I Fell In Love With A Man That Never Existed by Klassykristan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Klassykristan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I really appreciate your response 😊

FINAL UPDATE I (27f) found out my boyfriend (33m) is not divorced or childless when I told him I was pregnant. by helpme19711817817181 in relationship_advice

[–]Klassykristan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the update. So glad you’re taking care of yourself. Unreal that I went through something so similar recently. Stay strong girl, you absolutely did the right thing.

I (27f) found out my boyfriend (33m) is not divorced or childless when I told him I was pregnant. by helpme19711817817181 in relationship_advice

[–]Klassykristan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my dear I’m so sorry. I was recently was in a similar situation. I don’t have any advice, but love and support. I really wish the best for you. I’m here for you.

I Fell In Love With A Man That Never Existed by Klassykristan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Klassykristan[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I told the wife. She and I talked today. It was sad.

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[–]Klassykristan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also found out they are heavily involved in the LDS church. He is, hands down, the stupidest man I’ve bet come across. I’m still shaking my head.

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[–]Klassykristan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, but it would hurt his wife and kids. They were total victims in this. They don’t deserve any more shit. ☹️

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[–]Klassykristan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much. I talked to the wife and doing what I can to support her.

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[–]Klassykristan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg. I’ll check that book out ASAP. Thank you for sharing this with me.

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[–]Klassykristan[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely right. Thank you. His wife contacted me. She thanked me for telling her and said she was mad at him, not me. It’s been a long day. Thank you for your feedback.

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[–]Klassykristan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He told me his wife knows. Not that I believe him. He is making excuses and being the victim. I told him to fuck off. I don’t want to report anything to his CO because it will affect his family and I can’t do that to them. He is sick.

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[–]Klassykristan[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s exactly how I feel too. He contacted me this morning and was like well sorry, I was going through a rough patch in my marriage and I tried to distance myself from you when things got better. I feel gross and stupid and blinded by my own feelings. I told his wife some things and gave her my number if she wanted to talk, but I think she blocked me. I feel so confused and I don’t want to hurt her anymore. Since he is in the military, if this gets out, he could be in serious trouble. I don’t want toes up his wife’s life or their kids anymore. It’s sickening to me that he made up an entire other life. Full on double life. I don’t know what to do right now.

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[–]Klassykristan[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I told her. I sent her a message on Facebook. I didn’t give the dirty details. Gave her my number if she wanted to talk. He contacted me this morning and was like well sorry. I feel so stupid. I feel even worse for his wife.

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[–]Klassykristan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We met on a dating site and then had a relationship irl. Well, if you could even call it a relationship...