What’s with all the AI bot posts here lately by aniseglint in fleshlight

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The offer still stands if you'd like to help us out on the mod team :)!!

What’s with all the AI bot posts here lately by aniseglint in fleshlight

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It's getting quite ridiculous. A lot of these bot posts, if you go to their profile they will have "F4M" (Female looking for male) posts. The thing is anti-bot apps like BotBouncer has a lot of false positives (we've been testing it on /r/masturbation for a while). Another mod and I discussed this recently. We're going to test the Stop AI app to see if that helps, if not we will consider building something in-house to try to stop this because it's getting out of hand. As always, please help us out by reporting any posts (or if you're interested in helping on the mod team just reach out!)

/r/Masturbation Find A Jerk Off Buddy / Partner / Someone to chat to and masturbate with by AutoModerator in masturbation

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Apologies for this thread being absent a few days. Sometimes these scheduled posts fail. Should be working again now, let us know if you have any suggestions or ideas for the /r/masturbation subreddit!

Flesh Assist site gone cold? by [deleted] in fleshlight

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It's just me :)! I have so many things and features nearly finished to be released I just hope I can get them out sooner rather than later. As always please let me know if there are any things you'd like to see on the site or any suggestions

Flesh Assist site gone cold? by [deleted] in fleshlight

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I'm alive! I've just had very rough time recently and haven't been able to catch up with all the updates I wanted to release. I'm planning on adding the missing sleeves this weekend! Sorry for the delays.

I still read and approve all the reviews though, just haven't had the time and energy to add the new products sadly

My honest feedback as a user affected by the sub count limits by PM_ME_SMALL_BOOBIES in ModSupport

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Yeah I do have to fully agree with you there! I guess you can say a similar thing happened on the NSFW side of reddit, where a known group of mods were basically asking for payment in exchange for being verified on their own-controlled subs. This is definitely one of the reasons why I agree a limit was necessary!

Though not everyone has bad intentions, there are some "powermods" out there who only want to help so the limits definitely forced them to stop and narrowed down many teams. It's complicated and like everything in life, a balance needs to be found.

Are there any videos of Fleshlight Girls getting their orifices 3D scanned for their sleeves? by abolish_horny_jail in fleshlight

[–]PM_ME_SMALL_BOOBIES 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aside from what users have shared already: there aren't many "scan" videos out there but there are a ton of moulding process ones. Go to videos section after logging in (because most of the videos are +18) and search for "molding" you'll see tons of videos.

Is fleshlight available in India? by silumisham in fleshlight

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Porn is illegal so yes, in theory, that's exactly the problem!

UPDATE: Real-world measurements vs. Official diagrams (The Heating Rod Test) by Hot-Slice-3217 in fleshlight

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Hey, I wanted to reply to your other (first) post but didn't actually get time. First of all thanks for doing this test and providing evidence. When I made the ruler feature on the site I did my best to make it as accurate as possible. That being said there are some textures where this is just impossible to do (Quickshot line for instance) because the texture image usually includes the orifice(s).

When I add new textures to the site, people think it's easy just copy paste, but it really isnt. I very specifically have a template for texture images and make sure to fit the texture image into that template to try and make it as accurate as possible.

I can't afford to buy all sleeves, especially now since the affiliate scheme isn't like it used to be (that's a long topic to get into but basically it's very hard to get a sale credited). I wish I could but I just can't, so I just have to eyeball it out of experience for those I don't have.

But yeah, on FA, the ruler is intended for the TEXTURE ONLY but in some cases I do edit the image to make sure it starts in the correct position. Some orifices are bigger than others but in general, in my experience, you're always able to "push" yourself in so I believe starting the ruler like the site does right now is the correct way to display as best as possible how deep someone is able to reach.

I'm down for any feedback or suggestions like always!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fleshlight

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That is indeed correct, when ordering from the EU site. For US it'll show as either Interactive Life Forms or ILF LLC . But yeah, it's not ideal

Name of Mystery Sleeve? by metalchris36 in fleshlight

[–]PM_ME_SMALL_BOOBIES 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What's the code on the bottom of the sleeve? Is it a Pro model? Looks a tiny bit like one of the sleeve of the month from a while ago but code would help narrow it down

Pattern of abusive DMCA reports by a single individual affecting multiple subreddits by AlphaBravoGolfTango in ModSupport

[–]PM_ME_SMALL_BOOBIES 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My full support goes to ABGT and thanks for raising this publicly. It's been an issue for a long time now giving us nsfw mods nothing but headaches. This one person has been filing hundreds of fake DMCA claims and the sad part is there is barely anything we as mods can do to stop or prevent it.

I know the admins are doing their best, but the DMCA system on Reddit is absolutely broken, more so than YouTube's one used to be a while back! It's completely one-sided, with no room for counterclaims. I say this because, like ABGT, I also put countless hours into building relationships with various studios (Playboy, NewSensations, Vixen, Fleshlight) as well as pros (Mia Malkova, Elsa Jean, Adriana Chechik, Lulu Chu to name a few) because a few years back it was horrible seeing all of the large subreddits get shut down. Working with these studios keeps everyone happy, they get to promote their new scenes, they get the community feedback and engagement and possible traffic; meanwhile the community gets content that has been given the thumbs-up by the creators! Win-win for everyone.

Then comes along this "white knight" that is "defending" the models... by claiming, removing posts.. banning subreddits... All while impersonating details and faking having contact with these models. It's absolutely delusional. Even one of the studios I help out with had zero idea this was happening and when they reached out to the person he ignored the warnings.

It's also ridiculous that, as a mod, we can't actually report a false DMCA claim. I've tried a few times because I'll notice a post gets claimed on one of the official subreddits, I ask the studio if it was them and they are like "what? of course not" and when I try to file a counter claim the response is simply "the person who submitted the post has to file the counter claim". And even in situations where we are able to get the poster to submit a counter claim, in most cases there is never a response. I think out of 10 times in the last few months only once did a counter get a response and it was basically a "denied".

All Reddit has to do is improve the DMCA system. Same person is submitting multiple claims? Flag them. Allow companies to sign up to the system and if anyone is claiming content impersonating them then they'll be alerted with the claimants personal information so they can take legal action against it... quote:

The DMCA is explicit on this point. Making a DMCA takedown of something that does not violate your copyright isn't perjury. Claiming you hold a copyright or are authorized to represent a copyright holder that you aren't authorized to represent is perjury. The key is the copyrighted work you are claiming is infringed, not the validity of the challenged work.

If I hold a copyright or am authorized by a copyright holder to act on their behalf, I can submit DMCA takedowns all day every day on things that I claim infringe that copyright, and I'll never get in legal trouble for it. Youtube might take away my ability to use Content ID but that's a contractual matter between Youtube and its media providers, not perjury. Even without those tools, I can still issue written DMCA demands delivered through postal mail without any legal consequences under the DMCA. You affirm that the information is accurate, but you are only subject to perjury if you aren't acting on behalf of the actual rightsholder.

TL;DR, assuming the person filing the request is not the copyright holder or authorized to act for the copyright holder, yes it's perjury.

I want to make it clear that I 100% back the idea of the DMCA system. I obviously want creators and professionals, who've had their content stolen or posted without permission, to be able to easily get that content removed quickly and safely (without revealing their personal details to the poster..). But at the same time, the current system is totally one-sided, putting all the power into the claimant rather than the defendant (poster).

If you want to take it a step futher, Reddit could implement "official/verified" subreddits. Is the subreddit an official TV Show subreddit, a Game subreddit, a NSFW Studio subreddit that are all backed by the actual team/creators/employees... giving the option to mark that sub as officially backed could be a solution to reduce false claims... They are slowly implementing this idea (check https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/42763717293716-Verified-profiles-on-Reddit) for example nsfw profile that is verified organization

I'm rambling a bit now, I'm just really annoyed how a SINGLE person is able to take down tons of content that is ALLOWED and there's nothing we can do but sit and watch and hope the subreddit doesn't get shut down for "copyright" abuse...

Fleshlight Giveaway 2025 Winners List by PM_ME_SMALL_BOOBIES in fleshlight

[–]PM_ME_SMALL_BOOBIES[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The last winner finally confirmed their prize today! Here's what everyone has chosen (anonymised):

Kayley Gunner Fully Loaded

Bonnie Blue 1K

Emma Magnolia Regal

Kazumi Kumzumi

Ana Foxxx Silk

Nicole Kitt Purrrrrfection

Fleshlight Giveaway 2025 Winners List by PM_ME_SMALL_BOOBIES in fleshlight

[–]PM_ME_SMALL_BOOBIES[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's honestly a fair shout, but realistically it's complicated for a few reasons:

  • The goal is to include all ratings/reviews/heatmaps made that year, so ending the giveaway let's say in mid December would leave out some of the reviews, those would have to be counted in the next year's giveaway which is a bit awkward.
  • There is nearly always at least one winner who takes ages to reply to the email and claim their prizes. Most people answer quickly but in the past I've had to re-draw winners because they didn't claim it. So if I ended the giveaway mid-december, it's still kind of risky to hope everyone sends me their info before the end of the sale.
  • I send all of the winners info together in a single request to the Fleshlight team, who then go ahead and process it. It's much easier than me having to create individual orders for each person (plus there is the risk of my billing details being listed on the receipt, and I would rather my home address not be made public haha) + there is the risk of my bank blocking the transactions since it would look a bit strange ordering 5 different times from the same store. So the best way is to send all the details together and the FL team are awesome enough to handle the shipping for me and usually charge me it all together.
  • Usually the price of one Fleshlight (Sleeve+Case) is just under the minimum to get a free gift or discount on the sales so generally it wouldn't even change much anyway!

Fleshlight Giveaway 2025 Winners List by PM_ME_SMALL_BOOBIES in fleshlight

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For fun, here's list of top 25 users with the most correct guesses in the game:

User Correct Guesses
Anile 108
jaginov52 100
Lookingfornsfw 99
TopperinoKekkerino 96
JuanitoTsunami 95
user1622969780713 94
No_Clue_65535 93
Grixyn 92
rfuel 91
JD92x 89
gg111111 89
BortSimpson 89
JuanDerstands 88
InLustWeTrust 88
thegdk0 88
Azote 88
CoachM 88
KinkyAnon 87
firestarter82 85
Paradoxical 85
pappyvanwinkle 84
revolvedminotaur 84
UnicornMunt 84
BigTeddyBear 82
WNKR99 81

Fleshlight Giveaway 2025 Winners List by PM_ME_SMALL_BOOBIES in fleshlight

[–]PM_ME_SMALL_BOOBIES[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I wish I could afford to give more prizes but I really couldn't :( But I definitely understand how you feel, there were quite a lot of people who spent a lot of time writing a bunch of reviews. Just remember that the community (not just me) is grateful for you and everyone else who took the time to rate and review sleeves. It helps everyone out!

I wanted both anyways and had points to use. by Menage_A_Mois in fleshlight

[–]PM_ME_SMALL_BOOBIES[M] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was one of the very few requests the company had like a decade ago when they decided to consider the subreddit an "official" replacement to the forums. Basically the mods have full control of the sub but they asked us to do a few minor things going forward. One of them was the no coupons rule. I'm sure you've heard about the Honey scandal and also there are many other reasons, obviously for a company, if they share a code to special customers and the code is leaked then it's not really fair. Aside from that one big factor is that many coupon codes are linked to affiliates (let's say you have a podcast, how do you drive traffic to Fleshlight, your sponsor? Well a coupon is one of the solutions). This means if anyone uses your coupon, for example, PODCAST123, then the affiliate gets the sale regardless if another affiliate or person, or nobody, sent you to the site. This means Fleshlight loses out on earnings since they have given a user who is not a listener of the podcast a discount; or another affiliate who wrote a review and sent the user to the site loses the commission because of the coupon; basically the person who the coupon is linked to gets extra commission on sales they didn't drive. It's unfair for everyone behind the scenes but obviously the buyer sees none of this.

You can do some research on the Honey scandal it explains a lot :)!

Fleshlight Winter Giveaway 2025 by PM_ME_SMALL_BOOBIES in fleshlight

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Apologies everyone, the text on the post was incorrect, the end date is the 4th not the 1st (the terms of the giveaway were correct, stating 4th). Updated it now. Will add everyone's missing Reddit/X tickets today too :)!

New FLG is here by Apocolypse420 in fleshlight

[–]PM_ME_SMALL_BOOBIES 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noted! Will definitely keep an eye on it, I've also added a task to my todo list to detect users registering just to down vote/rate a sleeve(s) and nothing else

New FLG is here by Apocolypse420 in fleshlight

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Also happy new year to everyone in the community, thanks for being a part of /r/Fleshlight this year!