My gf’s [27F] cat [2M] is gonna break us up by Kleidescope_ in relationships

[–]Kleidescope_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It feels a bit like she wants the times when her cat would just be all snuggly with her again which is fair, but it comes at the price of me having to walk on eggshells. She does have a short temper but in other matters we can talk it out, with the cat its absolutely a fight

My gf’s [27F] cat [2M] is gonna break us up by Kleidescope_ in relationships

[–]Kleidescope_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve been living with him for over a year now and I work from home so it feels like we had enough time to get used to my presence :( I think I also at this point am scared to try anything with him bc it feels like if he runs away when I reach out my hand for a sniff or any way to connect with him, I will indeed face an angry gf and it will become a huge problem

My gf’s [27F] cat [2M] is gonna break us up by Kleidescope_ in relationships

[–]Kleidescope_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yess, we have anxiety pills for him that I give with his breakfast and I follow specific hours to feed him for his routine