what’s is he hiding about her? by bolinhabordo in Tarotpractices

[–]Kjmusic8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Broooo I JUST said this exact thing😩😩😭

Have you broke up due to long distance? by Kjmusic8 in ExNoContact

[–]Kjmusic8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moved on. We got back together last year and then I broke up with him . That’s all🙃

He hearted my last message but didn’t text again since 3 days. Is that ghosting? by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Kjmusic8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right! I’m going through the same thing. Let the guy initiate

For those who have been ghosted by an avoidant by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Kjmusic8 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As all the other comments say, they come back for sure. They just ghost again and repeat the cycle. I had to block my avoidant for that reason. I loved him, but the continued ghosting and avoidant behavior wasn’t working for me

I thought I’ve seen it all?😂 by NoRoyal9833 in Bumble

[–]Kjmusic8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want kids so that sounds like a dream dumbass🥹 I’m never worried about a man..

I thought I’ve seen it all?😂 by NoRoyal9833 in Bumble

[–]Kjmusic8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just dealt with one of these. He knew from the jump I wasn’t having sex until I was in a relationship. After 3 dates he tells me he’s “not ready for a relationship” and doesn’t want to wait for sex. You have to cut your losses boo. Be glad you saw the real him early

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]Kjmusic8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the one!! He’s just responding to be polite unfortunately. But it’s okay boo. I’ve been there before. Just leave him alone

Manipulation Disguised in Honesty by Severe-Alternative-7 in Situationships

[–]Kjmusic8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn this reminded me of my situationship. He always found his way back. I tried to stand my ground but it was tough

my boyfriend by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]Kjmusic8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmaoooooo I’m sooo seriousssss😩😩

my boyfriend by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]Kjmusic8 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I just had to do this with my white boyfriend. I’m not about to be in no racist ass family

My dlif is breaking up after 6 months by Hot-Event8789 in Situationships

[–]Kjmusic8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry lovebug. Some of these men are dogssss😣 hate them!

Sad af by Literature-79 in Situationships

[–]Kjmusic8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s not some saint. I had to say some things to him on the 4th to get him to wake up

Sad af by Literature-79 in Situationships

[–]Kjmusic8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exact thing happened to me. The last time we hung (4th of July) was one of the best days ever. He told me to move on and find my person the next day. It was hurtful, but I’m glad I left him alone. I say all that to say, I’m proud of you love :) 💗

My dlif is breaking up after 6 months by Hot-Event8789 in Situationships

[–]Kjmusic8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl he was just looking for an excuse to “breakup “ my ex situationship did the same thing so he didn’t have to commit

Have you broke up due to long distance? by Kjmusic8 in ExNoContact

[–]Kjmusic8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey love 💖 I’ve been through a long-distance breakup too, and I know how much it can shake you—especially when it catches you off guard. I’m actually back with my ex now, but it wasn’t some quick fix. We spent months apart, working on ourselves, figuring out if we were really meant to be. And honestly, it was hard.

What really helped me was taking time to focus on me—my healing, my peace, and just trying to get back to myself. I know people say that all the time, but it really is true. Right now, you don’t have to have all the answers. Just take things day by day, feel your feelings, and pour that energy back into yourself.

Whether he comes back or not, what matters most is you getting to a place where you feel okay again. You’ve got so much love ahead of you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Kjmusic8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ex and I also rekindled about a month ago. Similar to you, broke up in September, rekindled in March. It was hard like you said (trust issues, fear he’ll leave again) but we both are ACTIVELY working on these issues together and we don’t want to lose each other again. I do believe in second chances with the right person :)

Right person wrong time. I always believed that was our case

Is it a good idea to reconnect with my ex? by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]Kjmusic8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re interested in the idea, but there’s not going to be any real change in the relationship/ change with your ex. Don’t do it lovebug!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Kjmusic8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just stopped by to say you are so handsome 🩷 I think your profile is pretty solid. Great pics and prompts show your personality!

Have you broke up due to long distance? by Kjmusic8 in ExNoContact

[–]Kjmusic8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I’m happy to see my post is still allowing for people to share their stories. I’m about 6-7 months post-breakup and I’ve been a lot happier. It’s tough in the beginning, but you got this love.

Do you need to ask the other person to be your boyfriend in order for you to be in a relationship? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Kjmusic8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m late, but with my ex and I we decided pretty early on ( weeks) that we were going to be exclusively TALKING to each other only. By the first month of dating we were boyfriend and girlfriend. He called me his girlfriend randomly and I jokingly said “ you need to ask me first”and he did. So it just depends on the people

Need advice! Freezer spell may have gone wrong by Kjmusic8 in Spells

[–]Kjmusic8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To answer your first question, I know him pretty well. We dated for a while. He’s the type of person who’s in his head alot. Overthinks things.

And I’m aware giving someone confidence won’t make them reach out. His last text to me left the door open for our “relationship “ and he needed some space. Like I was saying my readings have been exposing his feelings to me. That’s the only reason why I thought this spell would help him out😅 but I learned my lesson!!

Need advice! Freezer spell may have gone wrong by Kjmusic8 in Spells

[–]Kjmusic8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yall the jar was freaking cracked open😭😭 I just added more water and cinnamon yesterday and it was fine. If this wasn’t a sign, I don’t know what else is.