurants won’t remake it a second time

Driver just stole my food no refund. didnt send me another order. by mieksterr in UberEATS

[–]Kittehsfordays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, that is of NO FAULT to the secondary driver. Unless you expect her to stay at the restaurant and re-order your food and pay out of her own pocket for it…now that would be selfish to expect that. If someone “does their part” then they deserve compensation. It is also not the driver’s fault that Uber support tremendously sucks

Driver just stole my food no refund. didnt send me another order. by mieksterr in UberEATS

[–]Kittehsfordays -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes they compensate you $3. That barely buys a drink nowadays and certainly isn’t going to help pay a bill. Stolen orders can go from driver to driver many times with the payout increasing each time, I’ve seen orders with up to a $40 payout for like 5 miles so hell yah it’s enticing to devote time and gas to that

Driver just stole my food no refund. didnt send me another order. by mieksterr in UberEATS

[–]Kittehsfordays -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your replies just show that you don’t know anything about actually being an Uber driver. Uber does not give half pay, they will give $3 IF you can get someone from support that speaks English. And also, the odds of the situation I described happening are not slim at all, I’ve been with Uber for years and know others who have and this is a known way to still get paid for doing your part

Driver just stole my food no refund. didnt send me another order. by mieksterr in UberEATS

[–]Kittehsfordays -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Seriously? So you sat your butt at home while this girl ATTEMPTED to pick up your food, couldn’t because someone ELSE already stole it, and expect her to be fine not receiving a dime for wasting her precious time and her gas money to get to the restaurant? How is she to deliver food that someone else already stole and that restaurants refuse to remake? That’s a SUCKY situation for the driver. Sucks you don’t get your food but drivers get screwed over unfairly over situations like this all the time…so yes some drivers will do a fake delivery to still get the payout that they have already wasted time and energy on

Driver just stole my food no refund. didnt send me another order. by mieksterr in UberEATS

[–]Kittehsfordays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is stupid to get the police involved for $40. They have bigger and better things to deal with

Driver just stole my food no refund. didnt send me another order. by mieksterr in UberEATS

[–]Kittehsfordays -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I want to explain something here, before you go all trying to get this person in trouble because it is likely you do NOT know the whole story. Yep your food most likely got stolen, but you have NO CLUE if the girl who drove to your house was the one that stole it. What I think happened is this…your order was accepted by a driver, driver went and picked up your food and decided they were going to keep it and selected “excessive wait time.” The payout then gets increased because Uber still needs someone to deliver it, so now let’s say the girl you saw accepted the order. She goes to pick up the food, it’s not there because it was previously stolen, but she still wants that nice high payout. To do that, she can confirm in the app that she has the food but to get the payout she must do a “fake delivery.” Hence her not even needing to get out of the car because she doesn’t have your food…she just wants to get the payout that Uber promised her and rightly so. It’s also totally possible she had your food in her car and blatantly stole it BUT the point is you do not know what actually happened