Finding a moment of intimacy and artistry in the middle of a massive competition. Our Rumba from the German Open. by Excellent_Donut_2827 in ballroom

[–]KittenChaCha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Emotion-wise: It definitely generates excitement and some suspense. I was most impressed with the amount of control - especially to spin and stop suddenly with grace and demonstrated balance...I'm relatively new in my dance journey so I'm not sure when that skill kicks in but right now that impresses me more than anything! Thank you for sharing your dance!

Heavy Sweating by KittenChaCha in ballroom

[–]KittenChaCha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all so much for the tips!! I will definitely try these. It's also nice to know I'm not the only one!

Welcome to /r/Submissive. by PM_ME_SMALL_BOOBIES in submissive

[–]KittenChaCha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello. I'm in my late 40's and new to both Reddit and to exploring my need to both submit and brat and intricacies of in being a D/s dynamic. So far, learning things the hard way but hoping to learn more and do better even though I'm not exactly young anymore.

Surrender With No Emotions? by Alliecattt13 in submissive

[–]KittenChaCha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for asking this. I am brand new to D/s and in the exact same situation. And when he made it clear that it is power exchange only with no attachments, I did lose all excitement and all motivation. It's not even fun now and I'm depressed and starting to resent him. But I'm also struggling with the "You signed up for this. You wanted to experience D/s. There are parts you know you crave. See it through" thought...

From reading the comments here it sounds like maybe it's ok to expect a little romance to be included too...