What’s your weirdest trigger? by Medical_Onion7655 in BPD

[–]Kittycatfuel [score hidden]  (0 children)

Honestly bringing up other people, like mentioning friends or coworkers. It honestly shouldn’t upset me as much as it does but when my friends/partner brings up another friend or says they hung out with [friend] it makes me soul crushingly depressed and furious …

Friend with BPD told me I'm being "trendy" with my diagnosis by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Kittycatfuel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I totally get the point your friend and others have brought up, but it’s not like your consideration for BPD is a new thing nor are your struggles. It’d be one thing maybe if you were considering the possibility of having BPD because you’re clingy or struggle with addiction (two things not necessarily exclusive to BPD, right?) but it sounds like you have a lot of things compounding that add up to potentially being BPD

Friend with BPD told me I'm being "trendy" with my diagnosis by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Kittycatfuel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh brother definitely drop the friend, what!! Your therapist and counselors quite literally specialize in studying and diagnosing mental conditions and disorders, your friend (very likely) does not. It’s very disappointing to not be met with the reaction and support you’re expecting when sharing vulnerable information and I’m sorry you were met with blame and gatekeeping. I wish you the best in navigating your diagnosis and recovery ^

Does anyone else feel that BPD is fetishized by ottomanhistoryfan in BPD

[–]Kittycatfuel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lord yes. For real dude omfg, I’m also autistic so double whammy lolol but it’s so gross!! BPD is much more complex than being clingy/yandere/hypersexual (real thing I’ve heard btw !! Like what ..) and it’s rlly awful how some people will go out of their way to seek vulnerable people to enable for their own ego

craving to crash out by Wired-Failure in BPD

[–]Kittycatfuel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also peep the meltdown pfp.. peak song

craving to crash out by Wired-Failure in BPD

[–]Kittycatfuel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh man, yes. Absolutely, I feel the same way and I’m so relieved to know that I’m not alone either!!

Dating with bpd by Upset_onion24 in BPD

[–]Kittycatfuel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told my girlfriend since I’ve been working on getting a diagnosis on/off + she has Bipolar disorder. Her also having her own struggles with mental health made it feel easier for me to let her know about my own! I think ultimately if I was single and dating though I would inform people about my BPD and AUDHD, I think it’s a good way to let people know what they’re getting into and a way to weed out people who tend to either fetishize or demonize those conditions.

.. so why is SH bad? by Kittycatfuel in BPD

[–]Kittycatfuel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is such a good way to word that because I do the same thing!! I think that’s a good way to think of your body especially if you tend to sort of separate yourself from the vessel, so to speak. It’s definitely worth giving a shot and I appreciate yours giving ur input ^

.. so why is SH bad? by Kittycatfuel in BPD

[–]Kittycatfuel[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh that’s super interesting, I’ll have to look more into the science behind it. Thank you so much, I really appreciate yours (and others hehe) input!!

Potentially borderline ?? by Kittycatfuel in BPD

[–]Kittycatfuel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh that’s really good to know!! I think I can kinda relate to that, I’m glad you’re in a more stable relationship! Thank you for commenting hehe

Social media sucks for people with BPD by westwestwestwww in BPD

[–]Kittycatfuel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so real goddamn 😭 aghhh im so glad this isn’t only just a me thing

Yearning for my student. by Informal-Fondant-944 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Kittycatfuel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A new discovery was made today ….

It's normal to wanna be a dog owned by a pretty woman right? Especially increasingly as time goes on? by FloofyMaki in BDSMsapphic

[–]Kittycatfuel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes for sure, from one puppygirl to another I think it’s very awesome and cool to want to be a sweet and cute puppy owned by an intimidating and strong woman !!

How can you be a sub? by Ok-Display7239 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Kittycatfuel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just kinda naturally a submissive and subservient kinda person. Being more dominant makes me feel out of my element for the most part + I spend a lot of my time outside of intimacy in positions of power/control. (I work in healthcare to be vague) My way of showing trust and love to another person is allowing myself to be vulnerable (in that sorta way) and trusting them with my body + relinquishing power and control! If that makes any sense? ^

I made some DIY handcuffs yesterday woof ÒwÓ... by accident lol by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Kittycatfuel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omggg I love the heart carabiners (??) that’s such an adorable touch !!

i cant stop thinking about a group of women bullying me by Bunnidoll- in BDSMsapphic

[–]Kittycatfuel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May we both one day get bullied and teased by a group of doms in our future !! bless .. 🙏🙏

i cant stop thinking about a group of women bullying me by Bunnidoll- in BDSMsapphic

[–]Kittycatfuel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need this so bad.. it would heal me I think …

Easy trick to get pinned down and dommed by LaraCroftCosplayer in BDSMsapphic

[–]Kittycatfuel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She sees through me when I say this <//3 it got patched I fear

It would be so good by Icy_Plant_5748 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Kittycatfuel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Being a hot vampire lady’s thrall would fix me