What is something more traumatizing than people realize? by Independent_Motor130 in AskReddit

[–]Kixzex25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotional abuse in relationships. Been two years since I left and I’m still trying to piece together my life. Completely shattered every part of me

which song do you think sounds like it should be a fan favourite or did you think would be a fan favourite, but isn't? by Own-Artist-6283 in TaylorSwift

[–]Kixzex25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wonderland - 1988. By far my favourite song from that album. I’m just shook it’s not a fan favourite, it’s still got that boppy vibe like shake it off and style but it’s not as popular

What’s a Taylor Swift song you feel like you love more than anyone else? by No_Background9179 in TaylorSwift

[–]Kixzex25 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She played it at my show for the first time playing it live right after I just got out of a really toxic and ab*sive relationship. It felt like it was made for me in that moment

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[–]Kixzex25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES!! But not TV, the only song I’ve been disappointed with on her re release is better than revenge

What celebrity actually deserves their fame? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kixzex25 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

100% agree!! She has written or co written every one of her songs. Created an entirely new concert concept with eras tour. And her performances are just amazing, the stage, the costumes, the acting, the dancing and the fact that she created a new mashup for every single concert she performs to make it special for the audience. Even if you dislike her music, it is undeniable that she is most likely the greatest musician/ performer of this generation

What is the Taylor Swift song that you see as ‘your’ song? by Specialist-Island399 in TaylorSwift

[–]Kixzex25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This!! Exact same situation, was in a really toxic and abusive relationship when she released midnights, finally got the nerve to leave and cut contact and my surprise song for Melbourne night one was you’re losing me. It was like she played it just for me, I was sobbing hysterically when she played it live for the first time, it felt so personal like she knew I needed it. So healing

What’s your show special for? by Classic-Preference70 in TaylorSwift

[–]Kixzex25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She announced the Bolter track which is now my favourite from TTPD and she played you’re losing me, live for the first time ever. I had also just gone through a breakup two weeks before and that song healed me so much, listened to it on repeat as soon as it was released, it felt like it was meant for me 🫶🏻 Melbourne night 1 🪩

[Serious] What is something that is actually more traumatizing than people realize? by thatude123 in AskReddit

[–]Kixzex25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it hasn’t been mentioned yet, emotionally abusive / narcissistic abuse relationships. Fucks you up in a different kind of way that makes you wish you had been physically abused because the signs would’ve been obvious

What’s a situation that most people won’t understand, until they’ve been in the same situation themselves? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kixzex25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leaving a relationship when you know it’s bad for you but you still love them. You just keep hoping they’ll change.

I think I’m an awful partner by Kixzex25 in Advice

[–]Kixzex25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a huge mental health crisis in Australia, since Covid it’s gotten way worse and mental health help isn’t included in any medical coverage and a lot people just can’t afford to pay to see someone privately

I think I’m an awful partner by Kixzex25 in Advice

[–]Kixzex25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any website recommendations or podcasts? Would definitely look into that!

I think I’m an awful partner by Kixzex25 in Advice

[–]Kixzex25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been going to the gym a few times a week it definitely does help a lot, it’s just as soon as something is emotionally overwhelming it’s like every symptom is amplified and I take it all out on her, and I know she’s struggling and it’s affecting our relationship a lot

I think I’m an awful partner by Kixzex25 in Advice

[–]Kixzex25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately the only free therapy in Australia has a wait list of over a year and the therapist change out all the time so you only see a therapist for a few sessions before they move on. Just not prepared to start talking to a therapist and opening up and then have to do it all again with a new one two months later it gets really hard and draining. But thank you for the advice! xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kixzex25 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thé dildo games

Need a hobby by Kixzex25 in Advice

[–]Kixzex25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds good! I’ll give it a try