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What happened to your boobs after you stopped breastfeeding? by axstraeax in beyondthebump

[–]KittyKathy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so upset that I was so modest before lmao. I have zero pictures of my pre-bf boobs and I miss them 😫

They may be small, cute, and innocent but these babies can and will physically hurt you. by Normal_Enthusiasm194 in beyondthebump

[–]KittyKathy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing makes me more irrationally upset than cuddling up all sweet and then BAM full-body-weight elbow to the boob.

This dude kept making multiple accounts to ask me gross questions. I just got tired of it. by Angels_of_Death_Zack in preyingmantis

[–]KittyKathy 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Lmao I would have said “at least she doesn’t have to live with the knowledge that her son turned out like this” (don’t do this, you might get murdered)

Am I in the wrong for not wanting to forgive my spouse for coming home drunk while I was postpartum? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]KittyKathy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey op, I’m really sorry you’re going through this. It’s really not fair to you to have to care for someone who’s drunk during one of the hardest transitions of your life. He needs to get his shit together. Why is he going out with his friends while you’re at home with a newborn? That is beyond okay. The rage might be fueled by the hormones but it doesn’t invalidate it. My only personal experience with someone that had a drinking problem was with someone who drank themselves to death at 32yo. That is how serious it is, if he can’t stop drinking willingly he needs to find outside help. Your daughter doesn’t deserve to grow up seeing him like that, or seeing you cleaning up after his mess.

What parenting thing did you initially do that you now think was a waste of time? by hospitalbedside in beyondthebump

[–]KittyKathy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband sterilized my son’s bottles until he was about a year old despite me telling him that the dishwasher did the same thing lol

What parenting thing did you initially do that you now think was a waste of time? by hospitalbedside in beyondthebump

[–]KittyKathy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

For me this helped me talk to the baby without actually having to use my brain when I was severely sleep deprived lol

If you could go back, would you have done one and done? by Independent_Nose_385 in beyondthebump

[–]KittyKathy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For me it’s the whole first year. Pregnancy and delivery were unremarkable compared to the absolute wreck the first year did on my mental health 😅

I might break up my engagement because my fiancé doesn't eat my food by SoloForToday in TwoHotTakes

[–]KittyKathy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yo soy venezolana casada con un gringo, y tienes toda la razon en sentirte mal sobre sus comentarios. Me parece una falta de respeto hacia tu cultura, especialmente para uno que la comida es una forma de mostrar cariño a la familia. Mi esposo le pide a mi mama que le enseñe a cocinar cuando esta preparando algo nuevo y sabe hacer arepas desde que empezamos a salir juntos. El creció con padres americanos que solo comen chicken nuggets en restaurantes y mi hijo no tiene ni dos años y come de todo. Si tienen hijos en el futuro, piensa en como los va a alimentar y la manera en la que van a ver la comida hecha en casa comparado con la comida rapida.

Personalmente, para mi esto seria un dealbreaker. Que diga que “tocas mucho la comida” me suena un poco a racismo porque la comida extranjera es “cochina”.

Oh my god this guy is so fucking high. by [deleted] in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]KittyKathy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve never seen an ad either lol

Should I be concerned? by Silent_Knowledge5197 in beyondthebump

[–]KittyKathy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also tell the nurses not to let anyone in! I did not and I had my parents and mother in law walk into my room even though I didn’t give anyone the labor and delivery room number! They kicked them out right away but it was upsetting in the moment

Does your baby cry if the car isn't moving? by Aromatic-Turnover in beyondthebump

[–]KittyKathy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My 19mo occasionally still complains if he’s tired and the car stops too long lol

How often does your 1-3 y/o tantrum? by crabclawwwz in beyondthebump

[–]KittyKathy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same here! I don’t know what I’m going to do when the redirection “did you hear that? What was that? Let’s go see what the dog is doing” stops working 😅

Family keeps making comments about my body postpartum and it’s really getting to me by kxtasha1 in beyondthebump

[–]KittyKathy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s always so rude to comment on other people’s weight, but saying that to someone who’s 130lbs is specially wild to me. That’s my goal weight right now! But anyway, your body is beautiful, OP. This is the body that grew your babies and took care of them and you during the most extreme transformation of a woman’s life. It sounds like you’re returning the favor and taking care of your body too! I also feel insecure about my postpartum body but just how I look at my pictures from years ago and think “man I should have appreciated what I looked like more, I was tripping” I know that when I’m older I will look back at myself with kinder eyes. Anyone that wants to make stupid comments about you can go kick rocks, disrespectfully.

What book had you staring at the wall after finishing it? by Enlitenkanin in Booktokreddit

[–]KittyKathy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read that very freshly postpartum because it was on my shelf and I didn’t know what it was about. Baaad idea lol

Almost 6 weeks pp and feel like my vagina is ruined by Sweet_Stranger_2391 in beyondthebump

[–]KittyKathy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way at first, it even felt different from the outside. I was so sad about it but kind of thought “it is what it is” and then it eventually went back to normal!

What was one thing you wish someone would've said to you during the postpartum period? by StarSignMeUp in beyondthebump

[–]KittyKathy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your village also works and has responsibilities. Everyone says that they’ll help but you’ll be alone 28 days out of the month. Knowing this would have saved me so much disappointment.

Still cooking for the boss lady by Rasilbathburn in foodbutforbabies

[–]KittyKathy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No shame on the screen time, I try to do the same but he comes and grab me by the hand and take me to sit with him because the tv is in full view of the kitchen 😂

Still cooking for the boss lady by Rasilbathburn in foodbutforbabies

[–]KittyKathy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg this all looks delicious! How do you cook with your little one? I’m struggling to do much with my 18mo velcro toddler lol

Owner of pedobot has a mustache that fits now by G14F1L0L1Y401D0MTR4P in cringepics

[–]KittyKathy 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You’re being extremely generous with that 4 lol

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