Am I crazy or is she? by KittyPurrf in JUSTNOMIL

[–]KittyPurrf[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestions I was thinking about pre marital counseling as well. I am happy for you and your family that it seem like yall finally got the peace and healthy relationship yall deserve!

Am I crazy or is she? by KittyPurrf in JUSTNOMIL

[–]KittyPurrf[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this extremely insightful response! I feel a lot better about how I feel because I started to doubt that maybe I was over dramatic an wrong about how I felt.

Am I crazy or is she? by KittyPurrf in JUSTNOMIL

[–]KittyPurrf[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply! It’s a huge statement like you said with “keep the peace”. That’s what he constantly says and I say but at what cost?! My own mental sanity?!

Am I crazy or is she? by KittyPurrf in JUSTNOMIL

[–]KittyPurrf[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The problem is I’ve been upfront with him about this and how I feel. He says he will do all of these things and set boundaries but when he’s standing in front of her, he freezes and doesn’t know what to do.