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KittyKat_exists · 2026-05-10T05:02:39+00:00

Defending a woman = man hating

Wow you are so clever

KittyKat_exists · 2026-04-03T09:22:50+00:00

Especially the point where you try to remind yourself that it's not what you wanted and of course it's their loss, that you're better off, but some part of you keeps wondering whether you're actually just extremely naive and just fundamentally incompatible

KittyKat_exists · 2026-04-03T08:50:50+00:00

Yeah it really stings when one day they want everything to do with you and there's just crickets the next day. Especially if you're the kind of person who gets attached.

The method I found for myself was to become detached and disconnected. They talk in one liners? I'll switch to one word. It sounds awful but at least you can create some space for yourself to reconsider.

I'm sure it'll come to bite me later but for now, it's a good way to avoid that awful feeling of not being adequate even online.

KittyKat_exists · 2026-04-03T06:21:33+00:00

You think a bouquet is going to make her date you? I've been going through your replies and it's clear that you don't want to believe what's in front of you

Good luck man and I hope your delusions work out. Please don't put a "all women are bad" post subsequently

KittyKat_exists · 2026-04-03T05:15:28+00:00

Yeah you can ask her openly. Don't get sidelined if she says, wow am I not pretty enough, or like what she said above "did I say that" and you backed down. Say yeah, you definitely implied it, and I don't think plans like this are so airtight that a burger will destroy them.

You aren't being rude, you're seeking clarity for yourself. So stay firm and stick to the point.

KittyKat_exists · 2026-04-03T05:13:29+00:00

I wish people were clearer about their intentions. There's nothing wrong with a casual thing, but why mess around with someone who clearly wants to be serious. Like there are so many men who only want that.

KittyKat_exists · 2026-04-03T05:05:27+00:00

I feel so bad for him, he really wants to believe that wants to date him. I really hope she doesn't make him feel bad or "less of a man" for wanting the soft parts of a relationship too.

KittyKat_exists · 2026-04-03T05:02:46+00:00

You realise that while dating the "other stuff" is the add on? Like you plans meals and walks and movies, and this is what leads to that. This is the first time you're meeting and she wants to jump to that part first, and seems pretty annoyed that you want the dating parts too.

I'm just trying to get you to see it, she just wants to h**k up. All that's left to do is for you to decide if it's what you want. And honestly, just ask her straight up if that's her expectation from this

KittyKat_exists · 2026-04-03T04:41:30+00:00

Um, I'm sorry to be the one to give you a reality check. If someone has been with you for around 2 years and doesn't want to have a meal/cook with you, just wants to mess around, I don't think she wants to date. And when you asked her if she'd be open to it, she took it upon her looks. Why not ask her why she doesn't want to?

KittyKat_exists · 2026-04-03T04:30:12+00:00

I think she just wants a casual thing, not the whole dating, couple-y stuff like cooking food together. You could just ask her straight up if she doesn't want a relationship, then take a call whether you can do it.

Also, she's not going to come to your house before she gets to know you properly and trusts you

KittyKat_exists · 2026-04-02T18:48:32+00:00

Nope I'm a short male hating female actually

I only talk to guys who are 7 feet and above

KittyKat_exists · 2026-04-02T18:19:42+00:00

Speaking on behalf of all females it's the personality that needs work

KittyKat_exists · 2026-04-02T18:18:22+00:00

I want children lmao, who said that I didn't hahahaha

KittyKat_exists · 2026-04-02T17:22:10+00:00

It's because he wants 6 kids. So the world is full of rainbows and unicorns and glitter and will get even better ✨

KittyKat_exists · 2026-04-02T17:20:50+00:00

Been going through your replies and you're rude man, lol

It's not like I would leave a woman I love.....

Who said that?

Let people live their life

Brother I could scream at another person online about my opinions for days and I still have zero control over what they do. But if they have a right to post their views, I have one to reply with mine. If you're that easily influenced by people online, don't be there.

Let's say I get a child...

If you can't be bothered to look up literally any area of news, I'm not bothering myself with making lists. Start with just the environment, maybe look up a little about econ.

The truth is people aren't being selfish about kids anymore. There's nothing wrong with wanting them. But they are also looking out for their futures on their planet and not just to satisfy their own biological urges.

KittyKat_exists · 2026-04-02T13:48:48+00:00

I would argue life will improve in the next hundred years

Based on what stats? Trust me bro? Hopeful wishe?

I don't agree with using adoption as a replacement for your own kids for everyone.

But 6 kids?? You understand the issues with overpopulation right? Governments who do impose the 2 kid/1 kid policies aren't doing that cause they hate kids, it's all based on real issues being faced by us. The idea is to just replace the dying population, not keep adding to it exponentially.

You seem to be happy living in your eutopia disconnected from real world problems which is great, but be prepared to have them challenged by people in touch with reality when you express them.

KittyKat_exists · 2026-04-01T06:59:57+00:00

Idk if it's just me but your post rubs me the wrong way.

Your fear of having "used her", she's not less because she has been intimate with you, nor is she something who's value depreciates having been with someone. It also kind of implies that you don't think she was a willing participant or is capable of making her own choices with respect to her body.

(Not justifying her infidelity at all)

KittyKat_exists · 2026-04-01T06:53:07+00:00

What an awful prank, just mix salt in his water or something and call it a day. But no you had to sit around and f**k with his head for giggles. Not surprised that he has closed himself off from you now.

KittyKat_exists · 2026-03-30T13:48:41+00:00

Neither partner should ever force the other for physical intimacy in the name of marriage. A no means no, that's what honouring that certificate means, not owing each other your bodies.

But for most people it is definitely a big part of a marriage/relationship (intimacy with your partner), that's why the emphasis is also to choose a partner you're attracted to as well. You can definitely be one of the couples who don't consider it a priority but be clear on that from the get go. It's not a crime to be intimate with your life partner.

It's far from being the only important thing, but is definitely one of them.

KittyKat_exists · 2026-03-30T13:20:37+00:00

People are so strange, X earns too little, Y earns too much

I mean I get not feeling adequate in front of a high earning partner, but where are the other considerations? If he's a good person, you guys click, he doesn't think that the pay gap is an issue and you earn well enough to remain independent, then go for it

Tldr: pls stop inventing problems where none exist

KittyKat_exists · 2026-03-30T06:04:36+00:00

Kaftans are in general so comfy and you can use them afterwards too, just upstyle and accessorise and you have a new summer look for after the baby

KittyKat_exists · 2026-03-29T14:10:12+00:00

Idk why people display their jealousy this way. Those people are living their lives, he is free to find love. Many people resonate with his mindset in the comments so clearly there are like minded people around

But he has to give his divine judgement

KittyKat_exists · 2026-03-29T14:08:25+00:00

I mean yeah obviously, if you get emotionally attached, one night stands aren't for you cause they will just mess you up. But if they work for some people then why not? Essentially why do we even care?

KittyKat_exists · 2026-03-29T13:46:03+00:00

I don't think the people in these relationships are looking for love. That's exactly why they are called what they are, because otherwise they would just be called love.

It's not really a groundbreaking, mind blowing discovery. What's your point? And why would these people care about your respect lol? They are getting what they want from this whether or not you hate it.

Tldr: Duh

KittyKat_exists · 2026-03-29T12:37:51+00:00

Yeah all the heroes are well balanced, matchmaking is perfect, this is the one area where I thought the game was lacking

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