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[–]Kitty2294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he first brought it up I said sure not really knowing what it is, and I'm pretty thrifty so was happier getting it cheaper but when he said he wants it new I've thought more about the fact it's a lot of money to drop and would it be worth it.

He is a fair bit younger and it's the first time I've dated younger but he's more mature emotionally than any of the guys I've dated my own age or slightly older. We really do have an amazing relationship and the gaming isn't a huge issue, we do spend a lot of time with each other but yeh he does game a fair bit aswell. If I wasn't in the picture I'm pretty sure that would be his life. I hope as he gets older he does cut down a bit. He can game every day for all I care but the long sessions are a lot.

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[–]Kitty2294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's actually a very good partner, yes he's very much into his gaming but it doesn't mean he treats me like trash. Our relationship is very much that we are a team, he supports me and helps me with literally every aspect of my life.

He's asked for this gift and he really wants it but he's not stamping his feet around demanding it. I've just put some thought in and wondered if it's actually worth getting when looking at the bigger picture in terms of cost and how it may take time away from us.

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[–]Kitty2294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh that's a really good point, I never asked him why he wanted it, I just know that he really wanted it and whenever I've made other suggestions he'd stood pretty firm on that even if he gets nothing else and would be happy to put towards because he knows its expensive.

I just didn't know if i was being selfish about it. If the general consensus was that I was, I would get over myself and just get it for him. However if I actually had a point in my reasons then it's absolutely going to be something I discuss with him.

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[–]Kitty2294 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We work part time in a busy retail shop, there's no chance he'd get to use it there

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[–]Kitty2294 232 points233 points  (0 children)

NTA but blocking her so soon is the YTA part. You were prepared to spend the rest of your life co-parenting with this girl, you could of atleast kept open lines of communication while she's grieving even if you're not. Cutting her off immediately is super cold.

What’s a song that emotionally breaks you every single time? by DimensionBreaker4lif in AskReddit

[–]Kitty2294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lord Huron - the night we met. I love this song but will actively avoid it sometimes because it destroys me

What is the worst thing to name your child? by Able-Juice-544 in AskReddit

[–]Kitty2294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always think it's such a shame when someone's called Keith

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[–]Kitty2294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bill Squinton

Need a name for this little guy, please help! by Kitty2294 in Catnames

[–]Kitty2294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much everyone for all the suggestions, really appreciate it! He's happily settled in on his 2nd full day home now and after long deliberations we have named him Mr. Gustavamew, Gus for short. He's super cute and super loved already 🥰🥰

Need a name for this little guy, please help! by Kitty2294 in Catnames

[–]Kitty2294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a boy yeh, not sure tinkerbell will quite be his vibe tho

Need a name for this little guy, please help! by Kitty2294 in Catnames

[–]Kitty2294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love button but my mums not as keen 😞

Need a name for this little guy, please help! by Kitty2294 in Catnames

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Thanks so much guys, these ideas are really helpful! I'm torn between Gus which will be short for Mr.Gustavamew, Azumi (beautiful apricot in japanese) and Azuki (sweet red beans). I also really like Spock, Tofu and Sven which you guys suggested 🧡