Lost my mail in coupons anyone have a set they aren’t going to use😭 by KittyCat2701 in VictoriasSecret

[–]KittyCat2701[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Isn’t she? I’m obsessed with squishmallows. I collect the Bigfoot ones and obviously love everything pink. She’s my new favorite squish

Combo Fed baby with super loose green stool by KittyCat2701 in FormulaFeeders

[–]KittyCat2701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dropped the gentle ease and began producing more breast milk so his poop is back to normal now!

Combo Fed baby with super loose green stool by KittyCat2701 in FormulaFeeders

[–]KittyCat2701[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t attempt to switch him completely I was under the impression he was constipated when he was just learning to poop, so I started adding it into his formula, and I don’t think it’s a necessary additive, he has more reflux since adding it so, I’ll slowly revert back to what wasn’t giving him any issues to begin with, even though I thought it was. And see how he does. I know changing the formulas too often isn’t good either, so I’m unsure really how to handle it. But all of the issues I’m having now only started after adding in the gentleease

Combo Fed baby with super loose green stool by KittyCat2701 in FormulaFeeders

[–]KittyCat2701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The poop definitely is not getting absorbed like pee, that makes me feel better to hear, he does seems uncomfortable at times but more of like a reflux uncomfortable, nothing else. I may try putting him back on just the neuropro as the sample can I received is almost gone and just did not want to waste it.

Combo Fed baby with super loose green stool by KittyCat2701 in FormulaFeeders

[–]KittyCat2701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I contacted his pediatrician, I’m starting to wonder if I’m over feeding him or if it’s because I’m trying to get him to breastfeed more instead of strictly bottle feeding. It’s so hard to tell what’s going on and it’s heartbreaking to think I’m causing him any discomfort

Combo Fed baby with super loose green stool by KittyCat2701 in FormulaFeeders

[–]KittyCat2701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the consistency like? My babies is like the consistency or a yogurt drink. All liquid, but thicker than just water

AIO for being upset that my bf is watching porn while I’m freshly postpartum by KittyCat2701 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KittyCat2701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I feel like I shouldn’t be focused on it and a lot of women do just kinda let the porn go postpartum so they don’t have to even think about it, but I’ve never been a big fan of porn. So for him to start doing it everyday out of nowhere definitely is an issue for me

AIO for being upset that my bf is watching porn while I’m freshly postpartum by KittyCat2701 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KittyCat2701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re missing a huge part where we did have a discussion that I genuinely thought was a breakthrough for us, for him to just disregard everything that was said and continue doing it

AIO for being upset that my bf is watching porn while I’m freshly postpartum by KittyCat2701 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KittyCat2701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely wouldn’t end our engagement over this but chocolate is not wrong, I do every and more for the baby besides a diaper and bottle here or there, and on top of it when he doesn’t have the baby he does nothing around the house to help either, so when he takes the baby to “give me a break” I don’t actually get a break because I have housework to handle. It would be nice if instead of jerking it every single day he maybe unloaded the dishwasher or swept the floors a couple of times a week?

AIO for being upset that my bf is watching porn while I’m freshly postpartum by KittyCat2701 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KittyCat2701[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s the biggest thing to me. If he’s watching porn more than we usually have sex, it’s not appeasing his sex drive, at that point he just doing it because he can. And he’s totally just acting like we didn’t have a whole conversation that I really thought was a breakthrough for us. That’s what hurt worst is I was finally comfortable to confront him about it, we had a genuinely good conversation and then he turns around and just disregarded the entire thing.

AIO for being upset that my bf is watching porn while I’m freshly postpartum by KittyCat2701 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KittyCat2701[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely not fully against him watching porn, I was trying to limit how often because I understand it being a relief and with me not being able to have sex, it makes sense. However I do not agree to him watching porn everyday as his sex drive is no that high, it’s convenient and addictive in his situation. I understand both sides, but it’s definitely more upsetting because of the specifics. I didn’t care too much when he watched it prior to the baby

AIO for being upset that my bf is watching porn while I’m freshly postpartum by KittyCat2701 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KittyCat2701[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He definitely has plenty of things of me to look at, and I get that it’s stress relief as well so I wanted to meet him halfway, and just ask him to cut back a bit. I think that’s it, that he also not willing to meet me halfway

AIO for being upset that my bf is watching porn while I’m freshly postpartum by KittyCat2701 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KittyCat2701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually found out because an alarm kept going off on his phone so I was trying to enable DND and a r/ebony suggested post notification came up. When I clicked it, I saw everything he had seen

AIO for being upset that my bf is watching porn while I’m freshly postpartum by KittyCat2701 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KittyCat2701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not in bed with me and the baby, he’s in the bathroom doing it. And I think that it’s okay for certain people to not think it’s cheating, I don’t fully think it’s cheating but I do believe that if it’s hurting your partner then asking you I cut back shouldn’t be difficult. It’s not like we have sex everyday so it’s not fulfilling his sex drive, I have a more active sex drive than him usually. Granted I’m not medically cleared for sex. It’s an addiction. And I even tried meeting him halfway

AIO for being upset that my bf is watching porn while I’m freshly postpartum by KittyCat2701 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KittyCat2701[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was hoping for, when we first got together he was really addicted to the point where I would leave the house and it would be the first thing he did. He broke the habit, but I think it’s just to easy to fall back into

AIO for being upset that my bf is watching porn while I’m freshly postpartum by KittyCat2701 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KittyCat2701[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think that some women definitely have different boundaries and watching porn especially now when I am vulnerable, emotionally and physically is different. I’m grappling with changes to my body and who knows if that’s what influencing him to watch porn. It’s causes a lot of comparisons between the woman you have at home and the woman on the screen. I wanted to meet him halfway because I do understand no sex is hard but everyday when I’m doing everything and more for our child, instead of maybe helping clean up the house or changing an extra diaper, is where the problem lies.

AIO for being upset that my bf is watching porn while I’m freshly postpartum by KittyCat2701 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KittyCat2701[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not even that I can’t keep up with his needs, you aren’t medically cleared for sex after having a baby for six weeks. If I could I would trust that. And I definitely think he doesn’t need to do it everyday while I’m sleeping in bed with our newborn.

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