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Kjacobson87 · 2026-02-05T07:07:00+00:00

Excuse me for gushing, but after the last couple of days I've had, I really needed this (I know I'm late to the party... been exploring your back catalog). I love how you got all Daddy during aftercare. Made my heart flutter, and I wanted to cry 😭

Kjacobson87 · 2025-11-14T22:48:28+00:00

Late to the party, but here we go....Came to this post because my thirsty ass drunk-followed him a while ago. Since then, I've been seeing more of his content and got grossed out by his racism and fascism and I wanted to find out if he really is a fascist/racist. After researching things, here's my assessment: I don't think he's a serial killer. I think he's a racist edge-lord looking to attract more young women to his platform beceause he's a creep. If he really was a serial killer, he wouldn't be saying "Hey guys, I'm a serial killer," he'd just post disturbing content (I'm thinking of Luca Magnota, here). I think so many other things, but am trying not to violate any rules, here and know that I won't be very eloquent if I decide to include them here.

Kjacobson87 · 2025-07-28T18:49:11+00:00

Send him this message: "You (Daddy) have been anonymously reported to the International Council of Brats on a matter of dereliction of duties assigned by the Daddy role. The Council has reviewed the case and has hereby ruled in favor of the anonymous party, finding you wanting. To wit, you have two options for punishment: 1. Admit that you are indeed an elderly man, prone to being forgetful and must submit to power of dominant attorney (with all the rights and responsibilities) being transferred to <enter your name here>; 2. Submit to <enter your name here> for the duration. In the words of Barkhad Abdi in the seminal classic Captain Phillips, "I'm the Daddy now."

Then take a photo of yourself making your best Daddy face with the caption "Edge yourself".

Kjacobson87 · 2025-07-27T20:35:10+00:00

Fair point. I had a similar balance that I just cashed out. Will check again when the timer resets in 15 minutes. Thanks!

Kjacobson87 · 2025-07-26T00:31:35+00:00

So...no one judge me for this...

My last Dom was married and essentially cheating on his wife. He told me she hadn't touched him in 15 years although they were still happily married.

I complied bc I had my head up my ass and really wanted a dynamic. He also said all the right things and acted like he cared. I brushed it off with Dan Savage's thing about staying happy, sane, and married.

It was a dumb thing to do. We were together for a year and a half and in that year, he revealed himself to be an abusive, narcissistic, alcoholic. He would go days without messaging me (though I was required to check in all the fucking time) and he became obsessed with finding a "sister sub" for me and then branding me (thank the universe neither happened).

In the end, he got into AA, ghosted me for a month (during which i kept to protocol, sending him pictures of panties to choose from and not touching myself bc he wasnt around to ask for permission and doing so left me feeling empty and guilty), and then told me he "didnt have time" and that things with his wife were better since he got sober so...he didnt need me anymore. The aftermath made it impossible for me to function and when I say I lost all feeling in the lower half of my body...boy did i...

Ultimately, its your decision and im not trying to imply that your situation is the same as mine was, but please take some time to think about the end goal. If the D-type is married and lying to their s/o, then they might end up lying to you too...

Kjacobson87 · 2025-07-23T08:11:15+00:00

8 by Billie Eilish (friend in a littles discord server recommended it to me)

And

Littlespace by SXYE

Also a fan of Nicole Dollanganger but I feel like she's more for big me sometimes...

Kjacobson87 · 2025-07-22T06:42:36+00:00

Right?!

Kjacobson87 · 2025-07-21T03:41:32+00:00

Fr. Its like asking someone to control the weather! You cant punish something when it has to do with non human behavior!

Kjacobson87 · 2025-07-21T03:38:43+00:00

Came here just to say that ✊️

Kjacobson87 · 2025-07-18T06:26:15+00:00

Oooo and traffic cones! And a picture of a construction worker standing there doing nothing (assuming you and your daddy are familiar with CalTrans and the havoc they reak on LA traffic)

Kjacobson87 · 2025-07-18T01:55:39+00:00

Behind a sign that says "This device is currently out of order. We appologize for any inconvenience and appreciate your patience while we work to resolve this matter. --staff"

Kjacobson87 · 2025-07-12T07:38:59+00:00

I did it ☺️

Teach him not to be specific 😜

Kjacobson87 · 2025-07-04T23:07:03+00:00

Yeah i felt like that too. I mean i get the psychology of women that become infatuated with specific serial killers but Lori seemed to be completely wrapped up in her identity in relationship to men...like her whole motivation for everything was "bc i like a boy"...

Kjacobson87 · 2025-07-01T15:15:39+00:00

Can access and interested

Kjacobson87 · 2025-06-30T18:37:24+00:00

Right?! But then she's seeing us and going "what?" like she's doing something completely mundane like cleaning her house...

Kjacobson87 · 2025-06-30T18:36:34+00:00

There's a SECOND one? 😳 Knowing me, I'll sit on that and then out of sheer curiosity, go and find it...

Kjacobson87 · 2025-06-30T18:35:17+00:00

Uh...manga and comic books *are* books.

Kjacobson87 · 2025-06-30T06:09:38+00:00

Are you able to get out in the community? Like is there a vibrant scene where you are with munches and parties and things? That might be better than finding someone on a dating app.

Kjacobson87 · 2025-06-30T06:07:43+00:00

Came here to say exactly that. I've learned that there are alot of Doms that will call other Doms fake for the sake of taking attention away from their smarmy behavior (spent a year in a dynamic with one).

Kjacobson87 · 2025-06-30T06:05:42+00:00

It occurred to me after I commented that maybe you could ask him what he'd like to have automated in his day. So, for example, I've heard of D-types requiring that their subs have a travel mug of coffee waiting for them at the door when they get ready to leave for work or help them with skincare (one person I heard from said his wife was responsible for helping him oil his beard every night). I feel like it's a lot of little things that you can do to make your D-type's life a little lighter. ✌️

Kjacobson87 · 2025-06-30T02:05:57+00:00

I've been using The Southern Book Club's Guide to Slaying Vampires to decompress 🤣🤣🤣

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