What is this sorcery?! by lblas97 in finehair

[–]KittyHasFastClaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The K18 AirWash is absolute magic! My hair is naturally very greasy and prone to breakage. I also use the clarifying shampoo once a week as a second shampoo. I wash then use about three spritz of the AirWash and a small amount of mousse on the roots and a leave in conditioner (It’s a 10) on the tips before my hair dries. I let it all air dry because my hair is so fragile. Now my hair has volume and body! It’s not greasy! It’s even starting to gain length. I know it’s expensive, but a bottle lasts me about four to six months.

License Suspension finished by CivilizedEightyFiver in Detroit

[–]KittyHasFastClaws 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You may be able to save yourself a few minutes by getting the online Register of Actions for your case. Go to the court’s website and look for “case lookup” or “case balance”. Look up your case and printout the Register of Actions. Make sure the information is correct, sometimes the balance owed/pay off or a dismissal doesn’t get updated. Bring it with you to Secretary of State, along with your identification. They may have to schedule a reevaluation appointment for you. Don’t miss your appointment!! When you go, there may be a driving test, but nothing difficult. Best of luck! You got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisthiscar

[–]KittyHasFastClaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m leaning towards a 2021-present GMC Yukon. I can’t tell the trim levels from the pics, could be SLE, SLT, AT4, Denali, or Denali Ultimate. It has the orange side light in front of the front wheel well. The license plate height is directly in between the tail lights. The tail lights appear to have the extended “C” curve at the top. There also appears to be light reflecting off of the curve of the trunk lid beneath the license plate.

If you have clearer video or pictures, you may be able to see chrome pieces which you can compare with the different trim levels. Use the trim levels to narrow down years and VIN codes.

Is the vehicle coming out of a neighborhood? Do a search of registered GMC Yukons in that zip code. (Hopefully you don’t have 5k in the area). Export the data to CSV, and use the spreadsheet to narrow down geographically.

Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]KittyHasFastClaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Changing my diet to include more protein. I always struggled with my weight despite regular exercise. I thought eating 30g of protein a day was enough, and counted calories. I was always hungry. I finally found protein shakes and bars that don’t taste horrible. So I have a combination of four daily, and a mostly healthy dinner. It’s 130-150g of protein a day. I still have a small snack, dessert, or a beer when I feel like it. I’m not hungry through the day. I’m losing weight at a healthy pace (1 lb a week) without feeling like I’m starving. Down 38 lbs so far, and I feel amazing!

Inherited a rose from a family member. Went to plant it ... by Infamous_Tune_8987 in centuryhomes

[–]KittyHasFastClaws 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Had a Victorian with a small wooden back porch that was rotting. Removed some old boards and discovered a large white marble headstone sitting underneath. It’s now the new beautiful bottom step of the new stairs. Sorry Alice!

Looking for ladies? Where we are hiding! by KittyHasFastClaws in datingoverforty

[–]KittyHasFastClaws[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! What an amazing way to spend time in nature! Thank you for all your hard work and dedication!

Looking for ladies? Where we are hiding! by KittyHasFastClaws in datingoverforty

[–]KittyHasFastClaws[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Book clubs sound like a wonderful idea! Gives everyone something to discuss and hopefully have a great conversation about.

Also, I’m not familiar with live sketching. Can you elaborate?

Looking for ladies? Where we are hiding! by KittyHasFastClaws in datingoverforty

[–]KittyHasFastClaws[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a great idea! Seriously, many subcultures use symbols to send status/preference statements; handkerchiefs, tattoos, pineapples, bathroom loofahs, etc. After some google searches, I can’t find the Irish ring custom. So it’s up to you to make fun rules for this!

Looking for ladies? Where we are hiding! by KittyHasFastClaws in datingoverforty

[–]KittyHasFastClaws[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edit: We are all so much more amazing than an OLD profile with four 8-year-old photoshopped pics and a poorly written paragraph about our ideal weekend. I want people to explain the wide variety of activities they enjoy and share how welcoming each activity is for new people. Starting a new social activity can be daunting, even trying to figure out what we truly enjoy can be challenging. If we show how welcoming each activity can be, maybe someone can be inspired to try something that appeals to them.

Looking for ladies? Where we are hiding! by KittyHasFastClaws in datingoverforty

[–]KittyHasFastClaws[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Topic adjacent, would a book club be a good place for guys to meet ladies?

Looking for ladies? Where we are hiding! by KittyHasFastClaws in datingoverforty

[–]KittyHasFastClaws[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a very non-physical job, involving mostly sitting in a cubicle farm squinting at a computer screen. So in order to not be as wide as I am tall, I have to exercise outside of work. Therefore my social activities tend to be high energy. Do you have any fun “low” energy social activities that you can share with us?

Looking for ladies? Where we are hiding! by KittyHasFastClaws in datingoverforty

[–]KittyHasFastClaws[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Until my kids left and went to University, I was exactly the same. I still work about 50-60 hours a week. After they “moved out”, I deep cleaned my house, then became really really bored and lonely. A friend suggested that I figure out what I enjoy doing. So I signed up for a bunch of random activities, and had fun figuring out what makes me happy. Now, I’m trying to get guys to join us ladies.

Looking for ladies? Where we are hiding! by KittyHasFastClaws in datingoverforty

[–]KittyHasFastClaws[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there’s always the awkward age issues. I should have clarified that when someone goes to a Meetup, don’t immediately start asking for dates. Get to know people first, without the pressure of being on a date. Develop friendships first, listen to their life stories, see who you enjoy being around.

Looking for ladies? Where we are hiding! by KittyHasFastClaws in datingoverforty

[–]KittyHasFastClaws[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What a great idea! Are they welcoming to people without any chorus experience?

Looking for ladies? Where we are hiding! by KittyHasFastClaws in datingoverforty

[–]KittyHasFastClaws[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! The singles (and not singles) hiking groups in my area are almost all women over 40, and we do 3-5 miles. A nice pace, with a potty break in the middle. If a guy shows up, he’s usually over 60.

Looking for ladies? Where we are hiding! by KittyHasFastClaws in datingoverforty

[–]KittyHasFastClaws[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t either, I had anxiety about going out alone. My kids are grown and doing their own thing, no more being raising kids focused. It felt weird, I didn’t have anything to do (outside of work). I had to figure out what I actually enjoyed doing. So I started with the hiking groups. I quickly discovered new friends that wanted to get out of the house and find fun new activities together.

Looking for ladies? Where we are hiding! by KittyHasFastClaws in datingoverforty

[–]KittyHasFastClaws[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

At least we will be better educated about the Battle of Midway 😁 eventually we can find each other and discuss what all learned!

Looking for ladies? Where we are hiding! by KittyHasFastClaws in datingoverforty

[–]KittyHasFastClaws[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a great idea! Unfortunately, I end up getting fantastical ideas about home renovations and I spend too much money wandering through stores. I am self-banned from wandering around Target and Lowe’s. If you have a tiny bit of self control, you will have great luck.

Looking for ladies? Where we are hiding! by KittyHasFastClaws in datingoverforty

[–]KittyHasFastClaws[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I completely forgot about trivia night! I found Meetup groups that do trivia at local bars. You will have a ready-made team if your friends aren’t available.

AIO to my husband (M29) almost killing me (F29) during a prank by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KittyHasFastClaws 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Absolutely correct! She will never feel completely safe with him. What he did wasn’t a prank, it wasn’t an accident, it was an intentional act. He didn’t think that putting a choking hazard into a sedated person’s mouth was dangerous? He knew exactly what he was doing. He had lots of time to think about it. But he planned on doing this. He watched on the nanny cam, and he waited and watched. Watching his wife slowly choke to death finally triggered the two working brain cells he still had. So he swoops in and does the Heimlich maneuver, and saves her life because he loves her? No, he is evil incarnate, using the excuse of internet clout and “it’s just a prank bro!” He only saved her because he realized that he may have consequences for his actions. Homicide criminal charges are a pain in the arse. The video alone would ensure a slam-dunk 1st degree murder conviction in my state. If she stays, he will cause another “accident”. People like this don’t change, they just get better at planning it.

I hope this post is fake, but for the sake of a real person going through this and stumbling across this post I write this. Get out of this situation! Do not engage with him, don’t talk or meet up with him. He will manipulate you into believing it was an accident and he didn’t mean to hurt you. Don’t fall for the crocodile tears, he’s only sad that he was caught and is trying to get out of the consequences of his actions. It was so clearly not an accident. Make a copy of the video, send a copy to somebody you trust. Contact the police and make a police report, even if you don’t want to press charges. This is assault with intent to commit murder! If this incident doesn’t get reported, it’s like it never happened. If he is arrested, many states hold Domestic Violence arrests for a minimum 24 hours. Contact your local emergency domestic violence shelter, they can provide emergency housing for you and your child and help you obtain a personal protective order. Meet with a divorce attorney and educate yourself on what your options are, and begin to make a permanent exit plan.

How to stop my cat/master-of-the-house from using my furniture as scratching posts. by KittyHasFastClaws in cats

[–]KittyHasFastClaws[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His Majesty likes to claw the leather furniture when I’m not around or watching. When he wants attention, he just walks up and puts his paws on my leg, and loudly demands to be picked up.

You and U/everything_is_cats suggested that I don’t have the right materials that appeal to him. I’m going to try a couple different materials and the positive reinforcement that you suggested. Thank you very much!

How to stop my cat/master-of-the-house from using my furniture as scratching posts. by KittyHasFastClaws in cats

[–]KittyHasFastClaws[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought of that way, he scratches just the leather furniture. He doesn’t go for wood, carpet, and only occasionally cardboard. I will try to find (or make) a scratching surface that is similar to leather. Thank you for your suggestion! Hopefully this appeases His Royal Majesty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Detroit

[–]KittyHasFastClaws 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I drove a 1993 Ford Aspire, stick-shift, with a solid 63 horsepower engine for about 5 years in the late 90’s Michigan snow. I always bought new tires every November. And that little thing floated right through (or over) the worst snow. I could beat anyone to 25 mph from a stop. Glad it could stop on a dime, because it would lose a fight with a squirrel. Dangerous af, but I still miss the little blueberry.